Children are a blessing. They will teach you things you never thought you didn't know: patience, strength, humility, forgiveness, that just when you think you couldn't possibly take another step - you've only gone HALF as far as you can and true unconditional love.
A child owes a parent nothing. But that parent owes their child EVERYTHING.
You're a good man. No matter how bleak a situation seems, just remember, everything happens for a reason. Even if that situation seems senseless. IT IS NOT. Only means we've not figured out the lesson that was meant for us.
Good to see you on the msn.
Maybe someday in the flesh.
Take care mon ami.... take care and be well till I see you again.