Optimal age for attractiveness?

[miplank]

Teenage girls are like puppies. They are cute and playful and soft, but they don't know
how to do anything but pant and bark and drool on you.

Women in her 30's and 40's are like adult Golden Retrievers.
Eager to please, highly skilled and trained, will keep going until YOU have had enough.
And they know exactly what to do without uttering a word. .



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I still disagree...my wife knows/does all that.



although we've been together for a long time...so she better know what i like

 

[musclemom]

Teenage girls are like puppies. They are cute and playful and soft, but they don't know
how to do anything but pant and bark and drool on you.

Women in her 30's and 40's are like adult Golden Retrievers.
Eager to please, highly skilled and trained, will keep going until YOU have had enough.
And they know exactly what to do without uttering a word. .

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Honestly, HalfC, you can say the same thing about young men, too.

Most guys have NO idea how to work anything properly (or how to keep it working long enough, if you get my drift) until they hit their 30s. In hindsight, the worst sex I've ever had in my life was the youthful sex. But I'm an old fart, I actually thought at the time it (and I) was good. Oh man I was SO FUCKING wrong!!!

 

[blueta2]

I still disagree...my wife knows/does all that.



although we've been together for a long time...so she better know what i like

no offense to you or your wife, but she is still a very young woman. When she hits her dirty 30's, you'll be coming back to this board stating otherwise ;-)

I knew SQUAT about sex at 19 and I had been with the same guy 3 yrs (and sexually active) by that point

 

[miplank]

no offense to you or your wife, but she is still a very young woman. When she hits her dirty 30's, you'll be coming back to this board stating otherwise ;-)

I knew SQUAT about sex at 19 and I had been with the same guy 3 yrs (and sexually active) by that point

oh no..don't get me wrong..I'm not saying anything to discredit woman in their 30's (so I hear that's thier prime)

I'm just sayin...its not like she just lays on her back and I pump away (your welcome for the mental image )


I actually am quite looking forward to that time...hope I can still keep up seeing how i'll be damn near 40

 

[blueta2]

oh no..don't get me wrong..I'm not saying anything to discredit woman in their 30's (so I hear that's thier prime)

I'm just sayin...its not like she just lays on her back and I pump away (your welcome for the mental image )


I actually am quite looking forward to that time...hope I can still keep up seeing how i'll be damn near 40

LOL.....thanks for the mental image...haha!

Please, my boyfriend is 43 and he keeps up WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY better than my ex who was 11 yrs younger than me. My ex was 23 when I met him ;-)

 

[digimon7068]

LOL.....thanks for the mental image...haha!

Please, my boyfriend is 43 and he keeps up WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY better than my ex who was 11 yrs younger than me. My ex was 23 when I met him ;-)

i'm dead-sexy. . .and i'll be 44 in a few weeks

 

[dutchman063]

True.

The big reason why men like girls young is because they won't be too quick to get wise of the guy's insecurities, short comings and the player ways for a small collection of the same guys. They're an attractive trinket for them to explore, exploit and control because they lack the life experience to know better.

the jealousy running thick in this thread, you make it sound as if the girl is some sort of victim. like she's being held at gun point or somethin. she's just as willing to be there as he is. sure we like them for their nice young tight bodies. just like they like us for our maturity, wealth,stability, good looks, and whatever else.. it's a trade off between two consenting adults

 

[musclemom]

the jealousy running thick in this thread, you make it sound as if the girl is some sort of victim. like she's being held at gun point or somethin. she's just as willing to be there as he is. sure we like them for their nice young tight bodies. just like they like us for our maturity, wealth,stability, good looks, and whatever else.. it's a trade off between two consenting adults

I know your comment is directed toward Velvett, not me but I'll give a shot at getting you to understand this: It's NOT jealousy!

I can assure you, there is not a woman in her 30s or older who would trade what's inside her head, and about how she feels about herself, to get back the body of her 18 year old self, NOT A ONE. We are not jealous of younger women, we do not in any way, shape, form or fashion resent that men are attracted to what we consider basically children or little girls.

But many of us are left perplexed at how such a relationship can be satisfying. If you take away the pretty package (and really that package is that pretty so transiently), what the HELL does a guy verging on 40-something man have to say to a 19 or 20 year old kid? Seriously? I am 43, I have a 23 year old son. I love him to death but we don't share the same interest in art or music or activities. In short, we have very little in common over the long haul, and I've known him all his LIFE!

I guess what I'm saying is there comes a point in life when I would think you would desire a relationship that is fulfilling on more than one level. And that other fulfillment can, for some of us, have an increase on perception of beauty.

 

[lartinos]

True.

The big reason why men like girls young is because they won't be too quick to get wise of the guy's insecurities, short comings and the player ways for a small collection of the same guys. They're an attractive trinket for them to explore, exploit and control because they lack the life experience to know better.

is it that or the fact many older woman (over 22) are jaded about life after being fucked over by dudes that they now never give guys a chance without harassing them and questioning them about everything because THEY are the insecure ones. Maybe we don't feel like dealing with old/used items and would like to start a clean slate.... to destroy

 

[dutchman063]

I know your comment is directed toward Velvett, not me but I'll give a shot at getting you to understand this: It's NOT jealousy!

I can assure you, there is not a woman in her 30s or older who would trade what's inside her head, and about how she feels about herself, to get back the body of her 18 year old self, NOT A ONE. We are not jealous of younger women, we do not in any way, shape, form or fashion resent that men are attracted to what we consider basically children or little girls.

you're sayin ALL feel like that?? complete BS and in denial...and the fact you called younder women "children" or "little girls" brings out the jealousy in you. its obvious


But many of us are left perplexed at how such a relationship can be satisfying. If you take away the pretty package (and really that package is that pretty so transiently), what the HELL does a guy verging on 40-something man have to say to a 19 or 20 year old kid? Seriously? I am 43, I have a 23 year old son. I love him to death but we don't share the same interest in art or music or activities. In short, we have very little in common over the long haul, and I've known him all his LIFE!

of course you have no idea what its like to be with a younger woman. if you were an older guy you would understand completely, and you're comparing the relationship you have with your son to an older man and a younger girl dating??? wtf? LMAO you are delusional

I guess what I'm saying is there comes a point in life when I would think you would desire a relationship that is fulfilling on more than one level. And that other fulfillment can, for some of us, have an increase on perception of beauty.

believe it or notn not all younger girls are as stupid as you believe them to be or should i say, wish they were