Name something you regret you did, knowing it was wrong

[Turd Ferguson]

Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.

God that is so true about you.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Nope I honestly don't have any regrets. I am quite happy with where and who I am in life right now and everything that happened in the past shaped the present so I can't feel bad about any of it.

Plus I really don't have much of a conscience anyway and don't feel bad about the things I do.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Damn you gay guys are always happy it seems. What is your secret?

 

[ksharp01]

I think you answered your own question. Guys and girls show feelings differently. It's not that he doesn't care for you, he is simply not showing you THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE SHOWN.

The question you should ask yourself is "Can I live with that?"
It is not easy to change behavior like that for a man (and honestly nobody should have to change for somebody) and even if he tries to show you love more your way it will eventually return to this current state.

Well, that is sad to hear because he wasn't always like this. He used to be VERY much in touch with my needs and not just for the first year! It started declining after 3 years and now it is almost nonexistent!! We never even have fun together anymore and I don't think it is something I can live with. Hell, I am only 35....I NEED more, not want more, NEED more!! If I was much older then maybe. I hate confrontations and I think I know what needs to be done but have just been putting off the inevitable. I feel in my heart that the love he felt for me has all about died. I think he resents me for so much, he brings up all the time how the house and all are mine...but damnit I worked hard for that and bought before he even moved in with me. I also make more than him and think he takes me for granted.

 

[Scotsman]

Damn you gay guys are always happy it seems. What is your secret?

Not having girls knit on a date.

Since you already take the dick you should know what gay guys are "UP" for.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[alien amp pharm]

God that is so true about you.

Bro that is kinda scary about him though. If it wasn't for the good blow jobs he gives I would recommend that you find a new friend.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Agree and disagree.

I have yet to find a legit excuse for cheating.

Talk it out first then end the relationship if there is no solution.

Granted there is many variables we don't know about Ksharp's situation, but if he was gone making a living then that is defininitly not a good reason to cheat.

If a person is feeling neglected, cheating isn't going to solve it. They simply need to get out of the situation that is making him/her feel neglected.

I agree, there is no excuse. But there are causes, & couples need to ensure that they are giving their mate what they need, so there is no temptation to cheat. People are weak in areas they don't even consider, so when they are in a situation they are not prepared for, they are blinded.

 

[cindylou]

The question you should ask yourself is "Can I live with that?"
It is not easy to change behavior like that for a man (and honestly nobody should have to change for somebody) and even if he tries to show you love more your way it will eventually return to this current state.

WELL - thats why marriage/ relationships takes work. I agree that people should not change for anyone ; but thats the type of work that most people dont want to do to make marriage work and thats why they fail. To think about the other person before yourself. He could remind himself that she needs to feel loved - and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do. Hell ; he does not even need to provide anymore, just make sure she knows that she's loved.

 

[alien amp pharm]

and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do.

karma to you for a good laugh

 

[ksharp01]

WELL - thats why marriage/ relationships takes work. I agree that people should not change for anyone ; but thats the type of work that most people dont want to do to make marriage work and thats why they fail. To think about the other person before yourself. He could remind himself that she needs to feel loved - and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do. Hell ; he does not even need to provide anymore, just make sure she knows that she's loved.

You are so dead on!!! Like I said, I don't ask for anything else maybe some chorse around the house from time to time that he never does either. I already pretty much provide for us financially damnit! I have been feeling like I get 0 out of this relationship! absolutly nothing at this point!!!

 

[Jon79]

Name something in the past that you did, knowing that it was wrong at the time, but you went thru with it anyways and then regreted your actions.


For me it was giving into my best friend's girlfriend's flirting with me while they were together.

She ended up dumping him for me. Even though I knew it was wrong my penis couldn't tell her no.

We dated for 3 1/2 years then she dumped me for some guy she hung out with at college. They are currently married.

The heartache of losing her plus losing my best friend was well deserved from my selfish actions.

I see my old friend from time to time and we speak, but we both know we could never be friends again. I have apologized a couple times. If only I could do it over again with a more mature mindest I would.

What about you?

not calling you a fag when you deserved it