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hamstershaver
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what is he doing? walking around with wood?
Erzulie said:
13 for me. I was playing with my dong without even realizing why, when one day this white stuff came out and I was amazed. After that, I was hooked. Did it everyday for years and thought I was gonna go blind or grow hair on my palms. I began to spend hours in the closet jerkin off to Sear's and Bridal magazines. Everywhere I'd go, I'd look for magazines to jerk off to. I was one horny little guy. I think even hornier than I am now, being that I don't think I could jerk off to a catalogue any more. Give your son some privacy, hes gonna be doing a lot of jerkin' off. Better that than doing the real thing with a girl at his age. BTW, I called you last night to wish you a great weekend. Did you get the message? I bet people here would be surprised to find out that you have a soft, sweet voice.
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Kakdiesel
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wet dreams
DannoMight
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when i was 11-12. i started growing pubes and pit hair and my voice was cracking before i was 13. i was shaving my face also at 13. i had some patchy facial hair for a few years.
DannoMight
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Oh yeah. I remember that moment. Then I started experimenting with a variety of lotions multiple times daily. I milked my lizard often until I got some tang.
DannoMight
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^^^^kepp your lotion in a safe place and watch out for extended bathroom trips.
Erzulie said:
LOL babe. I know, I sure don't want to think of my daughter that way, but I have to be realistic. All guys jerk off especially at puberty and usually multiple times daily. The first time my mom caught me, (she didn't actually catch me) she kept barging in on me so finally I said, "Mother will you quit barging in my room or you're gonna catch me masturbating." She didn't handle it very well. Poor mom wasn't educated properly. She said, "......... You are sick, just sick, I think I'm gonna send you to a psychiatrist." LMAO
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Kakdiesel
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Erzulie said:stop
lol
honestly, my son can talk to me about anything.. though at times i don't want to hear it. I never want him to go to someone else to answer his questions.
check his tighty whities if he has stains that arent brown or yellow
hamstershaver
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seriously just buy him his own bottle of lube so he doenst have to steal yours
Destroyer1986*
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Who knows im still going through it 
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DannoMight
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Sorry, I couldn't help it.
Just don't ask what you don't want to know and realize that nature is taking its course and be happy your boy is becoming a man.
DannoMight
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I couldn't give advice on that one.
theoak01 said:
lol
he just called wally world to check on a new playstation game and while on hold he tells his friend.. she sounds HOT..
I was like B.. what? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY?
omg?
is this normal for an 11 yr old? I played with barbie and baby dolls until i was about 13.. boys didn't come into play till about 16-17
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novamanms
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I knew a kid that lost his virginity at 13, so it wouldn't shock me that your 11 yr. old is saying such things...now whether he knows and understands what the hell he is saying (or just picked it up from t.v., friends, etc.), who knows.
StickFigure
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11 is pretty young, 13 is standard.Erzulie said:
REAL male puberty is identified by the following scenario (as an inpartial observer/mother of 2 boys, versus someone who went through it):
Boy in question has been developing an attitude, over the course of past several months. It comes and goes, but lately it's coming more often and staying longer. He is truculent, short, quieter than usual, more secretive, keeps to himself.
You occasionally come home and find NOTHING in the refrigerator, including the chinese food you were just thinking that you really should throw out. There are even eggs missing. Boy looks at you with a slightly frantic look in his eye and says, MOM, OMG, when's dinner I'M STARVED, I had a snack earlier but there's nothing to eat now ...
The defining factor: You are having standard parent/child argument with your son over inane b/s. You seem to be having these arguments more and more lately. Usually he backs off chills out ... this time is different he completely goes UTTERLY nuclear on you in a fashion he NEVER has before ... as you catch your breath and get ready to unload with both cannons he suddenly bursts into tears and/or may start giggling (my son did the weepy giggle one, he looked at me in horror, giggling, with tears streaming down his face and said "What's wrong with me?!?"). That's the key. Both of my sons did this, and they're NOT related to each other. Every mom I know who has sons has had a similar experience. I think guys block it out.
THEN you buy the lotion.
On the plus side they start bathing more regularly ... a LOT. They also start changing their clothes a LOT more and even if they've only worn it for ten minutes, it ends up in the hamper ...
Good luck. I hope he's just saying things to go along with his friends versus really looking at girls. Single momhood is tough with a teen boy. You got a male around? Even a brother or something? About two years or so after entering puberty boys seem wired to treat their mothers like shit for a while (about a year??? seemed longer) they get very disrespectful and flat out ignore them. They want to bond with other males, and will gravitate to peer bonds if they don't have a strong adult male influence.
*sigh* to be a parent....lol
Hot moms talking about guys' puberty issues=hot.
Mavafanculo
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Erzulie said:
bwahahahahahahah
Mavafanculo
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fiesty would be his 2nd cousin (or something) and they live in LA not TN so that probably wont happen.theoak01 said:
StickFigure
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theoak01 said:
No drinks for you!
Mavafanculo
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you're gonna fight EZ's 11 year old for Fiesty's nani? damn this thread just got good.StickFigure said:He'll find himself with a big goose egg on his melon too!
Beachbum1546
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I was pro at musturbating by the time I was 11. I had a full set of pubes in 6th grade.
Pulling the pud was the least of my worries. Boys can't keep their hands off that damn thing from day one anyway 
I have a buddy he tells his 6-year-old to stop holding his handle 
No, the other shit that goes along with it, the psychodrama, that's tough to relate to as a woman, girls have their own set of issues. They don't give you classes how to deal with opposite gender puberty. Sometimes talking to them is like juggling a sweaty stick of dynamite. And boys can be ... rough ...
And the internet porn they load your computer up with that inevitably gives you viruses and worms, that's a PITA too ...
I have a buddy he tells his 6-year-old to stop holding his handle No, the other shit that goes along with it, the psychodrama, that's tough to relate to as a woman, girls have their own set of issues. They don't give you classes how to deal with opposite gender puberty. Sometimes talking to them is like juggling a sweaty stick of dynamite. And boys can be ... rough ...
And the internet porn they load your computer up with that inevitably gives you viruses and worms, that's a PITA too ...
DannoMight
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LMAO.
i do more ball handling than Larry Bird.MuscleMom said:Pulling the pud was the least of my worries. Boys can't keep their hands off that damn thing from day one anyway
No, the other shit that goes along with it, the psychodrama, that's tough to relate to as a woman, girls have their own set of issues. They don't give you classes how to deal with opposite gender puberty. Sometimes talking to them is like juggling a sweaty stick of dynamite. And boys can be ... rough ...
And the internet porn they load your computer up with that inevitably gives you viruses and worms, that's a PITA too ...
MuscleMom said:
lmao @ Then you buy the lotion
Thank you hun.. No other male around on a regular basis besides his father, which he sees a few times a week still and he knows he can see him anytime he desires. Thankfully my son is still very respectful and knows I won't take ANY flack from him what so ever. If he in anyway gets disrespectful i get an apology right after. He doesn't do that often though.
Hiatussin
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I think I started masturbating around the age of 8.
My gf says its about the same for her.
For a long time sex to me was something platonic, something not related to real people I know, just something that happens in my mind with porn and fictional people.
I think I first had a lustful crush at around 13-14
First gave and got oral at 17, first fucked at 18. Which is average to early in the good schools, late for an inner city public school kind of setting. Those people are having gang gangs at 12 and 13. Literally. I knew of one girl in my town who worked her way through around 15 different guys between the ages of 12-14. She gave head on her knees, fairly spontaneously. Like practically in public. She looked 40 at 16.
My gf says its about the same for her.
For a long time sex to me was something platonic, something not related to real people I know, just something that happens in my mind with porn and fictional people.
I think I first had a lustful crush at around 13-14
First gave and got oral at 17, first fucked at 18. Which is average to early in the good schools, late for an inner city public school kind of setting. Those people are having gang gangs at 12 and 13. Literally. I knew of one girl in my town who worked her way through around 15 different guys between the ages of 12-14. She gave head on her knees, fairly spontaneously. Like practically in public. She looked 40 at 16.
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catalogues?biteme said:
our forts were stocked with penthouses at 11
They change, Erz, that's all I'm saying, they just ... change. In a lot of ways, a lot more than girls. Just don't be surprised when it happens. I'm only trying to give you a heads up, and I think you have a good few years before it happensErzulie said:
It's not your parenting skills or anything ... there will come a day when he WILL not back down to you, may even be unrepetantly disrespectful, might start going out of his way to challenge your authority while seeming to idolize his father (I remember that time ). They all do, it's a normal, necessary part of development. They go from being little boys into men, and in between they become YOUNG men who are trying to find their place in the world and are on the ultimate dose of gear . I think part of it is genetic programming (okay, this is me ... I honestly think human males are programmed to find their own mother repulsive at a point in their development to prevent inbreeding. My son has since told me that there was a period of time that very sound of my voice was like nails on a chalkboard to him, and my husband has told me he remembers something very similar with his own mother. I think it's a pheremone thing).I'm really glad his father is in his life regularly, that will help. Don't be surprised if he wants to start spending more time with dad, doing father son things, what's great is if they both get involved in team sports, that's always a winner for boys, especially if dad coaches.
Okay, here's a brief (I CAN be short) story about teenage boys:
We're spending a week camping (on Hattaras, NC, actually) checking into the site. Campground office is pretty crowded, I'm chatting with an older lady while I'm waiting to check in:
She: "Do you have any children?"
Me: "Oh, yes, three."
She: "Oh, that's lovely, you know they'll have a ball! How old are they?"
Me: "Well, my husband's one son is 9, and his daughter is 12,"
She (nodding and smiling): "Oh, I bet they just love the pool ..."
Me: "Oh, yes! And my other son is 15."
At this statement, the lady's face FELL into this look of sorrowing concern, she put her hand on my arm and said softly: "oh, I'm so sorry," exactly the way you'd say to someone who told you that they'd just suffered a death in the family.
Believe it or not, her saying this made me feel much better
Definition of joy <sarc> 10 hours in a car with a royally pissy teenager and two crabby ass kids ...My answer to her: "So it's not just us, huh?"
She: "Oh no, dear, but it does get better."
THAT story illustrates, better than anything else I can tell you, what raising a teenage boy is about ...
Hiatussin said:
Puberty isn't JUST about sex, sexual feelings, or the urge to copulate. For me the defining factor is when you started THINKING differently???
I think 8 is unusually young for children to start. I had ZERO interest in sexual behavior or boys until quite sometime after I started menstruating (13). I didn't go on my first date until I was 16 ... I'm an only child and admit I've always been a bit of a loner, so maybe not having intensive peer to peer contact, never playing doctor, stuff like that, had something to do with it. But maybe it was because it wasn't some big mystery to me, either. I essentially grew up on a farm, I knew about the mechanics of sex long before my body was mature. Sexual activity fell under the same category as birth and death, it was just part of the cycle. I saw animals mate and I saw them give birth. Baby animals grew into adult animals that mated and they themselves reproduced. Seeds were planted, crops grew, food was harvested and the land lay fallow in the winter, just as animals died of old age, disease, or were killed and their bodies had to be disposed of.
IMO, if you DEFINITELY connect sex to babies, it really is MUCH less appealing
MuscleMom said:They change, Erz, that's all I'm saying, they just ... change. In a lot of ways, a lot more than girls. Just don't be surprised when it happens. I'm only trying to give you a heads up, and I think you have a good few years before it happens
I'm really glad his father is in his life regularly, that will help. Don't be surprised if he wants to start spending more time with dad, doing father son things, what's great is if they both get involved in team sports, that's always a winner for boys, especially if dad coaches.
Okay, here's a brief (I CAN be short) story about teenage boys:
We're spending a week camping (on Hattaras, NC, actually) checking into the site. Campground office is pretty crowded, I'm chatting with an older lady while I'm waiting to check in:
She: "Do you have any children?"
Me: "Oh, yes, three."
She: "Oh, that's lovely, you know they'll have a ball! How old are they?"
Me: "Well, my husband's one son is 9, and his daughter is 12,"
She (nodding and smiling): "Oh, I bet they just love the pool ..."
Me: "Oh, yes! And my other son is 15."
At this statement, the lady's face FELL into this look of sorrowing concern, she put her hand on my arm and said softly: "oh, I'm so sorry," exactly the way you'd say to someone who told you that they'd just suffered a death in the family.
Believe it or not, her saying this made me feel much better
My answer to her: "So it's not just us, huh?"
She: "Oh no, dear, but it does get better."
THAT story illustrates, better than anything else I can tell you, what raising a teenage boy is about ...
No doubt they do change, I watched my younger bro go thru that. I don't take bull shit from anyone, and I can honestly say.. im the only one my bro has NEVER disrespected. Its bad, its good.. hell I dunno, but he ever talked to me the way he talked to my mom or my sisters i'd stand up to him in a heart beat. I'm no badass by anymeans, but I'm not scared to stand up for myself.
My son knows this too.. He's seen me go thru some extensive training and fighting in MMA. I don't care for the scare tactic, but hell if it works .. I'll take it. And his father supports all of my decisions, so he knows, lord forbid he even thinks he'll talk to me in that manner his dad will be on him in less than 2 seconds.
I won't toot my own horn here, but If my son ever stood up to me he'd better be ready to take it in the street.. and I'm not kidding, he knows this too. I won't now nor will I EVER tolerate him to be disrespectful to me.
His dad and myself are very active in sports with him and my daughter.. he hunts with his dad every year. We all took MA training together, I believe in family activities. Still now, I do thing with my X and my kids as a family. His only request for his bday was to go to the LSU game with his dad, me and his sister. I firmly believe that we made the decision to lay there and make these kids then we need to suck it up and make their life as normally as we possibly can even though we are divorced.
mrdeeznuts
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i know a guy who did his babysitter when he was 12. which resulted in a kid. the guy is now 27.
moral of story is ur kid is probably going to get laid soon
moral of story is ur kid is probably going to get laid soon
bigmann245
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well i had 2 older sisters and they told me everything. so i was knowledgeable early on but the emotions didnt start till about 12. but i was and still am very close to my mother and i take cafter her in the emotional side. my dad was a hard ass. not saying i was soft just that i understood feelings. i went to my mom for all the questions only cause my dads answer for everything was "your too young". but my mom would pull me aside and tell me the real story. even when i was 17 my dad said i was too young for a drivers liscense. my mom took me to get it. poissed my dad off. but now he realizes that he tried to shelter me way too much and regrets holding me back.
just be there for him. sounds like your doing an outstanding job. rememeber, hes around you more than his dad so he will take a notice to girls more at an early age. believe me. even though i grew up with my dad at home he worked so much i never saw him. but i had 2 older sisters and my mom that i was around all the time. just teach him to respect girls and not try and push them into anything they may not want to do or shouldnt be doing. my friend was 2 years younger than i. so the girls he brought to the parties and hanging out were 2 or 3 years younger than i. so when i wa 14 they were freegin 11 or 12. my friend made them do things that they knew they shouldnt but me and my friends were the "in" crowd so they did whatever he said. a lot of the times i had to step in. he was having sex early on at 12 and 13. i didnt have sex till i was 17 and about to leave for the navy. he took after his dad big time and he had 5 older brothers and 2 sisters. he followed his brothers a lot. we even went to parties they had and we were 14 and his brothers were 17 and 18.
do you see the difference? my friend never respected woman. he used them. but i was respectful and cared about them and protected them best i could. but sometimes i wasnt there and he got away with it. just teach him the right way to go about handling his emotions. whether it be sexual or mental.
just be there for him. sounds like your doing an outstanding job. rememeber, hes around you more than his dad so he will take a notice to girls more at an early age. believe me. even though i grew up with my dad at home he worked so much i never saw him. but i had 2 older sisters and my mom that i was around all the time. just teach him to respect girls and not try and push them into anything they may not want to do or shouldnt be doing. my friend was 2 years younger than i. so the girls he brought to the parties and hanging out were 2 or 3 years younger than i. so when i wa 14 they were freegin 11 or 12. my friend made them do things that they knew they shouldnt but me and my friends were the "in" crowd so they did whatever he said. a lot of the times i had to step in. he was having sex early on at 12 and 13. i didnt have sex till i was 17 and about to leave for the navy. he took after his dad big time and he had 5 older brothers and 2 sisters. he followed his brothers a lot. we even went to parties they had and we were 14 and his brothers were 17 and 18.
do you see the difference? my friend never respected woman. he used them. but i was respectful and cared about them and protected them best i could. but sometimes i wasnt there and he got away with it. just teach him the right way to go about handling his emotions. whether it be sexual or mental.
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Erzulie said:
settle down grandma
OMG, some day you may be REALLY luck and he will start telling you his sexual escapades!Erzulie said:
He doesn't go into much detail (mainly because I'm like, STOP, too much damn information). He gets a kick out of making me uncomfortable, thinks it's funny. I actually am very close with my son and he has told me some of his stories from Tech. School
Or even better/worse, his sexual conquests from high school ... Erzulie, what's MA training??? or MMA training?
MuscleMom said:OMG, some day you may be REALLY luck and he will start telling you his sexual escapades!
He doesn't go into much detail (mainly because I'm like, STOP, too much damn information). He gets a kick out of making me uncomfortable, thinks it's funny. I actually am very close with my son and he has told me some of his stories from Tech. School
Erzulie, what's MA training??? or MMA training?
Well, I'll put it short and sweet... My son tells me everything.. LOL and he's very smart
No sexual escapades yet though.. THANK GOD!MA = martial arts MMA= mixed martial arts
Mr. Black said:
8 weeks of sust redijects and 35 mg of anavar for 8 weeks
i needed some size quick (fucking AAU nationals and i wasnt near the size of the discus throwers) normally a track bro but went field
and yes everyone on my track team juiced (all foriegners and no biggie plus mexico was just a bike ride away)
Erzulie said:
didnt think twice about it...just we all went there and bought shit.. i dont regret i guess... i duinno..never think about it.
wet dreams? lol i still get them... just chics I see.. i dream about them and i end up banging them in my sleep.. i was sleepin over my gf house (now ex) well we never had sex that nite... a few hours later i shot a load every where...all her leg and and the sheets etc..
she was fucking pissed
but i have a wet dream prolly 1 or so every week
bigmann245
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SublimeZM said:
dude that was wrong on both counts.
bigmann245
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Erzulie said:thank you Bigmann
Your very welcome.
Oh, you won't get the stories until he considers himself an adult, if ever. I didn't start hearing this stuff until my son came back from basic training. Teens get private. C'mon how much did you keep from your own parentsErzulie said:Well, I'll put it short and sweet... My son tells me everything.. LOL and he's very smart
MA = martial arts MMA= mixed martial arts
(I didn't know you knew martial arts ... ) anyway, the thing is, when puberty kicks in full steam, your entire relationship with your children evolves, including discipline. It's not like swatting them on the ass because they kicked you during a temper tantrum. You can't take things to a physical level with a teenager, NOT a boy, and ESPECIALLY if you, his mother HAVE THE ABILITY to kick his ass, you'll really screw him up. Instead of respecting you, he'll resent you and be very angry, at you in particular, and women in general.
I personally liked puberty/teenage years, in a way. Once you learn to realize that they're the ones who are crazy, not you. It's interesting to see the transition from childhood to adulthood, the growth from child to man. I'm not much of a KID person, anyway, if that makes sense, not much good at the whole silly/game playing thing.
It doesn't happen overnight, Erzulie, any more than anything else about parenthood does. It's more like a 2 steps forward, one step back thing ... and before you know it you have a kid that you're giving driving lessons to
MuscleMom said:Oh, you won't get the stories until he considers himself an adult, if ever. I didn't start hearing this stuff until my son came back from basic training. Teens get private. C'mon how much did you keep from your own parents
(I didn't know you knew martial arts ... ) anyway, the thing is, when puberty kicks in full steam, your entire relationship with your children evolves, including discipline. It's not like swatting them on the ass because they kicked you during a temper tantrum. You can't take things to a physical level with a teenager, NOT a boy, and ESPECIALLY if you, his mother HAVE THE ABILITY to kick his ass, you'll really screw him up. Instead of respecting you, he'll resent you and be very angry, at you in particular, and women in general.
I personally liked puberty/teenage years, in a way. Once you learn to realize that they're the ones who are crazy, not you. It's interesting to see the transition from childhood to adulthood, the growth from child to man. I'm not much of a KID person, anyway, if that makes sense, not much good at the whole silly/game playing thing.
It doesn't happen overnight, Erzulie, any more than anything else about parenthood does. It's more like a 2 steps forward, one step back thing ... and before you know it you have a kid that you're giving driving lessons to
MM, I know what you're saying... I was raised never to raise my voice or my hand to my parents and I knew if I did then I better be ready to get my ass beat. I wouldn't ever try to humiliate him but I feel if he's man enough to raise his hand to me then he'd better always be willing to back it up.
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