Well, that is sad to hear because he wasn't always like this. He used to be VERY much in touch with my needs and not just for the first year! It started declining after 3 years and now it is almost nonexistent!! We never even have fun together anymore and I don't think it is something I can live with. Hell, I am only 35....I NEED more, not want more, NEED more!! If I was much older then maybe. I hate confrontations and I think I know what needs to be done but have just been putting off the inevitable. I feel in my heart that the love he felt for me has all about died. I think he resents me for so much, he brings up all the time how the house and all are mine...but damnit I worked hard for that and bought before he even moved in with me. I also make more than him and think he takes me for granted.