Name something you regret you did, knowing it was wrong

[stilleto]

Right now I would say there is no working it out. We both agree that we both did a lot to fuck it up. We just can't get past the conflict right now or get over the things that have happened. Its weired how screwed up things can get for people who love each other.

A lot of the final straws for her were related to me being depressed and insecure.

let me assure you that there is ALWAYS a chance of things returning. and being better than ever.
you'd be surprised.

 

[jh1]

let me assure you that there is ALWAYS a chance of things returning. and being better than ever.
you'd be surprised.

Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.

 

[stilleto]

Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.

well, in your case, i wouldn't consider getting back with your wife unless she's a different person. and then you may not want to get revenge on the new her at all.

but i don't see that happening.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Don't listen to Stiletto

the only thing she knows about working it out was the 30 minutes she spent on the toilet after cleaning out KFC's buffet bar

 

[ksharp01]

I guess in my case I didn't know that it bothered her so much. I thought it was like brothers who can treat each other poorly and get over it. We both did it to each other at times. For me it's easy to just stick it away somewhere in the back of your mind and not go there. For her they kept building up untill it changed the way she felt about me. I got all of those things double barrel. From like years ago and it was too late to do anything about it.

I can understand what your saying here. Men and woman are SO different when it comes to love and relationships, its a wonder how we ever hook up to begin with. I know that right now I am in this relationship, and I feel like we are growning apart. I am starting to feel like he doesn't love me anymore and he tells me I am crazy but for me anyway actions speak louder than words. I can't remember the last time he just grab my hand as we walked or come up and gave me a squeeze even....it is the little things that I notice that mean so much to me. I feel like we have resorted to talking about only the basics....kids, money, bills, chores...I am not so stupid to think a couple with always be "in love" like when they met but damn, I am feeling like there is nothing left to us. I don't expect us to be together for much longer. I keep telling him that if he loves me then just show me damnit!! I am not asking for material things, just heartfelt gestures. Still NOTHING! He can be such a great guy and NO I would live him before I make the same mistake twice but I do feel like I have owed it to him to step up to the plate and he just isn't. In fact if we don't work out I plan on being totally single for a while to work on being just me! I think I am forgetting who that person is.

Opps I think I got off track...sorry!

 

[jh1]

Don't listen to Stiletto

the only thing she knows about working it out was the 30 minutes she spent on the toilet after cleaning out KFC's buffet bar

ROFL!

 

[Scotsman]

Thankfully I have no regrets. I view everything in life as a situation to learn from.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[jh1]

Thankfully I have no regrets. I view everything in life as a situation to learn from.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Peeps that say that are in denial.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I can understand what your saying here. Men and woman are SO different when it comes to love and relationships, its a wonder how we ever hook up to begin with. I know that right now I am in this relationship, and I feel like we are growning apart. I am starting to feel like he doesn't love me anymore and he tells me I am crazy but for me anyway actions speak louder than words. I can't remember the last time he just grab my hand as we walked or come up and gave me a squeeze even....it is the little things that I notice that mean so much to me. I feel like we have resorted to talking about only the basics....kids, money, bills, chores...I am not so stupid to think a couple with always be "in love" like when they met but damn, I am feeling like there is nothing left to us. I don't expect us to be together for much longer. I keep telling him that if he loves me then just show me damnit!! I am not asking for material things, just heartfelt gestures. Still NOTHING! He can be such a great guy and NO I would live him before I make the same mistake twice but I do feel like I have owed it to him to step up to the plate and he just isn't. In fact if we don't work out I plan on being totally single for a while to work on being just me! I think I am forgetting who that person is.

Opps I think I got off track...sorry!

I think you answered your own question. Guys and girls show feelings differently. It's not that he doesn't care for you, he is simply not showing you THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE SHOWN.

The question you should ask yourself is "Can I live with that?"
It is not easy to change behavior like that for a man (and honestly nobody should have to change for somebody) and even if he tries to show you love more your way it will eventually return to this current state.

 

[Scotsman]

Peeps that say that are in denial.

Nope I honestly don't have any regrets. I am quite happy with where and who I am in life right now and everything that happened in the past shaped the present so I can't feel bad about any of it.

Plus I really don't have much of a conscience anyway and don't feel bad about the things I do.

Cheers,
Scotsman