Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below People that stay together, do so for a reason. You obviously needed more than he was willing to give. Your mistake was in not ending the relationship yourelf before you moved on. And every person that leaves their S.O. alone for that length of time, no matter how right or wrong, risks the same circumstances.KSHARP01 said:
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HiDnGoD said:
Agree and disagree.
I have yet to find a legit excuse for cheating.
Talk it out first then end the relationship if there is no solution.
Granted there is many variables we don't know about Ksharp's situation, but if he was gone making a living then that is defininitly not a good reason to cheat.
If a person is feeling neglected, cheating isn't going to solve it. They simply need to get out of the situation that is making him/her feel neglected.
ksharp01
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HiDnGoD said:
You are so true BUT I never intended things to go as far as they did and I didn't have any problems with my husband, he was a GREAT man. I was selfish and liked the attention I was getting that my husband couldn't give me. (geesh that sounds so pathetic) I never wanted to fall in love with the "other" guy. When I first started dating my husband he hardley ever worked and made plently money to pay bills and still had extra but after we got married he felt the need to work more and more and he knew that is not what I wanted. I told him I would rather him only work to where we were comfortable so we could spend time as a family. If not then what is the point in being married but living single for more than half the year. He missed holidays and all. He just had trouble telling work no sometimes and he was in a postition to do so.
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I guess in my case I didn't know that it bothered her so much. I thought it was like brothers who can treat each other poorly and get over it. We both did it to each other at times. For me it's easy to just stick it away somewhere in the back of your mind and not go there. For her they kept building up untill it changed the way she felt about me. I got all of those things double barrel. From like years ago and it was too late to do anything about it.KSHARP01 said:
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a beautiful girl in one of my accounting classes asked me to go to a party with her one friday. . .we went. . .we had sex a few times. . .i stopped returning her phone calls. . .i hurt her feelings. . .really bad. . .i wasn't a playa by any stretch of the imagination when i was in college. . .i just didn't do shit like that. . .i was just really wrapped up in my own bs at that time. . .i've felt bad about it pretty much everyday since then. . .that was almost 20 years ago. . .
on the bright side. . .i saw her at a party a couple of years later (after we had graduated). . .over-lapping circle of friends. . .anyway, she walked in, saw me and then left. . .i followed her outside to tell her how sorry i was and to apologize for being an asshole and beg for forgiveness. . .she turned around, doubled up her fist and punched me right in the head. . .in front of a bunch of people. . .i saw it coming from a mile away and i could have easily ducked or just threw up a hand stopped her, but i stood there and took it. . .i figured i owed her that much. . .she left. . .i walked back inside rubbing my jaw. . .it was actually kind of funny getting popped by a chick in front of a bunch of my friends. . .
on the bright side. . .i saw her at a party a couple of years later (after we had graduated). . .over-lapping circle of friends. . .anyway, she walked in, saw me and then left. . .i followed her outside to tell her how sorry i was and to apologize for being an asshole and beg for forgiveness. . .she turned around, doubled up her fist and punched me right in the head. . .in front of a bunch of people. . .i saw it coming from a mile away and i could have easily ducked or just threw up a hand stopped her, but i stood there and took it. . .i figured i owed her that much. . .she left. . .i walked back inside rubbing my jaw. . .it was actually kind of funny getting popped by a chick in front of a bunch of my friends. . .
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KSHARP01 said:
In thearpy they said that marital problems are equally shared except for one thing. There is only one thing that is entirely one persons fault. That is cheating.
ksharp01
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Turd Ferguson said:
geesh I wish I would of never posted up in this damn thread........
But your right, I can't deny that and I surely haven't once tried. I know I was a piece of shit for doing that and would never do it again. That was entirely my fault. I could of said no and didn't!! I am low life scum...I get it and know this that is why I didn't want to admit to it. I, to this day, have trouble facing him out of MY OWN guilt!!! What I did was totally unforgivable and even though he was willing to forgive and move on, I couldn't!! I would never expected him to trust me again for good reason.
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KSHARP01 said:
lol
well personally I think you're a swell person.
nobody here is judging anybody (at least they better not be). We've all made mistakes.
Turd Ferguson
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KSHARP01 said:
With that said... there is no reason to keep beating yourself up for it. Everybody makes mistakes, that is the reason for this thread.
ksharp01
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alien amp pharm said:
Thank you! I really appreciate that! What's that saying "those who live in glass houses shouldn't cast stones?" It just always seems that when YOU personally did something wrong there is always those there to point their finger at you saying "shame, shame on you"
Like I said a hundred times now.....I know I did wrong! That IS what the thread is about....things you did that you regret!!! I can't say it made me a better person by no means but I learned from it!
Next time just don't get caught..........lol j/k really!!
I am actually the one who told on myself. I couldn't live with the guilt, awful feeling!!
I REGRET, I REGRET!!
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