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I never said they were stupid, although I'll admit an allusion to ignorance might have been implicit (stupidity being the inability to learn whereas ignorance is just not having been exposed to the material to learn it). I did say that a difference in life experience can create disparity in a relationship and I would find that a HUGE obstacle over the long term. I need common ground to build a relationship on, and part of that is shared perspectives and common life experiences.
I mainly told you that I'm not in any way jealous of some 18 year old kid, and I explained to you why I'm not. Does she have a nicer body? There's a chance she does (but seriously, have you looked at the kids in the mall lately? A muffin top and midriff top is not pretty no matter how young you are), but there is not one thing she can do with that body in a bedroom that I can't. Plus, there is a WHOLE world of things I know about doing that I would never have dreamed of asking for or dared to try when I was 18. Finally, I was more neurotic about myself and my body when I was in my teens or 20s than I am now. I like myself now, which I can't honestly say I did then and that's one of the blessings about getting older as a woman. Guys generally don't have that problem, if anything they usually like themselves too damn much so maybe that's why satisfaction in being comfortable in your own skin a hard concept for some of them to grasp.
Well I don't know about me, but my husband is 54 and I'm not lying when I tell you I cannot keep up with him, he literally wears me out (in more than one way) and he is the best lover I've ever had. He's completely open, utterly uninhibited and has the stamina of TWO marathoners.
