Tatyana
Elite Mentor
It works the same way with some men.
If you are a total bitch, some of them love it.
I think it is best just to tell a person directly, I am not interested in you in any romantic sense, or even, I am not interested in you in any sense, I would prefer if we didn't speak.
I have told one chap in the gym (I asked him if I could be totally honest)
"I think you are really creepy and I am tired of you perving around me. Please stop or I will start being really rude to you".
Problem sorted.
To find the balance of being an independent and confident person and also being kind (and having this in a relationship that is not co-dependant/addictive), not that easy.
If you are a total bitch, some of them love it.
I think it is best just to tell a person directly, I am not interested in you in any romantic sense, or even, I am not interested in you in any sense, I would prefer if we didn't speak.
I have told one chap in the gym (I asked him if I could be totally honest)
"I think you are really creepy and I am tired of you perving around me. Please stop or I will start being really rude to you".
Problem sorted.
To find the balance of being an independent and confident person and also being kind (and having this in a relationship that is not co-dependant/addictive), not that easy.