Never tell your SO that you use gear

[macrophage69alpha]

Sorry to hear hun but maybe u chose the wrong girls.. didnt u have doubts about her before?

choosing to tell the wrong person about anything can cause problems. though keeping secrets in a "healthy" relationship, where its obvious that you are lying and forces you to lie about other things, can cause just as many problems. (though usually problems in the relationship)

sadly when relationships end badly the parties often try to hurt each other and justify their own actions (particularly when their bad actions led to the break up). and the excuses and attacks that are used are not always true (if they ring true to the hearer then thats just as effective)

sample conversations:
girl1 " you cheated on him, its your fault "
ex-girl" he was on those steroids and stuff"
girl2 " oh, thats different, what a loser"

girl1 " you cheated on him, its your fault "
ex-girl" he was a thief"
girl2 " oh, thats different, what a loser"

girl1 " you cheated on him, its your fault "
ex-girl" he was cheating on me"
girl2 " oh, thats different, what a loser"

girl1 " you cheated on him, its your fault "
ex-girl" he was a drug dealer"
girl2 " oh, thats different, what a loser"

girl1 " you cheated on him, its your fault "
ex-girl" he was a abusive"
girl2 " oh, thats different, what a loser"

etc.

btw- you may guess that script writing is not in the cards

 

[AMGETR]

MissFit: Yeah, I had doubts back in August. We broke up because of those doubts. Went to anger management in the process, and a month later, got back together. Things were perfect again for about 3 weeks. Then I started to distrust her again. She wasn't being herself.

I wasn't till two weeks I found emails, letters, messages, online profiles, etc. of her, with them two conversating. I read the writings, and it confirmed my worst thoughts. I called the guy and he admitted. Called her work and girls there admitted to it. She just continued to feed me b/s.


As foir the pics and movies, I have over 6 gigs of porn with her. Some real dirty stuff. However, funny enough, I guess I'm not the only one that dislikes her now. Because someone hacked my wireless laptop weeks ago and stole the content. It got linked all over the internet. Even after all the cheating, I still went out of my way to spend 10 hours to get the pictures taken off the net.

Lesson learned: trust no one.

 

[ALIN]

Because the moment she starts to cheat on you, and then lie about it for 3 months, and then finally you catch her and confront her, she'll then dump you, and tell everyone that you use gear.

Life sucks.

good idea to keep confidential

 

[bivk]

LOL so where does one go to obtain these pictures

 

[preemo]

shit sometimes i deny it to myself trust no one exspecially those who are vindictive by nature-WOMEN!!

 

[AMGETR]

To her town. They are being sent around everyone's email from what I've been told.

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

Douch bag... if you have any naked videos or pictures of her... NOW is the time to post them on the net!

or just send them all to me and I'LL post them for you.

 

[fivefold]

lol, Yes!!! send them to me and I will do all the work of making sure they are spread across the country...

 

[Anthony Starks]

Because the moment she starts to cheat on you, and then lie about it for 3 months, and then finally you catch her and confront her, she'll then dump you, and tell everyone that you use gear.

Life sucks.

Yup, I broke up with my gf of 3.5 years and she told everyone I used gear, and our breakup wasn't even bad. Chicks just can't keep their mouths closed about what they think is juicy gossip, especially if they think it will make them look "right" in the breakup. It was nice having someone to do my glute injects, but fuck it, from now on its only me that knows.

BTW, sorry about getting cheated on, that shit probably hurts a lot more than the gear revealing and really the only way to get over it is to start banging other chicks ASAP. Get to it bro, good luck

 

[AMGETR]

Taking a long break from girls. Going to focus on working out and work, and when school starts up, focus on that too.

My life is too complicated to get involved I've realized... I travel every 2nd week for LONG periods of time for school or business or personal. I don't have a normal enough life for any female to want to stick it out with me. Vancouver, Canada, to New York, NY, to California, to the east coast, to the Caymans, to Dubai... No female is loyal enough to wait 1 month at a time to see me.