i only did that once and early on, we don't call each other names and we don't make threats, no need to..
learning how to communicate your displeasure with the other person and what they are doing is the best thing, never call them names, after all that's abuse, and in many ways more destructive than physical abuse.
Did you decide that early on? make rules about how to fight? Talk about how your going to communicate your displeasure? That was a big problem in my last relationship so I'm interested in how you do that. Trying to learn for the next time.
