O/t Very Depressed Just Broke Up With My Fiance Of Five Years

[Arnold Schwarzenegger]

sorry to hear that bro...sometimes being together with someone all the time (living with them) you don't have time to miss them..so it just seems the spark is gone...until you have time to miss them..i have been through that before...hope everything works out for the best

 

[ripped103]

one of the main reasons of the break up is that she is ready to buy a house and ave kids and im not.im confused because i dont know if i was staying together becaue were comfortable with each other or because we really are still in love.im sitting here making myself crazy and dont know what to do.i hope it was the right decision.i know i canget her back if i agree to move on and get married nd have kids.this is wear it gets tricky, she is almost 30 im 24.that is why she is ready before me.the whole biological clock is ticking thing.thanks for the support though but im just a mess right now and needed to talk

 

[ultragainz]

marry her...tell her you will have kids next year tel lher you guys have to work has a team then hug her and tell her she is the love of your life...yu want to be there with her until your dieing day...really bro do it right know!!!"ultrastyle" really bro...get a house you have yur own house have and talk to her about kids..hug her then

 

[ripped103]

monkey_love you have no clue as too what your talking about.the agreement was actually mutual.i knew very well my situation and did not know if i wanted to correct i.no juice does not run my life.she has always came before everything even myself
.i just have too decide if i ready for kids which i dont think i am

 

[Grizzly]

When I first read the thread title I thought about this and then I read your post about her wanting kids and all. Dude, 5 years is a damn long time to be engaged. Shit or get off the pot, bro. As for not being ready for kids, you just might have to bite the bullet. If she's truly the love of your life you'd best do what it takes to keep her. The only reason I can see to not have chillins with her is if you guys can't afford them.

 

[raft]

A wise man once said, "If you love something, sometimes you gotta let it go; if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't it never was".

 

[MohawkMuscle]

You still wanna be friends?

I broke up with a g/f of 3 years.. We were living together moved to a different province, spoke about kids and marriage...

I saw her at toy r us 5 weeks pregnant. OUCH!

Do you still want to be friends knowing that day may come?

 

[Michael Jones]

If it is over the best thing that you can do for you is to give yourself some time from her. Don't go to see her or let her come see you. I know this might sound a bit harsh but I went through the same thing a few years back and it was alot better to not see her and get use to her not being around for a while before I saw her again. When I did see her it didn't hurt as much as I thought it would. Stay up Bro.

 

[MohawkMuscle]

Breaking up SUX!

 

[FreakMonster]

Bro I'm in the same exact situation you are. hehe
Let me tell ya if FUCKING SUCKS. She's 29 and I'm 25 and she's so ready to get married and have kids. I'm not sure if I'm quite ready for that yet but I love her to death. Worst part is all my friends are telling me I shouldn't be with her any longer and not to get back with her but I'm having alot of trouble leaving her. I'm so fucking confused it's not even funny. Wish I could move away and start all over.