need some advice/sechually frustrated

[miplank]

doods are raising my little bastards I sprayed all around the globe



just sayin'

Only place you've sprayed your kids is on the bathroom tile and up inside man ass

 

[wootoom]

ass tew ass

 

[binö]

Setting yourself up for teh pwnting but hope not rob

yea i could be, but one has to take chances in this world, i'll deal with what ever happens.
and i'll be better cause of it however it pans out.
fuckit

 

[bigpokey]

bino why is there a gap between your left leg and the black paint?? what happened to your balls? oooooooic this thread explains it.....

 

[WoodyO]

Bino, I can't tell if you're circumcised with that smudge on your avi.

 

[mrplunkey]

yea if only it was that easy.
33 fastly approacing 34, the avg girl has shit out at least one kid at this age.
fuk if i just wait a few more yrs the kids will be up and out of the house and i'll miss child rearing all together.
i like kids for the most part, but my patience is super thin and i tolerate very little nancyish crying/whinning

It's a trade-off.

If you go the no-kids/23 y/o route, you'll wind-up doing some raising yourself -- you'll be raising your wife.

If you go the kid(s)/28ish y/o route, you'll get one with some maturity and perspective -- but have a kid to boot.

Women with kids come with that extra mouth to feed, but you'd be surprised at how rewarding raising a kid can be. Plus, it will make you an even better parent when your own spawn comes.

You're approaching this right way. And the good news is there isn't really a wrong answer, except wading into the situation without thinking it through first (which you clearly aren't doing).

 

[pdaddyII]

I haven't read through the responses so I'm not sure if this is repeat advice or not. As you know I have a 6 year old and there have been MANY times I've been in your predicament. Your girl is using the kid as an excuse not to give the vag. There is no reason not to have the seckuals when the kid is in the next room, with the door closed to boot! I've knocked it out while my daughter was in the same room awake. It's easy, spoon from behind with a blanket over you and slip it in, just can't get too worked up and start pounding for obvious reasons(*disclaimer: you do need to be at least 7" for this move to be beneficial).

I tend to run into this quite often while we are on vacation with the little one. The shower is another great spot bc u can lock the bathroom door and play it off, plus water dampens the moans and squeals of passion. YWIA

 

[-SD-]

I haven't read through the responses so I'm not sure if this is repeat advice or not. As you know I have a 6 year old and there have been MANY times I've been in your predicament. Your girl is using the kid as an excuse not to give the vag. There is no reason not to have the seckuals when the kid is in the next room, with the door closed to boot! I've knocked it out while my daughter was in the same room awake. It's easy, spoon from behind with a blanket over you and slip it in, just can't get too worked up and start pounding for obvious reasons(*disclaimer: you do need to be at least 7" for this move to be beneficial).

I tend to run into this quite often while we are on vacation with the little one. The shower is another great spot bc u can lock the bathroom door and play it off, plus water dampens the moans and squeals of passion. YWIA

Sicko alert?

 

[Cutiebolic]

def. not EF-cool to admit this but it has been hella rewarding.
me and the lil chap have bonded quite a bit, i teach him things and he learns.
he can be a little fuck at times, and his dad is a major putz, but i'm finding i like being in the role that i'm in, pusedo step dad i guess.

That's awesome.

I'm not saying get out of the relationship... I'm just saying don't sweep sexual frustration under the rug

Chances are el bambino will be around more and more not less and less, especially if the bio dad is a putz like you say.

Make it clear you're trying to be a part of her family not just some booty on the side. But talk to her about the frustration... Tell her it's how you feel connected. Use the word "feel" (as in "feelings", not "grope") and you're totally in.

 

[pdaddyII]

Sicko alert?

Fml