Nearly beat a man's ass at Wal-Mart yesterday. Was I wrong?

[enrage]

Well I think you were wrong for shopping at Wal Mart

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

BBV

Let;s face it, WalMart is a palce where you generally find the low end of society. People are pretty ugly and sadly, there is no restriction on who can reproduce.



I wish you had tried harder to goad him into hitting you.

 

[Big Brother Val]

BBV

Let;s face it, WalMart is a palce where you generally find the low end of society. People are pretty ugly and sadly, there is no restriction on who can reproduce.



I wish you had tried harder to goad him into hitting you.

True. Even though I live in a pretty good part of town, the low-lifes still find their way to the store. It's brand new, and yet they flock to it.

I also wish I would have tried harder to get him to swing.... I look back and think of a thousand things I could have said. At the time my mind was clouded with anger... but that's no excuse.

My oh my... how I wish he would have taken a shot.

Next time I see something like that, though... I already have it planned out better as to what I will do/say...

It pays to be prepared... it'll be fun to make another guy look like a total shitass... but the next time, I will not fail.

 

[The MN Bulk]

Sometimes I wish I was big enough to have the confidence to do that. I wouldn't intimidate anyone.

The asshole might have gone home and beat the wife and kids, then kicked the dog. However he might think twice about doing it in public.

I in no way think you did something wrong.

 

[Big Brother Val]

Sometimes I wish I was big enough to have the confidence to do that. I wouldn't intimidate anyone.

The asshole might have gone home and beat the wife and kids, then kicked the dog. However he might think twice about doing it in public.

I in no way think you did something wrong.

It's not necessarily about being big, MN Bulk. It's like playing cards... you don't have to have a good hand to bluff the other guy into believing you do. If he doesn't have enough confidence in his hand, he'll fold, while not even knowing what you have. It's just your confidence, and how you hold yourself.

For the most part, when people see confidence, they think the person has a reason to be confident. They guy may think you're just a hardass... or a great fighter... who knows.

As I said, the worst thing that can happen to you is you experience some physical pain... but it's worth the risk, being as how the girls have to go through it all the time.

 

[Y_lifter]

If anything, you showed this little girl that what Daddy was doing is not right. She will now question any further actions in her mind.

Most abused kids blame themselves or think this is the way all Daddy's and Mommys treat kids..

 

[Ta-Shunka Minintu]

Big Brother Val, there should'nt be a thread of doubt in your mind. What you did was right and courageous.

 

[Big Brother Val]

If anything, you showed this little girl that what Daddy was doing is not right. She will now question any further actions in her mind.

Most abused kids blame themselves or think this is the way all Daddy's and Mommys treat kids..

Thank you for your support. And I agree, and think it is so terribly sad, that abused children often think it's because they are being "bad" or because they did something wrong. It breaks my heart in such a way that I cannot explain.

That is why I do what I do... Wednesday wasn't the first time... and I promise it won't be the last.


And also, thank you Ta-Shunka Minintu, wording it like that makes me feel sorta cool .

 

[Trance]

Wow, I just read this entire thread - thought it was great. It's a shame that stuff like that happens, and no one ever wants to get involved for fear of overstepping their boundaries. I can't stand to see people hit children. I have a three-year old, and I just wonder how the hell you could live with yourself, beating up on a little kid. Poor thing. She probably was amazed that someone stood up for her.

I always wish that child abusers would get the shit kicked out of them by someone twice their size. then maybe they'd understand how it felt

Maybe there should be a contingent of professional wrestlers that go around bitch-slapping convicted child abusers.

 

[Big Brother Val]

Wow, I just read this entire thread - thought it was great. It's a shame that stuff like that happens, and no one ever wants to get involved for fear of overstepping their boundaries. I can't stand to see people hit children. I have a three-year old, and I just wonder how the hell you could live with yourself, beating up on a little kid. Poor thing. She probably was amazed that someone stood up for her.

I always wish that child abusers would get the shit kicked out of them by someone twice their size. then maybe they'd understand how it felt

Maybe there should be a contingent of professional wrestlers that go around bitch-slapping convicted child abusers.

Exactly. This guy wasn't a small guy, but I can guarantee my strength far surpasses his... he knew it as well... which is why he did nothing. I'm sure if I was 160 lbs, the situation might have been different.

And I'll sign up to go kick the shit out of 'em my man. In fact, I have the home addresses of 7 convicted child molesters in my area.

Planning on paying one guy a visit in early Jan.