A mistake is not the same as an accident. Yes it is a consious choice. I didn't say that it was *accidental*. What I did say is that it IS possible to forgive and move on without harboring any feelings of anger or resentment.
I am living proof.
You may not be the type that wants to be that way and I am not judging your for it. It is totally understandable and justifiable behavior.
I am just saying that it can be done. Nothing more and nothing less.
I stated as nauseum. I dont cheat. I never have and never will.
I would rather be the one that is in the position of being asked forgiveness and to show mercy. A bit more power in that position, dont you think?
You see the ability to forgive and not harbor resentment may open one up for the potential to be hurt again. I dont view that as a sign of weakness. I view it as TREMENDOUS power.
do you think its makes any deference at all if some gets caught or freely lets the person out of guilt or what ever...dos it make it any deferent at all.whats your take.
This is the most fascinating thread I've read on here in a while. Firstly, some of the posts are just classics. Secondly, I'm digging Bikinimom's neurotic, narcissistic, self-indulgent outbreaks. You know the ones where everyone is having a few shits and giggles and she starts to blow hard about her own particular situation..? Both make this one for the bookmarks.
But anyways Iw ouldnt be able to get back with a girl who cheated on me...out of respect for meself.
This is the most fascinating thread I've read on here in a while. Firstly, some of the posts are just classics. Secondly, I'm digging Bikinimom's neurotic, narcissistic, self-indulgent outbreaks. You know the ones where everyone is having a few shits and giggles and she starts to blow hard about her own particular situation..? Both make this one for the bookmarks.
But anyways Iw ouldnt be able to get back with a girl who cheated on me...out of respect for meself.