Need help guys, moral delema

[Rotten]

A female stripper friend of mine was fucked up and was talking to me a few weeks back by my computer desk. She pulls out a few bottles of pills for no reason at all and walks away. I being nosey look them up to see what they are. They are HIV meds. A few days later I asked her why she showed those to me and why she had them. She started crying and begged me not to tell anyone that she was HIV+. She said I'm the only one that knows. I promised to keep her secret and tell her I'll be her friend she can lean on. I find out that she's fucking half the people I know and getting trains ran on her. The guys used to be my friends but they shit on me a few times and I wrote them off. They all have girlfriends that they are cheating on with this girl.

Here's the moral delema. Do I break her trust and tell all these guys she's probably given them HIV or do I be her friend and keep my mouth shut? My wife says fuck 'em, they shit on me and they treat her like a prostitute so they're getting their paybacks. I say that's true, but we're talking about peoples lives, and their innocent girlfriends lives. The group is a big drama scene mess anyway so this is just going to make it worse X100. I've been tearing myself up over this for two weeks wondering what to do. I think I should tell her that she needs to tell the guys or I will so they can be tested. My wife is so pissed at me for even thinking of telling them that she told me that she didn't want to look at me or talk to me anymore. I was just trying to talk to her to get advice, but I guess we aren't as close as I thought. Isn't your wife supposed to have your back and help you out? I think this is a serious issue.

I can't post this or mention this at the Doghouse cause alot of these guys lurk there, I guess you guys are my only hope. To top things off I flushed all my rec drugs this morning to become a better person, but now I've got a ton of bullshit stress and would kill for a valli.

 

[fitchick10]

wow this is a tough one. the fact that she just happened to leave her meds out for you to see makes me think she's really reaching out for help. Your wife will hopefully come around and support you in this. As allways the truth is the best way to go. Think of all the innocent people who could be hurt even more if they don't know the truth. Just because your friends happened to fool around doesn't mean they deserve to be ignorant. They have to face up to their girlfriends no matter what. tell them to get tested. Your wife should appreciate your honesty and morals. Good Luck

 

[Champ]

Somthing that my father said to me once was...........

You can never do wrong doing the right thing.

 

[Big Johnson]

Tell them all, now. I have no idea why your wife would be pissed, but NO ONE deserves to die of HIV. My cousin, one of the coolest guys I've ever met, contracted HIV the first sexual encounter he ever had. He died a young man after only having sex one time. You need to tell them, bro. You know you do. Fuck it. I'll tell them for you.

 

[Austin316]

despite how much you may hate them, do you think they deserve to die (probably)? Especially the slow horrible death that HIV provides, Id confront her about it first and tell her either she fesses up or you will.

 

[Austin316]

as for the recs, good for you, if you feel you need to use something. Get a bunch of gear instead

 

[Drifter]

Damn, are you serious!?! You gotta tell them, no doubt about it. Its not like this is something that can be cured with a couple of pills, and if your wife doesn't understand to fucken bad! Even if these guys are assholes we're talking about peoples lives here. Frankly I don't see what the delema is, it's pretty black and white to me. Then again I usually see things that way...and sorry about being so blunt but that's just the way I am.

 

[Big Johnson]

Get a bunch of gear instead

Good idea

 

[Frackal]

TELL THEM!!!! YOU HAVE TO!! That fucking trick deserves to die...she committing murder...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Which question do you have the delima with?...the question about whether or not to tell about this girl's HIV status.....or the question about your wife supporting you?

They HIV status question is cut and dry...true she asked you not to tell people, but then engages in sexually promiscuous behaviour. It isn't as if she asked you not to tell because she was afraid of losing her job.

The question about your wife supporting you, now THAT IS A SERIOUS ISSUE. I am THE LAST ONE TO BE GIVING OUT MARITAL ADVICE....but believe me when I tell you that no marriage will survive if either partner does not feel supported by the other....TRUST ME ON THIS ONE.