Relationship problem

[jiggagold]

Anyways heres my story i recently have been seeing this girl for about 2 months while ive been down at this new college, shes a pretty, athletic girl who plays basketball at this school and I'm playing baseball and leaving to play at Northern Illinois after next spring. Shes from Wisconsin and now we are at a CC in Iowa. From what i have established from being with her she is the relationship type girl getting in them fairly quick and tries to be controlling. She went to this school last year and this is my first and only year here till i transfer. I guess no one has ever seen her how she is with me (always taking me out to eat, buying me stuff, always coming over to my place) so basically im in control, she just got out of a long relationship about a month before she met me and it seems to me the guys she has dated are a bunch of pussys.

I did something i probably shouldnt have but i dont quite trust her yet, i got up early to turn off her alarm cuz it is loud and obnoxious and it was opened up to her messaging screen, so i was curious and noticed alot of texts from her old bf andhow he still loves her and blah blah, and she still loves him too, he asked her if he had any intentions of getting back together with her and she said she has every intention, and right now we are in a 'relationship' and it is my first one since high school (ive never been the relationship dude i just like to go out and smash and not get feelings for the girl) should i just keep hittin it and gettin free stuff till she dumps me or somethin because i really havent fell for her i just feel her a lot and we connect pretty well, i cant really say anything to her cuz i invaded her privacy but im glad i know now so i dont really get strong feelings for her and then get my heart broken or somethin, oh and this dude lives in wisconsin so shell prolly go home for break and get some more dick in her, even though she told me i was the only one that could smash her poontang correct

what should i do?

 

[all the whey]

Smart for not telling her you read her im's.

I had this happen a few times. I enjoy it. No, pressure. Just bang her. Go out with your friends and do what you want.

As soon as she says shit, just tell her well you are still in love with your ex. Now, bend over!


You are in a better place than her ex. Most guys have a gf who is away at school and think they are still in looove. But, they are always getting dick.

 

[velvett]

You don't live together?
Right??

Relationship is damaged - you will never trust her anyway.

You have a few weeks of school left right? Before and after Thanksgiving? Be causal, cool friendly and prepare to end your semester.

Go home to your family during break, don't call her but if she calls you be friendly but not lovey dovey - if it comes up in conversation just say you want to go to your new school single so you can concentrate on your games and studies, transfer to your new school and move on.



Happy Holidays.

 

[jiggagold]

no we dont live together but she always sleeps over for the obvious reasons

 

[nimbus]

damn dude. usually with threads like these it's either not a real problem, or the poster sucks at life and deserves what he is getting. i'm honestly clueless..you seem like you're totally on top of your shit and you're just getting owned by human nature.

if it's any consolation i think there's a good chance this is just talk and she won't actually do anything with him. Everyone strings potentials along just in case.

 

[velvett]

no we dont live together but she always sleeps over for the obvious reasons

Well, you can either keep bumping uglies or you can come right out and tell her that's you're just not into it anymore.

 

[all the whey]

no we dont live together but she always sleeps over for the obvious reasons

Just ride it out.

When the shit hits the fan. Just say "I can't believe she was still with her ex". to her friends

Then, bang her friends.

 

[velvett]

Just ride it out.

When the shit hits the fan. Just say "I can't believe she was still with her ex". to her friends

Then, bang her friends.

Damn, I should have used that one...






























Oh but that would have made me a ho anyway.
*shucks*

 

[jiggagold]

Just ride it out.

When the shit hits the fan. Just say "I can't believe she was still with her ex". to her friends

Then, bang her friends.

damn thats a good one mang, im just gonna end it so i can use that one haha

 

[nimbus]

damn thats a good one mang, im just gonna end it so i can use that one haha

they're gonna think you're a creep for reading her msgs.

 

[jiggagold]

damn dude. usually with threads like these it's either not a real problem, or the poster sucks at life and deserves what he is getting. i'm honestly clueless..you seem like you're totally on top of your shit and you're just getting owned by human nature.

if it's any consolation i think there's a good chance this is just talk and she won't actually do anything with him. Everyone strings potentials along just in case.

yea i just dont know shit, i dont have any problems baggin chicks but there arent to many good ones where im at so i figured id stick this one out and ride the wave till it ends

 

[all the whey]

damn dude. usually with threads like these it's either not a real problem, or the poster sucks at life and deserves what he is getting. i'm honestly clueless..you seem like you're totally on top of your shit and you're just getting owned by human nature.

if it's any consolation i think there's a good chance this is just talk and she won't actually do anything with him. Everyone strings potentials along just in case.

WTF? I usually agree with you.

Right now there is some guy telling her guy in Wisconsin. "She won't actually do anything with that guy from school. He isn't even going to be around next yr."

They are probably still together or even engaged.

 

[jiggagold]

they're gonna think you're a creep for reading her msgs.

it was a first for me and just happened by chance, but most of her friends are on the bball team and look like rosie oddonell or queen latifa

 

[all the whey]

yea i just dont know shit, i dont have any problems baggin chicks but there arent to many good ones where im at so i figured id stick this one out and ride the wave till it ends

Nice.

Talk her into doing threesomes and whatever else you want.

She will do this stuff with you, but not her bf or whatever chump marries her.

BTW. Every girl you go out with will be doing the same thing with an ex or a "friend" if you know it or not.

 

[jiggagold]

WTF? I usually agree with you.

Right now there is some guy telling her guy in Wisconsin. "She won't actually do anything with that guy from school. He isn't even going to be around next yr."

They are probably still together or even engaged.

and that last part u said doesnt bother me cuz im gettin my rocks off and enjoyin every minute ofit

 

[velvett]

and that last part u said doesnt bother me cuz im gettin my rocks off and enjoyin every minute ofit

SO where's the problem?

That you snooped?
Or that you feel like she's making a fool of you?

 

[all the whey]

and that last part u said doesnt bother me cuz im gettin my rocks off and enjoyin every minute ofit

Cool

Like I said it is better to be the guy that is banging her. Than, the guy who is in lloooovvvee with an angel who is away at school.


Oh shit I fogot!

Take pics and get vids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!$@@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

 

[jiggagold]

SO where's the problem?

That you snooped?
Or that you feel like she's making a fool of you?

i just didnt understand the whole situation and you guys put it together pretty clear, i just didnt want to somehow become a fool in love and have it shitty in the end because i've never been with the same woman for over 3 months let alone completely fall for one

 

[jiggagold]

One other quick question, i could probably talk about it with my roomate who ive been friends with for 7 years, and tell him whats goin on, or should i just keep my mouth shut till it ends?

 

[velvett]

i just didnt understand the whole situation and you guys put it together pretty clear, i just didnt want to somehow become a fool in love and have it shitty in the end because i've never been with the same woman for over 3 months let alone completely fall for one

I totally hear you.

You seem like you're a solid kind of guy - don't let girls get in the way of your success at school.

 

[all the whey]

One other quick question, i could probably talk about it with my roomate who ive been friends with for 7 years, and tell him whats goin on, or should i just keep my mouth shut till it ends?

I love comparing notes on how scandalous women are with my friends.

However, you have to trust him.

I found a note a gf had that said she was seeing someone else. I didn't say anything to her and continued hitting it at my lesure. A "friend" of mine told her I went through her shit and found the note. She got pissed at me. He just wanted to hit it.

 

[velvett]

One other quick question, i could probably talk about it with my roomate who ive been friends with for 7 years, and tell him whats goin on, or should i just keep my mouth shut till it ends?

I wouldn't only because you'd put him in a position to have to lie or not say anything and he may start to treat her poorly which would put you in a bad place.

 

[chewyxrage]

You going to NIU next year? I graduated last year. Hit me up when you get here....

 

[Tytan]

Smash and go.....

 

[Wulfgar]

All girls will tell you your the only one who can smash the honey pot the best bro

Ive been fucked up, couldnt get my dick hard, accidently bit the bitches clit going down on her then puked on her stomach when I came......a week later she told me I was the best she ever had

chances are someone is hittin it better, it is just a fact of life..

 

[nimbus]

WTF? I usually agree with you.

Right now there is some guy telling her guy in Wisconsin. "She won't actually do anything with that guy from school. He isn't even going to be around next yr."

They are probably still together or even engaged.

first off, not all women cheat. secondly, even with scandalous hookers, there are types of guys who never or almost never get cheated on. talk to any habitual cheater, and they will always say they've cheated on every bf but one. The special "one" always fits the same profile, and what's funny is they usually end up cheating on the girl. From the posts of his that i've read, jigga seems like the type of guy who doesnt get cheated on

 

[Sub-Zero]

Anyways heres my story i recently have been seeing this girl for about 2 months while ive been down at this new college, shes a pretty, athletic girl who plays basketball at this school and I'm playing baseball and leaving to play at Northern Illinois after next spring. Shes from Wisconsin and now we are at a CC in Iowa. From what i have established from being with her she is the relationship type girl getting in them fairly quick and tries to be controlling. She went to this school last year and this is my first and only year here till i transfer. I guess no one has ever seen her how she is with me (always taking me out to eat, buying me stuff, always coming over to my place) so basically im in control, she just got out of a long relationship about a month before she met me and it seems to me the guys she has dated are a bunch of pussys.

I did something i probably shouldnt have but i dont quite trust her yet, i got up early to turn off her alarm cuz it is loud and obnoxious and it was opened up to her messaging screen, so i was curious and noticed alot of texts from her old bf andhow he still loves her and blah blah, and she still loves him too, he asked her if he had any intentions of getting back together with her and she said she has every intention, and right now we are in a 'relationship' and it is my first one since high school (ive never been the relationship dude i just like to go out and smash and not get feelings for the girl) should i just keep hittin it and gettin free stuff till she dumps me or somethin because i really havent fell for her i just feel her a lot and we connect pretty well, i cant really say anything to her cuz i invaded her privacy but im glad i know now so i dont really get strong feelings for her and then get my heart broken or somethin, oh and this dude lives in wisconsin so shell prolly go home for break and get some more dick in her, even though she told me i was the only one that could smash her poontang correct

what should i do?

shes using you, why not use her back?

 

[all the whey]

first off, not all women cheat. secondly, even with scandalous hookers, there are types of guys who never or almost never get cheated on. talk to any habitual cheater, and they will always say they've cheated on every bf but one. The special "one" always fits the same profile, and what's funny is they usually end up cheating on the girl. From the posts of his that i've read, jigga seems like the type of guy who doesnt get cheated on

Not "all" but most. But, he did bust her. I also gurantee she isn't telling the dude from wis that she spends the night almost every night.

Your right he doesn't seem like the type to be cheated on. But, all guys can get cheated on. It is just how they react. Jiga isn't crying about it. He is either going to keep hitting it or bang her friends.


She technically isn't a cheater. (in her mind) She is just torn between two loves .

 

[Sub-Zero]

first off, not all women cheat. secondly, even with scandalous hookers, there are types of guys who never or almost never get cheated on. talk to any habitual cheater, and they will always say they've cheated on every bf but one. The special "one" always fits the same profile, and what's funny is they usually end up cheating on the girl. From the posts of his that i've read, jigga seems like the type of guy who doesnt get cheated on

describe the guy who doesnt get cheated on. i want a background check.

 

[calveless wonder]

first off, not all women cheat. secondly, even with scandalous hookers, there are types of guys who never or almost never get cheated on. talk to any habitual cheater, and they will always say they've cheated on every bf but one. The special "one" always fits the same profile, and what's funny is they usually end up cheating on the girl. From the posts of his that i've read, jigga seems like the type of guy who doesnt get cheated on

guys who don't get cheated on maintain power in this relationship at all times...
they're always the one with the least to lose, and the women has no interest in cheating because she's spending all her time to get the guy to love her.

you have wayyyyyyyyyy too much faith in women

 

[all the whey]

describe the guy who doesnt get cheated on. i want a background check.

I disagreed with him that all guys get cheated on. But, I was wrong. This playa would neva let a ho use her tricks.

 

[all the whey]

guys who don't get cheated on maintain power in this relationship at all times...
they're always the one with the least to lose, and the women has no interest in cheating because she's spending all her time to get the guy to love her.

you have wayyyyyyyyyy too much faith in women

Bingo!!!!!!!!!!1

 

[the_clockwork]

stop fucking her immediately.. you will get feelings.. leave now.. fuck her you are getting used, don't try to use her back.. toss her fat ass to the curb

before lal that take nudes and post them here

 

[samoth]

Where's she from in Wisconsin? Not that I'm going to stalk her or anything. Unless you want me to, in which case I'd be more than happy to oblige for only a moderate fee.

 

[txbondsman]

just lie to her and tell her how much fun your having and keep taking her shit that she gives you, start hinting around for expensive shit and travel, hopefully she still keeps doing the norm and giving them to you. Make sure your tappin that ass hard all the time and do everything that you have ever dreamed you wanted to do to a woman, ask if her best looking gf can do a 3some.
When it's time to split, say " Hope you and your ex are happy. I sure was! Thanks for the shit!!
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