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Frackal
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I wish it could be that way Silvio, that is what I said to her, but she feels differently, I give up because it's not worth me getting my hopes up over and over again.
Jeeezzzzuuuus, you're only 19? Damn, that fact alone should cheer you. Dude, you have so much living ahead of you that someday all of this will be a faded memory. I was in the Army when I was your age and having the time of my life. Look, she's right. She's WAY older, has a kid, and probably a bunch of baggage. Damn, if I was 19, instead of pushing 40, I would be chasing some coeds around the campus. Look a guy said love is the strongest emotion, HOGWASH! Hate is. You will fall in and out of "love" a hundred times, but hate, hate lasts a lifetime. It's the only honest emotion we have! Finish school, get the career on track, train, get some when you can, and enjoy your youth. The day will come, a few years from now, when you will have a wife, a couple of kids, pushing 40, and wondering where your youth went. So have fun NOW!
Fuck no more cartchick!? That sucks I always liked her.
Dude it will hurt like a hot poker up the ass for awhile but it will go in time. it is going to hurt I can tell cuz you sound really bad.
You can drink but that would probably make you call her at 3am and the situation would get worse. Bro I dont know what to tell you.
Dude it will hurt like a hot poker up the ass for awhile but it will go in time. it is going to hurt I can tell cuz you sound really bad.
You can drink but that would probably make you call her at 3am and the situation would get worse. Bro I dont know what to tell you.
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Frackal
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Well I do not drink but I sure am gonna start a cycle in 2 months minimum, probably 1 1/2 months. Getting fucking jacked is the only thing that'll cheer me up because bodybuilding never "fucks" me over that's why it's now my most important thing...plus once I hit about 215-220 lean you know what that means for the women out there...not like I want any now but I will then probably.
You dont realize it yet, but she just did you a big favor.
The older woman/young man thing is exciting at first, but it always ends fairly quickly. Just be glad she told you this before you moved out there! She would have used you to help her through her divorce and hard times, then moved on to somebody more stable and permanent (older with more money) when she got the chance. Your heart will get spanked a lot harder than this over the next 10 years, so get ready. A strip club as mentioned above is indeed a good idea. Being surrounded by some hot chicks will definitly get your mind off things.
The older woman/young man thing is exciting at first, but it always ends fairly quickly. Just be glad she told you this before you moved out there! She would have used you to help her through her divorce and hard times, then moved on to somebody more stable and permanent (older with more money) when she got the chance. Your heart will get spanked a lot harder than this over the next 10 years, so get ready. A strip club as mentioned above is indeed a good idea. Being surrounded by some hot chicks will definitly get your mind off things.
Frackal.
I can't say what happened or why or how to fix it. The only thing I can say is that I can truly empathize with you. Had it happen to myself on both ends many times. The only solution is time. You WILL get over it, the hard thing is not thinking of it too much and find peace in your friends and bblding.
take care sweetie
I can't say what happened or why or how to fix it. The only thing I can say is that I can truly empathize with you. Had it happen to myself on both ends many times. The only solution is time. You WILL get over it, the hard thing is not thinking of it too much and find peace in your friends and bblding.
take care sweetie
Bro just don't do what I did when this happened to me one time. I went on a six month acid and vodka gimlet bender. It's not a pretty side.
You need to give yourself time to heal that is the number one thing.
You need to get laid too.
You need to give yourself time to heal that is the number one thing.
You need to get laid too.
WombRaider
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Dude, don't f-ing worry about it, man!! You're 19, go back to fucking college (student loans and pell grants!) and tag some real sweet ass. Join a fraternity and get into heavy sex parties and shitlike that. LIVE!!. She did you a huge favor though you can't see it now. You don't need some 'instant family' right now. you need to meet some college chick that you can grow old with and experience life with, not some used car with 100K miles on it!! Just focus on pumping iron and going to school, and unless you have a 3rd eye or something else fucked up about you, you get some nice young chickee in a heartbeat and this will be some faded memory somewhere that you will laugh about!!
Y_lifter
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After reading KartChics' post, I give her BIG PROPS for making a very difficult decision. IMO she was making a decision that she knew was going to hurt REAL BAD but it was the right decision to make at this point in your relationship. Putting it off would have only been more difficult.
I have had to make these type decisions in the past, and they are by no means made lightly or easy to do.
Good luck to you both and "Blame No one"...
I have had to make these type decisions in the past, and they are by no means made lightly or easy to do.
Good luck to you both and "Blame No one"...
