Need Some Serious Personal Advice

[seventieschile']

My life is in shambles and I need some serious advice on how to begin the process of piecing it back together.
Every aspect of my life is just complete shit right now. Professionaly (sales) , I' just can't keep a job. Although I'm only 23 and still relatively young, I don't believe this is a normal thing. Although I'm just 2 years out of college. I can hired to do anything. I've never been to an interview that I haven't aced; whether its a position making 40 grand a year or 6 digits. Unfortunately, this is the full and total extend of my professional success. I always start off bangin. After a couple months I've usually achieved the status as top rep and then I just stop showing up. No phone call, no email. No reason. I just quit.

 

[AAP]

Wow. I am not joking or kidding around, but you should consider checking with a therapist and seeing what the underlying issue on this really is.

Give musclebrains a ring on this.. he is good with this kind of thing. And he is very confidential. About all I can help you with is gay sex.

(interested?)

 

[georgie24]

first you need to relax then take charge of your life

 

[jwill3:16]

you might want to seek help they can really do you good as loing as you are willing to accept change... i hope all is well...

 

[seventieschile']

Sorry I accidentally hit enter... this continues

I apologize for the cut off and any for spelling errors. I hit enter accidentally.
Anyways, My financial life is a joke. Seriously, I'm not even going to go there. Of course the only reason I'm in complete and utter financial ruin is because I can't keep a job.
Now from professional to personal. I just have no consistency. Never had. I make all these lofty goals and get uber motivated then just stop. No reason. Just lose interest. Working out has been a huge one. I'm the type of person that if I'm not in the gym five or six days a week a feel like shit. But when I'm in there doing what I got to do I feel unstoppable. All the craziness in my life starts to dissipate. I've always had the goal to acquire the cover model physique but always fall short. I'll just miss one day, then two, then a week. After that I feel horrible about myself and start all over. Once again no consistency.
Which brings me to the one consistency that I do have, but I'd really rather not... my girlfried. Well I actually classify here has this chick that has just dug her claws into me and just won't let go. She is constantly around. If i don't see her one day a week its like a f#$king meteor is heading to earth and our doom is emanate. I mean unless you experienced it you have no idea. We hung out one day and that was it. I tell her at least 3 times a week that I don't want a relationship, don't want her, and that I constantly "hook up" other chix. Most women would say fuck you and walk away never looking back. But not her, nooooooo. Just the opposite, she's up my ass even more. It's just awful.
I play way too many video games and don't go out enough. When I do get out I have mad ass fun. But the girl is constantly up my ass so I rarely have the opportunity to do anything without her.
Oh by the way, did I mention I still live with my mother and she's a crazy old hag that annoys me beyond no end. Anyone wanna trade places, please?
I need to get this boat turned around. Any and all advice will be most welcome. Thanks in advance.

 

[AAP]

Counselor and possible meds. You need it bro. I hear the part about setting lofty goals, being supercharged about them and then losing interest.

 

[georgie24]

you may have bi-polar disorder! i can bet my money on it you do

 

[AAP]

you may have bi-polar disorder! i can bet my money on it you do

I would bet you have one too georgie. I am not kidding. Or at least a very severe case of co-dependency. You should really take an hour and look over the net for information on co-dependency. Look at the symptoms, look at yourself. This is not a flame or anything, as you know in the past, I have made long posts on the threads you made like this. But please, at least look it over.

 

[SofaGeorge]

you may have bi-polar disorder! i can bet my money on it you do

I was guessing bi-polar or depression. Regardless, AAP called it right first. You need to go to a therapist and work on getting diagnosed. The severity of the pattern of your behavior indicates that it likely may be a problem that requires professional assessment.

And for his speedy contribution... I nominate AAP for Mod.

 

[seventieschile']

Well I can imagine that bipolar disorder would be the first impression to anyone reading this article. I would assume so myself if it wasn't for this. I rarely if ever get depressed. I'm not emotional like that. I've been described as emotionally dead, but that may be relationship specific. Although I do get very excited and I feel that the world is limitless and full of possibility. I would ask this; is this a personal problem isolated upon me only, or is it reality based? I mean the world is indeed limitless and people can achieve full potential both financialy and personally. If I can only stay tapped into that mindset 24/7 and not lose that ambition, I probably wouldn't be typing this write now. Maybe its just severe laziness. Anyone think thats a possibility?