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[Strongbow]

Stop being a fucking tool and a doormat, grow a set of balls and be a MAN instead of some woman's servant. I hope this is not your case, but usually what is happening in cases like this is, you are being Mr. Nice Guy and kissing her ass, and some long dicked beer drinking mutha fucker who don't give two shits about her is drilling her ass on the side. She is getting plowed and laughing at you at home with your apron on. The massages prolly do help her out thou, cause I am pretty sure the guy that is getting your poosie is pounding the shit out of it. One more question is your name Keith? Thanks

 

[miplank]

lolololo

 

[digimon7068]

i give my wife a good 40-60 minute massage 5-6 nights a week. i rub her feet while we're watching tv. 20 minutes per foot. just about every night along with her massage..mornings when the alarm goes off, i rub and massage her 20 minutes, just about every morning.
i send her text messages 2-3 times a day letting her know how hot she looked all dressed up heading off for work. ( she is very hot)once a week, i'll put a note in her briefcase telling her she looked and smelled so good. a small love note.
i email her once a day saying i love you..
been married 22 years. dating 6 before that.
i train very hard. always sore. i get no massages. MAYBE a 5 minute massage once every 3 weeks, but usually never ever anything. i never get a text, other than her saying thanks to the text i sent her. she never ever ever ever initiates sex.
what the hell do i do??
i want sex 24/7. her, hahahaha. 1 time a week is fine..
i think i would die if she initiated anything physical. she's been thru the change so thats not an issue. it was, but thankfully thats over. no stress on work..
just enjoys the notes, massages, texts and all else i do. i just want the same in return. i get zero. i mean zero.
we get along fine, but no physical action unless i start,it and then its excuses, like the kids are still up, i'll be there later, knowing i'll be sleeping, but she gives in 1 day a week.
sex is awsome, but 1 day a week..
i spent my whole life training, eating good, taking vitamins, so maybe it paid off and i have a great sex drive. trouble is , she has a terrible drive. now what.

i don't know about the "drive" part...but, if it's important (your sex life), that's something that you should obviously look in to with a competent professional...but the other stuff?? you're the pursuer, she's the pursued...that stuff doesn't go away just because your married...even if its been 22 years...that doesn't mean that she shouldn't show sOme interest once in a while, but don't expect tit-for-tat, prolly ain't gonna happen (imho).

 

[jaybois]

from my experiences the worse you treat a woman the better she treats you. They're fucked up in the head like that.

+1

 

[Ezekiel]

Craigslist?

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[-SD-]

Go here:

not very christ-like rob

 

[ceo]

well, you're both unemployed? How are you surviving? Man, that would be a shitty situation in any household as far as I'm concerned. Now she's the only one working, so she feels all the pressure to provide. Not a woman's typical or best role. I bet if you at least got a job and started bringing home a regular paycheck she might feel better, and maybe be more open to providing for your sexual needs.

 

[spk55]

ceo
i worked for 36 years. been off a few months.. thats all. the once a week sex has been going on 20+ years..

 

[-SD-]

ceo
i worked for 36 years. been off a few months.. thats all. the once a week sex has been going on 20+ years..

slip her some Dbol tabs in her drinks

 

[Strongbow]

ceo
i worked for 36 years. been off a few months.. thats all. the once a week sex has been going on 20+ years..

DUde WTF somebody has been knocking bottom out yo shit for 20 yers. How fucking old are you bro? From the way it sounds, if your getting it once a week at your age your doing okay brah, WTF.