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Man love is not always gonna be this happy fun filled thing. Love is definetley a commitment you have to stick out the hard times. Look at it like this when a couple has a baby they are in totaly awe of the baby for the first year at leat just can't get over him they will sneak into his bedroom to peek at him sleeping it's love yes but it's the newness of having the baby around. When your baby turns into a kid you still love that kid 100% as much as you did when he was first born but you may not have the same sense of awe you had before but you still totally love him NO MATTER WHAT it doesnt take being 100% exitied every time he moves you will go through hard times with that kid and get over them also and the love for him wont change this is a love you dont pick and choose its just there you do have to choose to make the relationship with your kid work if you want a good father/son relationship you have to suck it up and work at the love for thems not the prob its the effort of putting in the work. Same way with your fiance. The puppy love stage is over who cares? it would end with ANYONE you were with thats just a fact yes you will still have "exciting" times throughout your lives together but you will also have normalcy its just a part of life and being adjusted to being around someone always. Just remeber marriage is not a joke though it a very serious thing not to be taken lightly and you will go through hard times but if you work at it and put into your marriage you can make through any of the hard times and the reward of marriage is awsome can't even explain it. Its well worth the work you put in it. You think you can get awsome gains from working out right and roids, you dont even know what gains are until youve "worked out" your marriage and invested into it. Its awsome. I don't mean to preach to ya but I would also look for a church to get involved in that believes the bible and in Jesus Christ (no sense wasting your time in one that doesnt) and go to their pre-marriage counseling the pastor can probably help you a lot in what to expect and all that. Anyways if you love this girl stick with her marry her I hate it when I hear people say marriage sucks and all that crap there probabally right it does probably suck if you dont work at it. REMEBER YOUR NOT GONNA HAVE PUPPY LOVE WITH ANYONE FOR EVERY FACE IT !!! you gots to get to the "real love".
As far as kids are concerned man I say 100% after your married at least 1 year go for it you will then if your like most father's who are decent humanbeings wish you would have had kids long ago.
Man when I found out my wife was pregnant for the first time I freaked out I could not believe I mad her get like 10 pregnancy test all positive we werent planning it so It "kinda" of scared me at first then I was pumped about it man I carried the pee covered test around with me slaping down on peeps desks (mostly cause it was funny to see there faces when I set a used pregnancy test up there) Anyways no doubt if you have a kid YOU WILL FIND A WAY TO PROVIDE FOR HIM/HER and will Love them unconditionally
man it is 100% awsome. It is alot of work but again WAY worth it especially if your kids as cute as mine sorry .... see what I mean though. Dont think your not ready I say do it do it, but I personally would take a 1yr or 2 for personal time with the wife but if it happens dont stress go with be excited get ready for no sleep for about 4.5 months.
Probably 90% of women over 22 years old that have been a steady relationship are ready for marriage and if your not willing they will probably move on and find someone who is. Dont let her go if you love her
Peace,
WeeMan
Man love is not always gonna be this happy fun filled thing. Love is definetley a commitment you have to stick out the hard times. Look at it like this when a couple has a baby they are in totaly awe of the baby for the first year at leat just can't get over him they will sneak into his bedroom to peek at him sleeping it's love yes but it's the newness of having the baby around. When your baby turns into a kid you still love that kid 100% as much as you did when he was first born but you may not have the same sense of awe you had before but you still totally love him NO MATTER WHAT it doesnt take being 100% exitied every time he moves you will go through hard times with that kid and get over them also and the love for him wont change this is a love you dont pick and choose its just there you do have to choose to make the relationship with your kid work if you want a good father/son relationship you have to suck it up and work at the love for thems not the prob its the effort of putting in the work. Same way with your fiance. The puppy love stage is over who cares? it would end with ANYONE you were with thats just a fact yes you will still have "exciting" times throughout your lives together but you will also have normalcy its just a part of life and being adjusted to being around someone always. Just remeber marriage is not a joke though it a very serious thing not to be taken lightly and you will go through hard times but if you work at it and put into your marriage you can make through any of the hard times and the reward of marriage is awsome can't even explain it. Its well worth the work you put in it. You think you can get awsome gains from working out right and roids, you dont even know what gains are until youve "worked out" your marriage and invested into it. Its awsome. I don't mean to preach to ya but I would also look for a church to get involved in that believes the bible and in Jesus Christ (no sense wasting your time in one that doesnt) and go to their pre-marriage counseling the pastor can probably help you a lot in what to expect and all that. Anyways if you love this girl stick with her marry her I hate it when I hear people say marriage sucks and all that crap there probabally right it does probably suck if you dont work at it. REMEBER YOUR NOT GONNA HAVE PUPPY LOVE WITH ANYONE FOR EVERY FACE IT !!! you gots to get to the "real love".
As far as kids are concerned man I say 100% after your married at least 1 year go for it you will then if your like most father's who are decent humanbeings wish you would have had kids long ago.
Man when I found out my wife was pregnant for the first time I freaked out I could not believe I mad her get like 10 pregnancy test all positive we werent planning it so It "kinda" of scared me at first then I was pumped about it man I carried the pee covered test around with me slaping down on peeps desks (mostly cause it was funny to see there faces when I set a used pregnancy test up there) Anyways no doubt if you have a kid YOU WILL FIND A WAY TO PROVIDE FOR HIM/HER and will Love them unconditionally
man it is 100% awsome. It is alot of work but again WAY worth it especially if your kids as cute as mine sorry .... see what I mean though. Dont think your not ready I say do it do it, but I personally would take a 1yr or 2 for personal time with the wife but if it happens dont stress go with be excited get ready for no sleep for about 4.5 months.
Probably 90% of women over 22 years old that have been a steady relationship are ready for marriage and if your not willing they will probably move on and find someone who is. Dont let her go if you love her
Peace,
WeeMan
