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NEED ADVICE.Hell is about to break loose HELP

ceo said:
seriously though...just dump her and forget about her and move on as quickly as possible. Completely ignore her after you dump her. No calls, no facebook, nothing. If she calls, don't answer. If she messages, don't answer.
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And if I see run into her, then what, just ignore her?
 
-SD- said:
Jettison her fucking ass.
In 5 years you wont give a shit and still be young as fuck in your 20's
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Meh who knows where I'll be in 5 years. No one's promised tomorrow so I am not considering shit that far! Although that makes me feel better because I know I'd be over this bitch (hopefully) by then!
 
caligirl85 said:
I'd show up at one of the parties when she's "studying".

I know it's a novel concept but you seem like a decent guy from your posts so why not just be straight up? Sit her down and tell her you saw her facebook, call it what it is, tell her what she's done to you and end it.

You seemed to be questioning leaving and making her pay is a pretty normal response but it just prolongs the pain of ending it. It's not worth it and I'd end it as soon as I could and start moving on.
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She throws a fit when she is wrong and I can''t hold a conversation with her then. It's like it goes in one ear and out the other...She prolly views it as "no big deal." Sitting down and talking to her doesn't work. I want ot be able to move on, but it's hard to focus in other shit in my life (School, family, research, work etc).
 
cindylou said:
^^ right. Think about it. If you take the high road she will feel guilty for what she did to you, and that guilt hurts way more in the long run. Imagine her with a bottle of vodka on the ground hugging a teddy bear crying years later...hahaha finding a picture of you and her asking herself "Why did I ever let him go?" hahahaha. If she remembers you as an asshole that will never happen. I wouldn't do the passive aggressive facebook status stuff either.
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I wonder if she even has a conscious...I want the guilt to eat her alive, but I don't think she'll give a fuck. She'll be upset for a day and then go back to her normal grind (literally). But I would love it if she went through that.
 
Phiba Optik said:
And if I see run into her, then what, just ignore her?
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pretty much. If you run face to ace into her or she corners you and says hi, say hi and keep moving. You're a busy man! If she asks you why you're ignoring her, just tell her you're busy and you're sorry she feels that way and keep moving. Be completely indifferent to her though. No emotion. Because you just don't give a fuck about her anymore. Done.
 
ceo said:
pretty much. If you run face to ace into her or she corners you and says hi, say hi and keep moving. You're a busy man! If she asks you why you're ignoring her, just tell her you're busy and you're sorry she feels that way and keep moving. Be completely indifferent to her though. No emotion. Because you just don't give a fuck about her anymore. Done.
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Exactly bro, great route, act as if you life has is completely unaffected. Bitches like attention, you getting pissed and ripping all her teddy
Bears heads off will make her feel as If she won. ( in a sick twisted sense)
 
Phiba Optik said:
I wonder if she even has a conscious...I want the guilt to eat her alive, but I don't think she'll give a fuck. She'll be upset for a day and then go back to her normal grind (literally). But I would love it if she went through that.
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It might be awhile before she does. It could be years later before she comes to that realization but once it does, it will hurt. I'd leave the door open for that to happen, though.

If you must get revenge, plan out something really good. I'm not going to lie, revenge does feel good. I remember leaving flyers of a man around campus that cheated on me hahahaha... sometimes it can bite you in the ass though.
 
Phiba Optik said:
And if I see run into her, then what, just ignore her?
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you say "hi" and keep on walking...wtf else are you going to do? the first time a new girl puts her hand down your pants, you're gonna wonder why the fuck you spent all this time wringing your hands...and i'll be here to say i told you so and then i'll bust your balls for being a whiny little bitch...because i care :verygood:
 
Phiba Optik said:
Meh who knows where I'll be in 5 years. No one's promised tomorrow so I am not considering shit that far! Although that makes me feel better because I know I'd be over this bitch (hopefully) by then!
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We may not be promised tomorrow but I can promise you if you stay with her all your tomorrows will be for shit. Can also promise you will not give a shit about any of this if you jettison her now.
 
Hey bros and sis of EF, I appreciate all the input! It helped me lighten up and gave me a vent so I really appreciate that. She has another "study session" this saturday, so I am planning on a surprise visit to her (She was invited to a party event on Saturday on facebook and is attending). Got the location, now just gotta prep to be the guest of honor. Honestly, still kinda feeling weird just showing up there ( I know for sure there is going to be a scene) but I am thinking about first texting her and asking "hows the study session" and then just walking in on the party. Hopefully if I catch her in the act with another guy, I can fuck him up.
 
Phiba Optik said:
Hey bros and sis of EF, I appreciate all the input! It helped me lighten up and gave me a vent so I really appreciate that. She has another "study session" this saturday, so I am planning on a surprise visit to her (She was invited to a party event on Saturday on facebook and is attending). Got the location, now just gotta prep to be the guest of honor. Honestly, still kinda feeling weird just showing up there ( I know for sure there is going to be a scene) but I am thinking about first texting her and asking "hows the study session" and then just walking in on the party. Hopefully if I catch her in the act with another guy, I can fuck him up.
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Look bro, I just went through this with my ex. Yea revenge is great but I have to agree with the karma statement from a little bit back. My now ex has blew my phone up recently because one of the guys she was sleeping with is who she ended up dating after we split and she has caught him with 3 or 4 different chicks in the last month or 2. Karma is a bitch bro.. and showing up wouldnt be a bad idea I get u want some "closure" i bet everyone in the room does but try to keep your cool bro.. what good is going to jail gonna do.. just my view though bro.. it doesnt matter what anyone is this room tells you with the state of shock and hurt you are feeling your gonna do what u wanna do.. and what you said about her loosing her cool when u try to sit down and talk.. exactly how my ex was, just didnt wanna hear it.. just know what your setting yourself up for bro.. sometimes its better to not see it 1st hand.. trust me it will get alot worse if u catch her in the act.. everytime u close ur eyes your gonna see that image and itll drive u nuts bro.. but think about what u do before you do it.. dont let her feel any sense of "she wins" bro that'll hurt her worse than anything bro

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rocket87 said:
Look bro, I just went through this with my ex. Yea revenge is great but I have to agree with the karma statement from a little bit back. My now ex has blew my phone up recently because one of the guys she was sleeping with is who she ended up dating after we split and she has caught him with 3 or 4 different chicks in the last month or 2. Karma is a bitch bro.. and showing up wouldnt be a bad idea I get u want some "closure" i bet everyone in the room does but try to keep your cool bro.. what good is going to jail gonna do.. just my view though bro.. it doesnt matter what anyone is this room tells you with the state of shock and hurt you are feeling your gonna do what u wanna do.. and what you said about her loosing her cool when u try to sit down and talk.. exactly how my ex was, just didnt wanna hear it.. just know what your setting yourself up for bro.. sometimes its better to not see it 1st hand.. trust me it will get alot worse if u catch her in the act.. everytime u close ur eyes your gonna see that image and itll drive u nuts bro.. but think about what u do before you do it.. dont let her feel any sense of "she wins" bro that'll hurt her worse than anything bro

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8 bro's in one paragraph, nice!
 
Phiba Optik said:
Hey bros and sis of EF, I appreciate all the input! It helped me lighten up and gave me a vent so I really appreciate that. She has another "study session" this saturday, so I am planning on a surprise visit to her (She was invited to a party event on Saturday on facebook and is attending). Got the location, now just gotta prep to be the guest of honor. Honestly, still kinda feeling weird just showing up there ( I know for sure there is going to be a scene) but I am thinking about first texting her and asking "hows the study session" and then just walking in on the party. Hopefully if I catch her in the act with another guy, I can fuck him up.
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Horrible idea.
 
Boo fucking hoo
 
Phiba Optik said:
Hey bros and sis of EF, I appreciate all the input! It helped me lighten up and gave me a vent so I really appreciate that. She has another "study session" this saturday, so I am planning on a surprise visit to her (She was invited to a party event on Saturday on facebook and is attending). Got the location, now just gotta prep to be the guest of honor. Honestly, still kinda feeling weird just showing up there ( I know for sure there is going to be a scene) but I am thinking about first texting her and asking "hows the study session" and then just walking in on the party. Hopefully if I catch her in the act with another guy, I can fuck him up.
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or he could hand your ass to you in front of everyone and YOU could end up in jail...that would make for a funny story 5 years from now too.
 
you're going to make yourself look stupid in front of all her friends man. I doubt anybody that is at a party she was invited to and you were not is going to take your side. plus the dudes there will team up bro. id say just invite her to dinner and tell her you know what's going on and you're moving on now.
 
EarthRider said:
you're going to make yourself look stupid in front of all her friends man. I doubt anybody that is at a party she was invited to and you were not is going to take your side. plus the dudes there will team up bro. id say just invite her to dinner, get her lickered up, fuck her in the ass and tell her you know what's going on and you're moving on now.
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fixed
 
EarthRider said:
you're going to make yourself look stupid in front of all her friends man. I doubt anybody that is at a party she was invited to and you were not is going to take your side. plus the dudes there will team up bro. id say just invite her to dinner and tell her you know what's going on and you're moving on now.
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Ditto to this. ^
And I will add that barging into a party uninvited and starting a fight is a sure way to have serious feelings of regret the next morning, at least, and legal problems and hospital bills, at worst. Its 100% gauranteed to be a royal fucking mess. You don't live in an action movie man. Get back to reality!

I also have to say that if you do find your girl with another guy, that's not the guys fault. Why would you kick his ass? She's the one cheating on you, not him. I never understood that mentality.
 
why would he take her to dinner just to break up with her?

"I'm breaking up with you because you're a cheating slut but here's one last meal on dime, sweetheart. Love you"
 
Phiba Optik said:
Hey bros and sis of EF, I appreciate all the input! It helped me lighten up and gave me a vent so I really appreciate that. She has another "study session" this saturday, so I am planning on a surprise visit to her (She was invited to a party event on Saturday on facebook and is attending). Got the location, now just gotta prep to be the guest of honor. Honestly, still kinda feeling weird just showing up there ( I know for sure there is going to be a scene) but I am thinking about first texting her and asking "hows the study session" and then just walking in on the party. Hopefully if I catch her in the act with another guy, I can fuck him up.
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First of all this is the most immature thing you could possibly do and I guarantee you that regardless of the end result she's gonna think you're a loser for going to that extent just for her, she wins and you will forever be that guy she walked all over.

Just let it go, bish isnt worth a god damn dollar dont get yourself in a situation where you are the one that comes up looking bad in the BEST case scenario, as other mentioned worse case can be jail, restraining orders, hospital bills, and more.

Dont be making all sorts of plans for catching her, if you wanted to really catch her you could have just changed the privacy settings to make those photos public for all and busted her, or just showing it to her and busting her, but you didnt and I'm pretty sure it's because you dont want to let go and you have to, call her or meet with her, tell her you know, dont even give her an opportunity to explain because it will all be lies anyway, tell her you're smart, respectful, healthy, faithful and successfull and you deserve someone like that which she clearly is not, then leave. THE END.
 
zwhit said:
sounds better than ER's plan. forget the dinner, though.

and drinks might lessen the pain. simply fucking her in the ass and then dumping her would suffice :D
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yeah but, dinner and drinks makes it seem like a normal night...then the post-ass-fuck dump makes it a fucking train wreck...and everyone loves a good train wreck!
 
Phiba Optik said:
Hey bros and sis of EF, I appreciate all the input! It helped me lighten up and gave me a vent so I really appreciate that. She has another "study session" this saturday, so I am planning on a surprise visit to her (She was invited to a party event on Saturday on facebook and is attending). Got the location, now just gotta prep to be the guest of honor. Honestly, still kinda feeling weird just showing up there ( I know for sure there is going to be a scene) but I am thinking about first texting her and asking "hows the study session" and then just walking in on the party. Hopefully if I catch her in the act with another guy, I can fuck him up.
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dude...really? You haven't learned shit. Forget about her. Have you broken up with her yet? If not, why the fuck not? You don't even need a reason or anything. Just tell her you think it's time to move on and I doubt she will say much but, "OK, I agree."

You're just going to look like a complete tool if you go around showing up at parties where she is at and you weren't invited to. Then you'll get into a fight over this bitch with some guy who doesn't know or care about you? You're an idiot.

Just fucking dump her and move on already. How much more of your time do you want to waste on her? She's already sucked how many years out of you? And you want this to keep going?

Do me a favor...take an open hand, held out to your side and as hard and fast as you can bring it up and slap the fuck out of your face. That's from me, bro. Because I care.
 
Just invite her over fuck the hell out of her all the while taking photos , thenwhen your done give her the sd card with the photos on it an tell her your done with her an to add the photos to her many other albums of guys she's been cheating on you with!!! Then politely ask her to leave an you two are through!!!
 
dew925 said:
Just invite her over fuck the hell out of her all the while taking photos , thenwhen your done give her the sd card with the photos on it an tell her your done with her an to add the photos to her many other albums of guys she's been cheating on you with!!! Then politely ask her to leave an you two are through!!!
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Lolololol nice!

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wootoom said:
hope hes ok...hes a good bro
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i'm a big dave fan as well...even if he did go off on me for a couple of my bullshit comments a few weeks ago...his heart's in the right place.

the one that has me scratching my head still is ledhead...he was edgy and confrontational but, i thought he was fun...never saw the meltdown coming...i'm a bad judge of e-character :whatever:
 
digimon7068 said:
the one that has me scratching my head still is ledhead...he was edgy and confrontational but, i thought he was fun...never saw the meltdown coming...i'm a bad judge of e-character :whatever:
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meh, it's the internet. It's easy for people to act like something/someone else and lie about how they make more money than anyone else as a what? college professor? LOL @ that! All of it. Him making more $ than anyone here and him even being a professor. More like student. I guess the need to try to impress a bunch of people you've never met, never will meet, and claim to hate is still overwhelming in some people.
 
ceo said:
dude...really? You haven't learned shit. Forget about her. Have you broken up with her yet? If not, why the fuck not? You don't even need a reason or anything. Just tell her you think it's time to move on and I doubt she will say much but, "OK, I agree."

You're just going to look like a complete tool if you go around showing up at parties where she is at and you weren't invited to. Then you'll get into a fight over this bitch with some guy who doesn't know or care about you? You're an idiot.

Just fucking dump her and move on already. How much more of your time do you want to waste on her? She's already sucked how many years out of you? And you want this to keep going?

Do me a favor...take an open hand, held out to your side and as hard and fast as you can bring it up and slap the fuck out of your face. That's from me, bro. Because I care.
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Ooh ooh!! One from me too!!!!

I'm surprised no one's pacing.... I mean, I'm mad.
 
ceo said:
meh, it's the internet. It's easy for people to act like something/someone else and lie about how they make more money than anyone else as a what? college professor? LOL @ that! All of it. Him making more $ than anyone here and him even being a professor. More like student. I guess the need to try to impress a bunch of people you've never met, never will meet, and claim to hate is still overwhelming in some people.
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i choose to impress people on the internet with my kick-ass (47 y/o) 8-pack, my scintillating wit and my uncanny likeness to george clooney :supercool
 
lol @ you guys thinking he's going to listen to your advice.

Emotions = the crazies + irrationality^100.
 
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I'm for the silent treatment and breaking up without explaining why, or making up some reason like you're not attracted to her any more. Then shut her out.

The catch is you have to resist the curiosity of trying to figure out how she's doing after that.
 
Lumberg said:
I'm for the silent treatment and breaking up without explaining why, or making up some reason like you're not attracted to her any more. Then shut her out.

The catch is you have to resist the curiosity of trying to figure out how she's doing after that.
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the silent treatment wood be a WHOLE LOT more effective if it was preceded by a good ass banging, maybe finishing with a facial...then never talk to her again...like, right before you put it in her ass, you say your last words and then nada...finish up...clean up...put your clothes on...walk out the door and close it politely behind you.
 
Don't say anithing about it just chill get with one of her friends and post pictures with her on Facebook.got to make her pay
 
TryionLannister said:
Yep, I totallty agree with this. I found out through facebook that my wife was cheating on me as well and her email account. I put a key logger on our computer becuase I was a little suspicious. While I was putting up our christas lights and christmas tree she was sexting another dude..the beauty of private messaging in facebook.

I think spywizard said to screenshot all pics and conversations... I would definitely do that because she will have you convinced that what you saw wasnt really what you saw.

fuck that bitch, she has taken way too much from you. you will have a very hard time trusting women now.. At least I do. Personally, I would keep fucking her with protection and seek out new women and just have fun and then when she finds out show her the pics. I can say the previous, but it will never be in my personality to do so.
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Yep, same here! I put a keylogger on my pc, got his passwords, caught him emailing women from his FB poker games, but it was only a year later when I went on his cell and caught him cheating.
I kicked him out of my house in seconds, but like I fool, continued to talk to him (not see him) for a while.
Turns out, she was not the only one he was cheating on me with.

You will never trust this girl again, and even though it's tough, you need to keep your dignity and walk away. No big show, no catching her, just sitting her down, telling her you know and leaving.

If you show up to catch her in the act, it will be a classic moment, but just continues the pain and drama.
These sick people are not worth any of your time.
Just get on with the show and heal from it

Sorry for your pain...really!
 
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