Question for the EF chicks

[Dunk]

You meet a guy. You go out on a few dates. You like him. He likes you.

When you go out to dinner and/or drink do you "offer" to pay a portion or take care of the bill? EVER? Or do you assume everytime you go out "hes got it covered"? Im not saying he lets you pay, but do you at least offer?

Am i warped?

Seriously. WTF is wrong with you broads?

 

[eat big]

When I go out on a date with dudes, he always covers the bill.

 

[Frisky]

You meet a guy. You go out on a few dates. You like him. He likes you.

When you go out to dinner and/or drink do you "offer" to pay a portion or take care of the bill? EVER? Or do you assume everytime you go out "hes got it covered"? Im not saying he lets you pay, but do you at least offer?

Am i warped?

Seriously. WTF is wrong with you broads?

Yep i sure do... Or if its Dinner and a Movie and he gets dinner, I pay for the movie and if there is drinks or something after I'll get that too.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I always have them sign a contract before the date. I feed their fat ass and they put out. That's the rules.

 

[jackangel]

guaranteed all of the EFemales will say that they at least offer to pay. don't forget that this is not only the most controversial fitness site on the net, it also has the most enlightened female members.

 

[the-short-one]

I pay probably 1/2 the time. If I ask him out, I definitely pay. It would be way rude for a girl to ask you out on a date and then expect you to pay.

 

[Frisky]

guaranteed all of the EFemales will say that they at least offer to pay. don't forget that this is not only the most controversial fitness site on the net, it also has the most enlightened female members.

lol

I knew this was coming! You beat KB to it though.


Honestly i think its only fair.. who wrote the rule book that say's its only his responsibility?

 

[alien amp pharm]

guaranteed all of the EFemales will say that they at least offer to pay. don't forget that this is not only the most controversial fitness site on the net, it also has the most enlightened female members.

Exactly. I've probably had 4 out of hundreds of females offer to pay or partially pay for a date in my lifetime.

 

[nycgirl]

I've paid for many dinners. When I was digging myself out of debt, I felt bad that I couldn't contribute much when my ex and I started dating. So, I had "dinner" dates at my house once or twice a week and I cooked. I then saved to pay for the hotel room for our first weekend getaway. In my current relationship, I contribute as well.

I always offer in the beginning (2nd or 3rd date) to let him know "I don't need you to take care of me."

 

[Dunk]

My question is do you offer to pay at least 75% of the time. I didnt say actually pay.

Keyword: OFFER

 

[Frisky]

Exactly. I've probably had 4 out of hundreds of females offer to pay or partially pay for a date in my lifetime.

lol@ hundreds

 

[jackangel]

lol

I knew this was coming! You beat KB to it though.


Honestly i think its only fair.. who wrote the rule book that say's its only his responsibility?

i was filling in for kbea, he's busy harassing some 19 yo slut over AIM

 

[jenscats5]

Yep - I've offered to pay & have even paid.....

 

[Raina]

Of course. Always and I would even care if he actually let me pay my half either. Once I'm dating someone for a while my thought has always been that whoever has money pays. I think it's dumb for one person to always pay.

 

[nycgirl]

My question is do you offer to pay at least 75% of the time. I didnt say actually pay.

Keyword: OFFER

LOL.

Both my ex & current situation have been 50/50 from the beginning. I like it that way. I don't remember too much about the guy before that, I think I offered then as well. But probably not as much.

 

[Frisky]

My question is do you offer to pay at least 75% of the time. I didnt say actually pay.

Keyword: OFFER

swole makes you pick up the bill all the time doesn't he

 

[Sassy69]

I always offer to pay or just throw the cash on the table. I don't like to feel like I owe someone. But generally if it goes into a relationship I think I generally contribute about equally - either thru covering some of the bill or the tip and also w/ home cooked meals, etc. or things that I arrange.


Damn I still owe PBR. Fug I hate that.

 

[velvett]

You meet a guy. You go out on a few dates. You like him. He likes you.

When you go out to dinner and/or drink do you "offer" to pay a portion or take care of the bill? EVER? Or do you assume everytime you go out "hes got it covered"? Im not saying he lets you pay, but do you at least offer?

Am i warped?

Seriously. WTF is wrong with you broads?

Always (unless I'm escaping through the kitchen)

Yes, always - unless I REALLY REALLY like him and I'll go pay the bill while he's in the boy's room and if he doesn't I'll go to the girl's room and pay off the bill.

Assumptions always prove to be assoliffic.

No.

Some people are just fucked in the head, don't know better or just aren't that swift.

 

[alien amp pharm]

EF chicks are perfect females!

*laughs*

 

[Kakdiesel]

I play by the rule that whoever asks, pays.

if i ask, hey lets go do this. im paying. if she is like,"Hey you wanna do this?" I'll pay my way if I say yes.

On special occassions I'll let a woman pay my part, but thats rare.

 

[velvett]

EF chicks are perfect females!

*laughs*

Well, some up may pay - doesn't mean we do something else to destroy your vision of us.

 

[Frisky]

EF chicks are perfect females!

*laughs*

we all have to hang out somewhere

 

[tiger88]

EF chicks are perfect females!

*laughs*

they are! they even all can change flat tires and the oil too!

 

[Kakdiesel]

I always offer to pay or just throw the cash on the table. I don't like to feel like I owe someone. But generally if it goes into a relationship I think I generally contribute about equally - either thru covering some of the bill or the tip and also w/ home cooked meals, etc. or things that I arrange.


Damn I still owe PBR. Fug I hate that.

oh how soon we forget....

 

[SoKlueles]

heck no, if he dont pay then i dont put out

 

[NJjuice22]

these bitches arent worth nothin nowadays dunk. I feel the same as you. I wouldnt let a broad pay for anything until I know them really well but a damn offer would be nice. I am willing to let it slide the first time, but if she doesnt atleast offer the second date...im cutting that bitch off because she is a no good hewa who cant be trusted. lol

 

[Frisky]

they are! they even all can change flat tires and the oil too!

I had a freaking blow out Saturday night! Not fun, ruined my damn new top and scuffed my heels up.

 

[nycgirl]

EF chicks are perfect females!

*laughs*

No one said we are perfect.

I think I know my situation better than anyone. When I say things are 50/50, they are 50/50.

Don't get bitter, because you date princesses that don't contribute.

 

[velvett]

Don't get bitter, because you date princesses that don't contribute.

NYCGIRL 1: AAP -1




nyc lays the smack down....

 

[Frisky]

No one said we are perfect.

I think I know my situation better than anyone. When I say things are 50/50, they are 50/50.

Don't get bitter, because you date princesses that don't contribute.

lol @ princesses

teeeheee

I have a hard time believing this boy is getting laid right now... he's always throwing around hate.

 

[velvett]

Too bad if the woman pays and demands sex in return she's still the ho.

 

[NJjuice22]

lmao @ the society of elite's perfect bitches.


dunk..i dont ask these broads questions regarding other broads..you know why. (this applies to broads in real life also). Women have no fuckin clue what they are talking about or what they want. THey lie to themselves all the time. Every chick on here willl tell you they want some perfect dumbass gentleman who just treats them nice. When in reality they would cheat on that moron the first year. What they really need is billy badass with a mullet who smacks them around a bit.



NEVER ASK A WOMAN FOR ADVICE ON WOMEN>>THEY ARE CLUELESS.

you want to know all you need to know about women, you need to ask a real playa who gets alot of tang. they know everything.

 

[the-short-one]

My question is do you offer to pay at least 75% of the time. I didnt say actually pay.

Keyword: OFFER

I don't NEED to offer to pay at least 75% of the time, because I DO pay 1/2 the time. At least. But my situation is different then women you go out with. I have money $$$$$$

 

[KillahBee]

I won't let a bitch pay for a goddamn thing. I want to own every inch of them.

Then take it away when they are at their most vulnerable.

 

[fbodyguy02]

Who ever invites the other person out is responsible for paying.. I don't care if you ahve a cock or a wet gash. Now if your a nice guy then you can pay for it everytime, but it doenst mean your gonna get pussy.

 

[velvett]

I won't let a bitch pay for a goddamn thing. I want to own every inch of them.

Then take it away when they are at their most vulnerable.

Dad, is that you?

 

[NJjuice22]

Dunk, you do the "Mario Test" yet?

 

[SoKlueles]

Too bad if the woman pays and demands sex in return she's still the ho.

bahahaha

 

[velvett]

I don't NEED to offer to pay at least 75% of the time, because I DO pay 1/2 the time. At least. But my situation is different then women you go out with. I have money $$$$$$

Money is much like horsepower - it's not that you need it everyday but it feels really good that it's there when you need or desire it.

 

[KillahBee]

Dad, is that you?

Damn, that was hot

 

[jafo]

I always pay ...but if they dont even offer or they just expect me to cover it (depending on how we got there) I wont call back for a second date


I have no time for a spoiled princess who thinks they should have everything handed to them

I dont care what you look like there is some one some where that is tired of your shit

I would think a lot of MEN are looking for real women and don’t need the little girl or there attitude

Just my 2 cents

 

[Kakdiesel]

Who ever invites the other person out is responsible for paying.. I don't care if you ahve a cock or a wet gash. Now if your a nice guy then you can pay for it everytime, but it doenst mean your gonna get pussy.

agreed cuz.

 

[Lestat]

50/50 is the way to go

 

[Bikini Mod]

You meet a guy. You go out on a few dates. You like him. He likes you.

When you go out to dinner and/or drink do you "offer" to pay a portion or take care of the bill? EVER? Or do you assume everytime you go out "hes got it covered"? Im not saying he lets you pay, but do you at least offer?

Am i warped?

Seriously. WTF is wrong with you broads?

I didnt read any of this thread but I will answer honestly.

Not only do I ALWAYS expect the man to pay but if I drive any more than 15 minutes to meet him I also expect him to give me gas money.

I feed my kids with foodstamps so sorry, I wont be giving any of our money to a man for a meal. ALL THE MEN KNOW THIS UPFRONT.

Besides, the caliber of men that I date would NEVER accept my money, even if I had it, as they are gentlemen and if they expect a goddamned thing - they are in for a ruuuuuuuuuude awakening.

 

[Kakdiesel]

can i have some foodstamps. my grocery bill at Whole Foods is getting pricey.

 

[jafo]

the women paying = very good relationship or demoted to just friends status

 

[Bikini Mod]

can i have some foodstamps. my grocery bill at Whole Foods is getting pricey.

Sorry, but four is the limit that my ex will shirk his responsibility to.

 

[KillahBee]

I get pissed when a broad pushes the paying thing.


I should have been born in the 40's

 

[fbodyguy02]

I feed my kids with foodstamps so sorry, I wont be giving any of our money to a man for a meal. ALL THE MEN KNOW THIS UPFRONT.

If thats the case I hope your platinum status was a gift from someone.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I can't imagine EVER offering to pay... EVER.

If a man really extends himself then I will offer to make a gift for him. I will cook or bake or make some other gift for him if we have been dating for awhile.

 

[Kakdiesel]

I can honestly say the nicest gesture to ME personally is when a girl will buy ME a drink.

that rarely happens.

 

[Bikini Mod]

If thats the case I hope your platinum status was a gift from someone.

I earned my platinum status LOL

 

[Lestat]

I didnt read any of this thread but I will answer honestly.

Not only do I ALWAYS expect the man to pay but if I drive any more than 15 minutes to meet him I also expect him to give me gas money.

I feed my kids with foodstamps so sorry, I wont be giving any of our money to a man for a meal. ALL THE MEN KNOW THIS UPFRONT.

Besides, the caliber of men that I date would NEVER accept my money, even if I had it, as they are gentlemen and if they expect a goddamned thing - they are in for a ruuuuuuuuuude awakening.

so is it ok for them to expect anal upfront? seems only fair.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I can honestly say the nicest gesture to ME personally is when a girl will buy ME a drink.

that rarely happens.

...And if she baked you something, wrapped it and gave you a handmade card?

 

[Bikini Mod]

so is it ok for them to expect anal upfront? seems only fair.

Sorry but boyz who expect a fucking thing dont get none of my time.

 

[KillahBee]

Sorry but boyz who expect a fucking thing dont get none of my time.

LOLOLOL

I can hear the collective sobbing across the land now

 

[Kakdiesel]

...And if she baked you something, wrapped it and gave you a handmade card?

oh yeah definitely. I actually got a nice homemade card recently.

it seroiusly was the nicest thing a girl has done for me I think ever. because you appreciate the honesty, the thoughtfullness, and creativity that went into it.

 

[jafo]

...And if she baked you something, wrapped it and gave you a handmade card?

the question I think was more would you offer to pay ..but if they know up front that you wont then there is the answer

 

[Bikini Mod]

oh yeah definitely. I actually got a nice homemade card recently.

it seroiusly was the nicest thing a girl has done for me I think ever. because you appreciate the honesty, the thoughtfullness, and creativity that went into it.

Truly rare find... be nice to her.

 

[Kakdiesel]

Truly rare find... be nice to her.

I try. but its hard when all those drunk guys hit on her at 3 a.m at the McDonald's drive thru. she always gives them free biggie sized crap on the side.

that seems a bit too flirtatious for my taste. better take my ass to burger king.

 

[slat1]

My current gf keeps it even all the time. She is militant about that.
My ex used to pay for everything. Dinner, drinks etc. She would even go clothes shopping for me without me knowing it. I felt like such a whore. It was great!

 

[Kakdiesel]

LOL @ loving feeling like a whore

 

[nycgirl]

I get pissed when a broad pushes the paying thing.
I should have been born in the 40's

I always said you were 26 going on 66.

Its also about control as well as contributing. I can't let someone "do" everything for me. How many women (especially older women) have let a man "do" everything only to wind up divorced with no skills and unable to handle things on their own? If I can afford to buy my own place, I can afford to pay for dinner or split the check. If I can afford to spend $100 every 8 weeks for the hair salon, I can afford to split a check.

I don't force it. However, I don't like feeling like I owe someone something. If I can't afford to pay, I do other things.

 

[Lestat]

...And if she baked you something, wrapped it and gave you a handmade card?

but you expect them to pay and give you gas money?

 

[the-short-one]

My current gf keeps it even all the time. She is militant about that.
My ex used to pay for everything. Dinner, drinks etc. She would even go clothes shopping for me without me knowing it. I felt like such a whore. It was great!

When I first met my boyfriend, his wardrobe was sparse. I bought a new one for him, but was careful to keep it within the same style he already had. He was happy.

 

[Kakdiesel]

I will be the first to admit, its a crap shoot when girls buy guys clothes. i'm hard to shop for.

70% of things bought for me in the past to wear, i've never donned in public.

 

[slat1]

When I first met my boyfriend, his wardrobe was sparse. I bought a new one for him, but was careful to keep it within the same style he already had. He was happy.

This girl just loved to shop. Her regulars would just give her money all the time.. LOL (she was a stripper). They would even take both of us out to dinner and drinks.
As long as I had sex with her a few times a week she was cool about everything. She would bring girls home from work too. They would make me try on all the clothes she got me. Then I would make them take theirs off.
Life was good.
Memories....
Oh. She used to demand it in the ass too!

 

[the-short-one]

This girl just loved to shop. Her regulars would just give her money all the time.. LOL (she was a stripper). They would even take both of us out to dinner and drinks.
As long as I had sex with her a few times a week she was cool about everything. She would bring girls home from work too. They would make me try on all the clothes she got me. Then I would make them take theirs off.
Life was good.
Memories....
Oh. She used to demand it in the ass too!

Very few men have had a girlfriend like that. (Well, a lot say they have, but they're all lying to impress their friends.) Be sure to remember those golden moments so that you can retell them to your grandchildren. And the old farts at the home you'll be living in when you're 80.

 

[velvett]

I always said you were 26 going on 66.

Its also about control as well as contributing. I can't let someone "do" everything for me. How many women (especially older women) have let a man "do" everything only to wind up divorced with no skills and unable to handle things on their own? If I can afford to buy my own place, I can afford to pay for dinner or split the check. If I can afford to spend $100 every 8 weeks for the hair salon, I can afford to split a check.

I don't force it. However, I don't like feeling like I owe someone something. If I can't afford to pay, I do other things.

I think we were hatched from the same egg.

 

[Lestat]

I think we were hatched from the same egg.

you two would make a great 3 something with a lucky dude (me)

 

[velvett]

you two would make a great 3 something with a lucky dude (me)

Eggsallent.

 

[foreigngirl]

You meet a guy. You go out on a few dates. You like him. He likes you.

When you go out to dinner and/or drink do you "offer" to pay a portion or take care of the bill? EVER? Or do you assume everytime you go out "hes got it covered"? Im not saying he lets you pay, but do you at least offer?

Am i warped?

Seriously. WTF is wrong with you broads?

I always used to take money out to pay my portion of the bill, starting with the first and ending with the last date. If the guy says "Dont worry about it", I'll still offer it one more time and if he says "Dont worry" again, then I back off

 

[big4life]

This is like most human emotions, we make it far more complicated than it has to be.

 

[Lestat]

Eggsallent.

i gues we've got the who down.. how about the when and where????

 

[jafo]

I always said you were 26 going on 66.

Its also about control as well as contributing. I can't let someone "do" everything for me. How many women (especially older women) have let a man "do" everything only to wind up divorced with no skills and unable to handle things on their own? If I can afford to buy my own place, I can afford to pay for dinner or split the check. If I can afford to spend $100 every 8 weeks for the hair salon, I can afford to split a check.

I don't force it. However, I don't like feeling like I owe someone something. If I can't afford to pay, I do other things.

i am really starting to like you ...I like the way you think

 

[Daisy_]

I didn't read what anyone else wrote, but definatly offer. And if he says no then get it the next time. If the date sucked then he can pay. heehhe

 

[jafo]

I didn't read what anyone else wrote, but definatly offer. And if he says no then get it the next time. If the date sucked then he can pay. heehhe

i agree with this statement ...at least offer ..if you didnt like the way the date went only offer once if he takes you up on it then its a small price to pay to get the hell out

 

[Bikini Mod]

but you expect them to pay and give you gas money?

Yes, because they can. If they have an issue with this, then we do not go out. period.

I can and have been taking care of myself (in addition to my family) from the time I left my parents' home at 21. I paid my own tuition, gas, car, etc, etc, etc. So I do not see the correlation between allowing a man who is in a far better financial situation than I to pick up the tab and me being a helpless simp who can not fend for herself.

I have been jobless, homeless, no family, no friends, no money, illegal and sick in a country where I did NOT know the primary language. In six weeks I had a job, a place to live and an exposition of my artwork with NO HELP FROM ANYONE.

I made my own opportunities and busted my ass.

I made more money as a bartender than I did as a stripper... go figure.

I am BEYOND independent. If a man wants my time then he will pay and he will expect NOTHING but my genuine self and that I chose to spend MY TIME with him and no other. If he has issue with that. We dont go out.

Simple - shmimple.

My money goes to my kids. End of story.

 

[Dunk]

Dunk, you do the "Mario Test" yet?

is that when you put a screen up to her face and throw shit at it?

also. Bikinimom. Its a safe bet that your going to be alone for a loong time. Or surrounded by men who dont have a fucking clue.

 

[Smurfy]

Hmmm, in the past I have dated some real losers. I was the one with the stable job and college education. I always paid. I was responsible for everything. All bills, in my name. Wow was I dumb. Total idiot. But you cant squeeze blood out of a turnip. If someone doesnt have money, they dont have it. Eventually you fucking dump their ass and find someone who is mroe your equal. That feels so much better. That way, I pay for you and you pay for me and we both always OFFER to pay regardless of what it is. Why such a long and drawn out thread for something so basic>? Do what works best for YOUR RELATIONSHIP. No one on the internet is going to know what's best for you or your life.

 

[javaguru]

is that when you put a screen up to her face and throw shit at it?

also. Bikinimom. Its a safe bet that your going to be alone for a loong time. Or surrounded by men who dont have a fucking clue.

No, she has a clue about her attributes and limitations. She's one of those women who trades her self-respect for money. Dating the older "no game" guy because he will provide fo her but claims at the same time they have an "amazing" relationship. A friend of mine banged a nurse like this who was 38 and still hot but engaged to a 69 year old doctor. He wrote her a check every month for what she "would have made" as a nurse so she could stay home with the kids. She was nothing more than a prostitute. At least she was honest enough to admit she didn't love him. BTW, she's the woman that claims to be "strong and independent" but seeks out someone to take care of her.

 

[SoKlueles]

well if we go to the movies, he pays for the movie and i do the popcorn and drink
and on a sidenote i buy him things, like yesterday, i bought him a very nice pair of shorts and just last week, i ordered him 3 anne rice books

I like buying things for my ole farthead

 

[Bikini Mod]

No, she has a clue about her attributes and limitations. She's one of those women who trades her self-respect for money. Dating the older "no game" guy because he will provide fo her but claims at the same time they have an "amazing" relationship. A friend of mine banged a nurse like this who was 38 and still hot but engaged to a 69 year old doctor. He wrote her a check every month for what she "would have made" as a nurse so she could stay home with the kids. She was nothing more than a prostitute. At least she was honest enough to admit she didn't love him. BTW, she's the woman that claims to be "strong and independent" but seeks out someone to take care of her.

Ok... You are still just pissed off because you tried to base a valid arguement on something you had no clue about.

Imagine a man caring enough for a woman to help her be able to stay home and raise her children... yea - he was a REAL ASS HOLE and she nothing more than a prostitute. There is something very warped about you... but hey, it works for you. So who am I to judge?

I would like to know though who gave YOU the authority to decide who does or does not have game? At what age does a man cease having it? You better make sure you get all the play you can while you still got it then. LOL

 

[Bikini Mod]

is that when you put a screen up to her face and throw shit at it?

also. Bikinimom. Its a safe bet that your going to be alone for a loong time. Or surrounded by men who dont have a fucking clue.

LOL

I am alone BY CHOICE - not circumstance darlin' but thank you for your sympathy.

Imagine clueless men with a networth that is beyond your scope of comprehension.

Yea, there is something wrong with me because I wont take money from my children to help feed a man and I refuse to date men that pump gas.

 

[Dunk]

LOL

I am alone BY CHOICE - not circumstance darlin' but thank you for your sympathy.

Imagine clueless men with a networth that is beyond your scope of comprehension.

Yea, there is something wrong with me because I wont take money from my children to help feed a man and I refuse to date men that pump gas.

So your saying because dude A has more money than dude B. Dude A is the one with a clue?

I guarantee that 99% of the time dude B will make you HAPPY over dude A.

Which is what matters in life. Or is it money? I forget sometimes.

 

[Bikini Mod]

So your saying because dude A has more money than dude B. Dude A is the one with a clue?

I guarantee that 99% of the time dude B will make you HAPPY over dude A.

Which is what matters in life. Or is it money? I forget sometimes.

So only a poor man can make me happy.... whereas a wealthy man can only bring misery. Then why would anyone get a higher education and strive to advance in a career? Your arguement is well.... dumb.

And the statements about Dude A and B are NOT what I said... Ummm not at all. That is what YOU said.

In my case Dude A and Dude B BOTH have money. The only question is, do I like Dude A more than Dude B... or if I like either.

Period.

Why is that so hard to understand?


Here is a quick question fer ya:

Would you date a woman that has:

a heart of gold
an awesome career
would fuck only you till the day you died to the point of exhaustion

BUT

had the body of a woman who had four children - saggy droopy breasts, loose vagina, nice pooch hanging low and an ass that should have a wide load sticker on it.

(Here is a bit of an eye opener for all you "independent women")


BE AS HONEST AS I WAS WITH MY RESPONSE -

That is.... IF you have the balls.

 

[the-short-one]

BIKINIMOM had the balls to be upfront with an answer to your question. It's her life, not yours - and you know nothing about her other than what you're reading here. Please don't point fingers and flame her because she's not your type.

As my dad has always said - "There's an ass for every seat". There are men who appreciate her way of thinking, just as there are men who do not.

 

[javaguru]

Ok... You are still just pissed off because you tried to base a valid arguement on something you had no clue about.

Imagine a man caring enough for a woman to help her be able to stay home and raise her children... yea - he was a REAL ASS HOLE and she nothing more than a prostitute. There is something very warped about you... but hey, it works for you. So who am I to judge?

I would like to know though who gave YOU the authority to decide who does or does not have game? At what age does a man cease having it? You better make sure you get all the play you can while you still got it then. LOL

pros·ti·tute ( P ) Pronunciation Key (prst-tt, -tyt)
n.
One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts.
One who sells one's abilities, talent, or name for an unworthy purpose.

My comments hit too close to home? Nothing wrong with prostitution, it's an economic exchange. Just don't claim to be something you aren't. I don't seek out women who can allow me to "stay at home." I've had the offer but I'm genuinely independent and don't need nor would I accept a sugga mama.

A man's "game" changes as he ages. When he is younger it's about being good looking. Older men buy their "game" with women old enough to understand it's hard in the real world and want someone to take care of them. I've rubbed shoulders with the local wealthy crowd and it's fun to watch the 23 year old stripper pretending the fifty year old real estate developer turns her on for anything but financial reasons.

 

[Bikini Mod]

BIKINIMOM had the balls to be upfront with an answer to your question. It's her life, not yours - and you know nothing about her other than what you're reading here. Please don't point fingers and flame her because she's not your type.

As my dad has always said - "There's an ass for every seat". There are men who appreciate her way of thinking, just as there are men who do not.

Thank you.

As I said, all the men I date know my philosophies and circumstances up front. If any of it does not appeal to them, then we do not go out.

What is the problem here?

I hate to think what you all would say if I told you that a first date with me is like a job interview and if at anytime the man does not hold up to what I deem behavior that I ENJOY - there is no second date.

Doesn't mean he isn't a nice man. Just isn't a man for me.

And there have been a few men that I would have liked to have gone out with again, who did not feel the same about me. And?

We are all free to make our own decisions.

 

[Bikini Mod]

pros·ti·tute ( P ) Pronunciation Key (prst-tt, -tyt)
n.
One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts.
One who sells one's abilities, talent, or name for an unworthy purpose.

My comments hit too close to home? Nothing wrong with prostitution, it's an economic exchange. Just don't claim to be something you aren't. I don't seek out women who can allow me to "stay at home." I've had the offer but I'm genuinely independent and don't need nor would I accept a sugga mama.

A man's "game" changes as he ages. When he is younger it's about being good looking. Older men buy their "game" with women old enough to understand it's hard in the real world and want someone to take care of them. I've rubbed shoulders with the local wealthy crowd and it's fun to watch the 23 year old stripper pretending the fifty year old real estate developer turns her on for anything but financial reasons.

LOL

Your are just pissed off because I would never go out with you for several reasons. So if you need to call me a name to make yourself feel better about that... rock on my brother.

I have no time OR NEED to feign liking anyone. Duh... I'd rather be home sleeping.

And nice way of trying to diverting attention from my equally inflamatory question...

Please, show us YOUR BALLS.... I've shown you mine!

 

[javaguru]

LOL

Your are just pissed off because I would never go out with you for several reasons. So if you need to call me a name to make yourself feel better about that... rock on my brother.

I have no time to feign liking anyone. Duh... I'd rather be home sleeping.

And nice way of trying to diverting attention from my equally inflamatory question...

Pllease,show us YOUR BALLS.... I've shown you mine!

Don't flatter yourself, my sisters deserve nothing but respect for their conduct in their lives. You embody every negative quality I have encountered in a woman. That is a bold proclamation, but I know that you know it's easier having a man take care of you than taking care of yourself. There are countless posts on your drama and issues in the archive. You had a bread winner through most of your adult life, don't pretend to know what it's like to make a life for yourself.

 

[the-short-one]

pros·ti·tute ( P ) Pronunciation Key (prst-tt, -tyt)
n.
One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts.
One who sells one's abilities, talent, or name for an unworthy purpose.

My comments hit too close to home? Nothing wrong with prostitution, it's an economic exchange. Just don't claim to be something you aren't. I don't seek out women who can allow me to "stay at home." I've had the offer but I'm genuinely independent and don't need nor would I accept a sugga mama.

A man's "game" changes as he ages. When he is younger it's about being good looking. Older men buy their "game" with women old enough to understand it's hard in the real world and want someone to take care of them. I've rubbed shoulders with the local wealthy crowd and it's fun to watch the 23 year old stripper pretending the fifty year old real estate developer turns her on for anything but financial reasons.

One thing I've learned is that you can't generalize about anything. There is no absolute rule regarding women or men. Life's more complicated than that.

My boyfriend is 18 years older than me. We both came to the table with money. I chose an older man because of the maturity factor, not because I needed someone to take care of me. Younger men are into themselves, and care way to much about what other people think. They're still trying to prove themselves and their opinions are based on a few bad experiences, or what their friends have told them is true.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Don't flatter yourself, my sisters deserve nothing but respect for their conduct in their lives. You embody every negative quality I have encountered in a woman. That is a bold proclamation, but I know that you know it's easier having a man take care of you than taking care of yourself. There are countless posts on your drama and issues in the archive. You had a bread winner through most of your adult life, don't pretend to know what it's like to make a life for yourself.

Nice balls there....

*crickets chirping*

 

[Bikini Mod]

One thing I've learned is that you can't generalize about anything. There is no absolute rule regarding women or men. Life's more complicated than that.

My boyfriend is 18 years older than me. We both came to the table with money. I chose an older man because of the maturity factor, not because I needed someone to take care of me. Younger men are into themselves, and care way to much about what other people think. They're still trying to prove themselves and their opinions are based on a few bad experiences, or what their friends have told them is true.

YOU SLUT!!!!

NO FUCKING WAY!!!

You mean that there is a calmness and serenity about an older man that a younger self-centered asshat like Mr Guru can not BEGIN to fathom?

Wait a minute - he is the same rocket scientist that -

compared a grown and experienced WOMAN of 38 to a 23 y/o stripper.

called a total stranger whose life he knows NOTHING about a prostitute because he didnt like her point of view.

tried to avoid a simple question by calling that same woman more names.



But we should prefer a man like him because......? (Certainly not because of his intellect OR balls LOL)

 

[javaguru]

One thing I've learned is that you can't generalize about anything. There is no absolute rule regarding women or men. Life's more complicated than that.

My boyfriend is 18 years older than me. We both came to the table with money. I chose an older man because of the maturity factor, not because I needed someone to take care of me. Younger men are into themselves, and care way to much about what other people think. They're still trying to prove themselves and their opinions are based on a few bad experiences, or what their friends have told them is true.

If you genuinely love him then that's fine. You're the exception to what I've seen; He must be a very lucky man. About general comments, generalizations are what they are for a reason. It doesn't mean there aren't exceptions but based on years of Kini's posts, she's not an exception.

 

[Bikini Mod]

If you genuinely love him then that's fine. You're the exception to what I've seen; He must be a very lucky man. About general comments, generalizations are what they are for a reason. It doesn't mean there aren't exceptions but based on years of Kini's posts, she's not an exception.

Who are you to decide who does or does NOT love another?

I dont need years of your posts to decide anything about you. This thread was more than enough. LOL

You have yet to answer my question. - NICE BALLS

*I still hear those crickets chirping*

 

[javaguru]

You

YOU SLUT!!!!

NO FUCKING WAY!!!

You mean that there is a calmness and serenity about an older man that a younger self-centered asshat like Mr Guru can not BEGIN to fathom?

Wait a minute - he is the same rocket scientist that -

compared a grown and experienced WOMAN of 38 to a 23 y/o stripper.

called a total stranger whose life he knows NOTHING about a prostitute because he didnt like her point of view.

tried to avoid a simple question by calling that same woman more names.



But we should prefer a man like him because......? (Certainly not because of his intellect OR balls LOL)

No, I was comparing stripper to stripper...no age determination was made. It was about a woman who uses her sexuality to get money from a man. It isn't much of a stretch to shake your booty for a man when you can be supported by banging him, which is a prostitute. What is your question, your posts are hard to decipher from the standpoint of a logical mind?

 

[javaguru]

Who are you to decide who does or does NOT love another?

I dont need years of your posts to decide anything about you. This thread was more than enough. LOL

You have yet to answer my question. - NICE BALLS

*I still hear those crickets chirping*

The show me your balls comment? Sorry, I'm not a stripper/slut/prostitute. I wouldn't show you my balls if you gave me 10k but for a million I would...we all have a price...

 

[the-short-one]

If you genuinely love him then that's fine. You're the exception to what I've seen; He must be a very lucky man. About general comments, generalizations are what they are for a reason. It doesn't mean there aren't exceptions but based on years of Kini's posts, she's not an exception.

Her choices are her choices. I respect her honesty. If she's upfront with a man and he's okey dokey with it, then I don't see a problem.

That's why I like this site. Diversity in thinking.

 

[Dunk]

So only a poor man can make me happy.... whereas a wealthy man can only bring misery. Then why would anyone get a higher education and strive to advance in a career? Your arguement is well.... dumb.

And the statements about Dude A and B are NOT what I said... Ummm not at all. That is what YOU said.

In my case Dude A and Dude B BOTH have money. The only question is, do I like Dude A more than Dude B... or if I like either.

Period.

Why is that so hard to understand?


Here is a quick question fer ya:

Would you date a woman that has:

a heart of gold
an awesome career
would fuck only you till the day you died to the point of exhaustion

BUT

had the body of a woman who had four children - saggy droopy breasts, loose vagina, nice pooch hanging low and an ass that should have a wide load sticker on it.

(Here is a bit of an eye opener for all you "independent women")


BE AS HONEST AS I WAS WITH MY RESPONSE -

That is.... IF you have the balls.

I just think its absurd that any man who will sit there and let a woman demand anything from him (especially his money) to me seems like someone who is buying his love. He cant earn it.

When i said he doesnt have a clue. I didnt mean that he doesnt have a clue on how to make a million dollars. More so of a clue that this is just the beginning of the end in how most typical relationships end up when based on money.

To answer your question. Fuck no. Why would i want to be with a woman who doesnt give a shit about her health. Any woman who has a hanging pooch and a wide load ass obviously doesnt give a shit about herself or her well being. If your trying to make a comparison with men and their achievements in life to the woman i am looking to meet. Well. I never said i wanted a supermodel. I can compromise. Meet in the middle. Seems like you need yourself a sugar daddy to be happy.