Name something you regret you did, knowing it was wrong

[HiDnGoD]

WELL - thats why marriage/ relationships takes work. I agree that people should not change for anyone ; but thats the type of work that most people dont want to do to make marriage work and thats why they fail. To think about the other person before yourself. He could remind himself that she needs to feel loved - and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do. Hell ; he does not even need to provide anymore, just make sure she knows that she's loved.

Yes, if you love someone, you should be willing to try to change. You should want to know your S.O.s feelings & desires.
I cannot count the things I do in a day to accomodate my wife's feelings. And she probably does the same for me. I want to make her feel good, & she wnats to make me feel good.

BTW, I had a part time job when I was 15. It was a busy gas station & I had no time to return to the till after every fill. So I would end up with hundreds of dollars in cash before I could take a break. Just about every day I would go to the washroom & stick some money in my sock. It probably totalled a coupla hungred bucks over the summer. I gave the money back, secretly, years later, but I still feel guilty for it.

 

[blueta2]

Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.

I can ASSURE you, what my ex's did to me cannot compare to what many others may have gone through and I learned to forgive these two HORRIBLE men.
You need to learn how to forgive. It doesn't release the person from what they did, but releases you from a total waste of emotion......hate!
Hate only eats you, not the person who hurt you.
Bless your enemies for making you strong and keeping you humble. If you keep hate in yourself from what they did, then they won!

 

[jh1]

Damn you gay guys are always happy it seems. What is your secret?

Denial / Lack of Conciensce

 

[blueta2]

I adopted a Himalayan cat that was the meanest, nastiest little thing you have ever seen. She jumped on my pillow and peed on it one day. I was living in a high rise condo and I put her out on the balcony. Problem is, I completely forgot about her for 2 days! This was the summer in South Beach. It was HOT outside, and she had no food or water. I realized what I had done and ran out to get her, but she was nowhere to be found, and I lived on the 15th floor. I went out to the beach to see if I could find her body --nowhere to be found. I asked the front desk if anyone had reported her --nothing. I basically killed her. =-( I never did find her.

not an animal lovers favorite thing to hear. I hope to GOD you never do that again.

 

[gonelifting]

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=509353

I made this thread thinking I may get help, but all I got was criticism. Sometimes thoughts should be left to one's self. I sort of regret posting the above. I also think I will regret writing the letter.

 

[HiDnGoD]

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=509353

I made this thread thinking I may get help, but all I got was criticism. Sometimes thoughts should be left to one's self. I sort of regret posting the above. I also think I will regret writing the letter.

Shouldn't have linked it, man. We'll be all over that again, LOL.

 

[heatherrae]

not an animal lovers favorite thing to hear. I hope to GOD you never do that again.

It was the worst thing I've ever done. I'm a HUGE animal lover, and I didn't do it on purpose. I feel so guilty about it and that was 15 years ago.

 

[blueta2]

It was the worst thing I've ever done. I'm a HUGE animal lover, and I didn't do it on purpose. I feel so guilty about it and that was 15 years ago.

I say to make up for it, you should adopt 3 strays and love them forever!

I feel guilty about spanking my cat when she was crying day and night and then getting so mad at her for running into the street. She was doing odd things for months and I was always mad at her. Little did I know she was dying of mouth cancer and was tryng to tell me she was sick. I still cry when I think about her. I put her down 1 yr ago. It killed me!
God Bless Jaggy

 

[heatherrae]

I say to make up for it, you should adopt 3 strays and love them forever!

I feel guilty about spanking my cat when she was crying day and night and then getting so mad at her for running into the street. She was doing odd things for months and I was always mad at her. Little did I know she was dying of mouth cancer and was tryng to tell me she was sick. I still cry when I think about her. I put her down 1 yr ago. It killed me!
God Bless Jaggy

LOL...I have adopted 3 strays since then. Two are still with me, and one went with my ex hubbie who is very, very good to her. So, I guess I have made up for it. =-)

 

[Sub-Zero]

Well, everyone that knows me knows how I feel about cheating so when I did it to a really really great man....geesh, I don't know. I felt probally as bad as he did. I still have trouble facing him from the shame of it all. He was willing to forgive and move on but I couldn't live with the guilt of it. I used to always say to people...don't they ever watch soap opras or Jerry Springer? cheaters ALWAYS get caught sooner or later. Anyway, my now ex worked off shore and it was getting to where he was gone more and more at a time...like 3 months at a time with no comunication even!! I started going out with my best friend after being talked into it at first and ran into this guy that I had always been friends with....well, I guess with the booze and the lonelyness and being with someone I totally felt comfortable with made it to easy for me. I do have to say though 6 years later and I am still with the same guy. (not sure how much longer at this point) but I will never ever forget the look of disappointment not only from my ex but my family as well. Some cheaters make it look so easy but I swear every time the phone rang I would freak thinking this is the time I am gonna have to come clean. I know I will burn in hell for hurting him the way I did. He was a great man and would of done anything for me but work less!!

so do u wish u could still be with ur ex?