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Regrets.....

javaguru said:
Not an SWV thread but I think we all missed that "one." It's a nostalgia thread aap.At least us older bors, this one meant it and boy did I screw it up. :) I think none of us saw what we had when we had it....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5pECaW-VMI
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what did you do wrong?

the only thing i can see myself doing wrong in terms of missing that one is not going after someone i want and just watching everyone else bang instead of taking a turn...(if thats what this thread is about ignore the below)

if im actually with someone i cant see myself fucking that up because im too nice and caring for those i like/love.
 
SublimeZM said:
what did you do wrong?

the only thing i can see myself doing wrong in terms of missing that one is not going after someone i want and just watching everyone else bang instead of taking a turn...(if thats what this thread is about ignore the below)

if im actually with someone i cant see myself fucking that up because im too nice and caring for those i like/love.
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LOL, I'm an Atheist and she's an evangelical. She couldn't deal with it but she did mean it.
 
javaguru said:
She was a no sex before marriage girl but we did on two occasions, five times one night.
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so why didnt she just not date u in the first place if u wernt her religion
 
SublimeZM said:
sounds more like she used the religion thing as an excuse
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No, it was real. She almost broke up with me the first week we dated, I turned her on too much. She's an uber religious chick but I turned her on.
 
javaguru said:
No, it was real. She almost broke up with me the first week we dated, I turned her on too much. She's an uber religious chick but I turned her on.
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lol...women like to lie
 
i love you guys
aww javaguru, were all the no sex before marriage type, until we do it:(
 
javaguru said:
She was a no sex before marriage girl but we did on two occasions, five times one night.
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:FRlol:

Wait, and this is your "girl that got away story"?

Please tell me I totally misunderstood this thread.
 
Question...If you met this person again and they wanted to give things another go, would you? I've always felt like if something didn't work and a lot of time passed...there's no going back. What's done is done, and we've changed too much.
 
nefertiti said:
Question...If you met this person again and they wanted to give things another go, would you? I've always felt like if something didn't work and a lot of time passed...there's no going back. What's done is done, and we've changed too much.
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The reason it ended was the fact I'm an atheist and she's an evangelical Christian. It didn't end due to what I would consider a fundamental incompatibility, it was actually the opposite. Normally, I would agree with you 100%, relationships generally end for a good reason and those things tend to not change. That's why I've never done the back and forth with ex's.
 
javaguru said:
The reason it ended was the fact I'm an atheist and she's an evangelical Christian. It didn't end due to what I would consider a fundamental incompatibility, it was actually the opposite. Normally, I would agree with you 100%, relationships generally end for a good reason and those things tend to not change. That's why I've never done the back and forth with ex's.
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The reason I ask is there's a guy I dated about four years ago who periodically gets in touch with me to tell me he still loves me and to ask if I ever think about what could have been. Sure, I'll always care for him...but I'm not the girl he fell in love with anymore. I agreed to see him the next time I'm in NY almost soley for the purpose of him realizing this for himself. He needs to get on with his life already. I do have some regrets about how things ended between us (not THAT they ended...just how) but I feel like we gave it our shot, it didn't work, it's kind of sad that we lost a good friend in the process, but it's done.
 
Regret is a waisted emotion to me but I tend to always look on the bright side if something didn't work out with xyz is was not meant to be and who ever you are meant to be with is out there somewhere.
 
"Never regret anything because at one time...it was exactly what you wanted."
 
nefertiti said:
The reason I ask is there's a guy I dated about four years ago who periodically gets in touch with me to tell me he still loves me and to ask if I ever think about what could have been. Sure, I'll always care for him...but I'm not the girl he fell in love with anymore. I agreed to see him the next time I'm in NY almost soley for the purpose of him realizing this for himself. He needs to get on with his life already. I do have some regrets about how things ended between us (not THAT they ended...just how) but I feel like we gave it our shot, it didn't work, it's kind of sad that we lost a good friend in the process, but it's done.
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Once you've hit your thirtys you don't change much. I changed a lot from 20-25 but not much at all from 30-35.

I don't maintain contact with my ex's but I happened to run into Mel over Easter. It was a serendipitous meeting at a gas station while we were both on our way to the parents'. She actually texted me that it was strange we would run into each other like that and we had a twenty minute conversation until we lost service.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Regret is a waisted emotion to me but I tend to always look on the bright side if something didn't work out with xyz is was not meant to be and who ever you are meant to be with is out there somewhere.
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Quit stealing my Nietzsche quotes you plagiarist canuck.
 
SoKlueles said:
i love you guys
aww javaguru, were all the no sex before marriage type, until we do it:(
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She really had that Christian guilt thing going on after the fact, it really did bother her. :)

She did like to get her drink on...she was a tequila girl.

Mel getting her drink on... :)
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javaguru said:
Not an SWV thread but I think we all missed that "one." It's a nostalgia thread aap.At least us older bors, this one meant it and boy did I screw it up. :) I think none of us saw what we had when we had it....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5pECaW-VMI
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Wow. you talk about that girl and that song lots. Is she single? You should go try getting her back. You never know until you try.
 
heatherrae said:
Wow. you talk about that girl and that song lots. Is she single? You should go try getting her back. You never know until you try.
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I'm still an atheist and she's still an evangelical; Nothing has changed. :)
 
nefertiti said:
The reason I ask is there's a guy I dated about four years ago who periodically gets in touch with me to tell me he still loves me and to ask if I ever think about what could have been. Sure, I'll always care for him...but I'm not the girl he fell in love with anymore. I agreed to see him the next time I'm in NY almost soley for the purpose of him realizing this for himself. He needs to get on with his life already. I do have some regrets about how things ended between us (not THAT they ended...just how) but I feel like we gave it our shot, it didn't work, it's kind of sad that we lost a good friend in the process, but it's done.
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cheat?>?
 
javaguru said:
For me it was never a big deal, I went to church with her every Sunday.
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I have odd religious beliefs. I fake it around family that would be otherwise upset. No need to cause a disagreement over something that doesn't matter. Sometimes honesty really isn't the best policy. ;-)
 
heatherrae said:
I have odd religious beliefs. I fake it around family that would be otherwise upset. No need to cause a disagreement over something that doesn't matter. Sometimes honesty really isn't the best policy. ;-)
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That's the policy I have with my mother.
 
javaguru said:
Quit stealing my Nietzsche quotes you plagiarist canuck.
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LOL I knew I didn't pull that out thin air couldn't remember who said it but leave it up to you to know. :nerd:
 
SublimeZM said:
what did you do wrong?

the only thing i can see myself doing wrong in terms of missing that one is not going after someone i want and just watching everyone else bang instead of taking a turn...(if thats what this thread is about ignore the below)

if im actually with someone i cant see myself fucking that up because im too nice and caring for those i like/love.
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It was the evangelical and the atheist, sounds like a bad sitcom. I could call her anytime if I needed her, she would be there ,and vice versa.
 
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