question.. would you tell someone what you thought of them after a break up?

[madbomber31]

if you had certain things on your mind would you say them? or try to be better than that?

so far, i've kept my mouth shut... but man, the flood gates are close to opening.

 

[the nature boy]

depends on what you want to say.

Some things are better left unsaid.

 

[KAYNE]

I'D SAY IT REGARDLESS. I'M WITH/NOT WITH THIS CHICK NOW AND I'VE TOLD HER MANY TIMES SHIT SHE DIDNT WANT TO HEAR.


KAYNE

 

[Night Fly]

I'd have to agree that some things are better left unsaid.

I would do this...

If she asks what you thought about things...tell her straight up...

but don't volunteer the information to her...especially if it is something that could really hurt her. I am just not one for intentionally hurting anyone.

 

[madbomber31]

what if it's an attack on them as a person? as a "signigicant other"?

the worst i've said so far is "a leopard doesnt change its spots".

 

[madbomber31]

i agree night fly, and plan to keep my mouth shut.... i guess... i just have a verbal attack thats waiting to get out... kinda like a mike tyson knock out but with words... it would basically be to cause pain and instill a hatred that can never be looked beyond, something that will always be in this persons mind...

god damn, i can be so fuckin evil... its a surprise i never actually carry out these things...

 

[Night Fly]

I don't think that "A leopard never changes his spots" is a bad thing to say...

I think it's good that you are going to keep your mouth shut. I am glad that you decided to do that, because you could really hurt her...and who knows...you may regret what you said (even though you may not think you would ever regret it while thinking it).

 

[polarpixie]

Only if I can tell them and then 'run'. What I mean by that is I would not want a big discussion out of it, and they will definitely not try to re-enter my life.

 

[KAYNE]

OBVIOUSLY SOMETHING IS BOTHERING YOU ABOUT THIS PERSON SO WHY DONT YOU JUST LET HER KNOW. SPEAK YOUR MIND. THATS WHAT I DO. ITS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST THING TO DO BUT ATLEAST I'M HONEST.


KAYNE

 

[madbomber31]

i agree kayne... but i'm trying to be a better person.. i'll let her degrade me to her family and friends....and i will sit here, undefended and allow them to think what she tells them is true, no matter how much bullshit is being slung.