Never tell your SO that you use gear

[*MissFit*]

MissFit: Yeah, I had doubts back in August. We broke up because of those doubts. Went to anger management in the process, and a month later, got back together. Things were perfect again for about 3 weeks. Then I started to distrust her again. She wasn't being herself.

I wasn't till two weeks I found emails, letters, messages, online profiles, etc. of her, with them two conversating. I read the writings, and it confirmed my worst thoughts. I called the guy and he admitted. Called her work and girls there admitted to it. She just continued to feed me b/s.


As foir the pics and movies, I have over 6 gigs of porn with her. Some real dirty stuff. However, funny enough, I guess I'm not the only one that dislikes her now. Because someone hacked my wireless laptop weeks ago and stole the content. It got linked all over the internet. Even after all the cheating, I still went out of my way to spend 10 hours to get the pictures taken off the net.

Lesson learned: trust no one.

I guess when im dating someone and if they were taking gear i would want to know,.... don't tell me the sources or where you keep it.. but i wanna know what a guy is taking in case something goes wrong..

sounds like this chick was a douche bag to begin with..

Good luck in the future though..

 

[*MissFit*]

I'm not embarressed about shit. Hell, there are 50 photos of me and her fucking going around my town and her town. Do I care that thousands of chicks are starring at my cock? Nope.

I look better than most guys at the beach, and every time the shirt comes off, I get girls going "Wow, I Love your body". Hell, I have girls drooling over my body WITH clothes on. So I could care less.

What I do care about is that if it gets out to the proper authorities. I don't want a raid on any of my locations.

As far as fucking her mom, dude, you don't even WANT to see what the old hag looks like. She's disgusting. Hopefully the ex turns out like her later in life, then I can justify being dumped by her. LOL

And as far as fucking her friends, I don't know. She told all her friends I'm an abusive asshole. Girls wouldn't want to have sex with me after they heard I'm an asshole, let alone I used to date their best friend - would they?? I know I personally wouldn't EVER touch a guy friends' girlfriend, or ex girlfriend. That's just low.

Babe what comes around goes around.. karma.. she will get whats coming to her..

 

[AMGETR]

Babe what comes around goes around.. karma.. she will get whats coming to her..

I hope so. Thanks for the words

 

[asianlover]

Babe what comes around goes around.. karma.. she will get whats coming to her..

and so will you. but it wil be good for you. the only reason why i would tell a women is if we were going to get married. you are a better man than i am because i don't do well with betrayal. i may have been out in the desert digging two holes.

 

[AMGETR]

I'm not dealing with it very well. I can't stop talking or thinking about it. I live 3000 miles away from her right now, but if I didn't, I would be straight up bashing her character to her face.

Right now I look like the bad guy, as shes telling everyone in her town that I am:
1. Abusive
2. Cheated on her
3. Sent her nudie pictures around
4. An asshole
5. Using gear

 

[swordfish151]

Hey sorry to hear that bro..i remember that thread you posted a while back about getting your stuff together for her (going to anger management) and all and i remember you being really sincere about it...sucks to hear that after all that she was being shaddy behind your back...

 

[dullboy]

dullboy doesn't believe that a husband and wife should have any secrets. that shit is like poison.

b/f - g/f is a different story.

 

[dullboy]

the best revenge is living well.

there's also two sides to every story.

your story.

her story.

the truth.

were you fucking around too?

 

[AMGETR]

Swordfish: Yeah, that post is still around, too. I have never had anything to hide from her. I loved her with all my heart, and I planned on marrying her one day. If she said I had anger issues, I did what I had to do to correct it. It wasn't until 2 months into the sessions that my therapist told me I didn't have any real anger, and rather what me and the girlfriend needed were to simply talk more about any thing that disturbed us.

Dullboy: Never would I fathom thinking of another woman. I was the happiest guy in the world. I would sell all my houses, cars, and donate all my money to just have her in my life. She made me complete. She knew how much I loved her, and everyone else that knew us, knew how much I loved her. There was nothing too big of a chore that I wouldn't do for her. I loved her, and I guess she got used to it, took it for granted, and decided that she could go around and mess with other guys?

In the end, hopefully karma catches up to her. She deserves to suffer for everything she put me through. It's one thing to cheat and breakup, it's another to prolong it for 3 months, and have the guy think he is doing something wrong.

 

[hangclean]

Why would a 20 year old need to use gear? Not bashing you in any way, but most guys make the best gains of there life when the're 20. Without gear.