My latest adventure in dating-

[Oceano]

So Thursday night I decide to walk up to the local pub around midnight. I had Yesterday and today off so I figured what the hell. After sitting bellied up to the bar for about 10 minutes this hot little 5 foot nothing 22 yr old 100 lber sits down next to me and we start talking. I ask her to play some pool and we play a couple games. Some flirting going on and she kisses me. We decide about 1:30 to head back to my place. We watch a movie and about half way through it we start going at it. We probably had about 4 hrs of sex that night and she had to be home at 8:30 am so I dropped her off and came home and got some friggin sleep. This is where things get interesting.

I wake up a few hours later and I have all these texts from her asking my why i'm not answering my phone and how she was just a one night thing and all this other bs. I call her and tell her i was sleeping and she says she wants to come over. Ok, I'm thinking. So I go pick her up(her car is in the shop). We get to talking and I find out some fucked up shit about her. Turns out she is a ex herion junkie and she had to be home that morning so her mom could take her to the methedone clinic. She's bi polar, slightly schitzo, and a whole handful of other problems. At this point I'm thinking fuck! Run! But I'm in my house. So we continue to hang out and I let her vent her issues. Then the bi polar shit kicks in. She's happy and upbeat one minute and out of no where she starts crying. At this point I am truely worried about this chick so i try consoling her. A few minutes later she snaps out of it and things are fine again.

So at this point I don't know if I actually care for this chick or simply pity her, but I make us a nice steak dinner. She is extremely appreciative. Afteerwards we go at it agin for an hour or so. This chick is amazing in the sack BTW. Later we have a couple drinks. She's not even done with her first one and can barely stay awake. She spent most of the afternoon asleep in my arms on the couch. She drops her cig like 3 times and then her drink, thankfully it was empty. Now I am getting very annoyed. She starts crying again and this goes on all night until she finally falls asleep. I sit up for about 2 hours wondering how the fuck I got myself into this shit.

I drop her off again this morning so she can go to the methodone clinic again, and come home and go back to sleep. I just woke up.

here's my conundrum. This chick is hot, and awesome in the sack. She's nuttier than squirrel shit and obiously has more issues than People magazine. I know I need to get away, but I am genuinely concerned for her well being. She says everyone always leaves her and she lives alone and crys all the time and wants to die half the time. I don't want this chick to go and off herself. I'll feel responsible.

WTF do I do?

Oh and why are the crazy ass chicks always the best in bed?

I sure know how to pick em.

do the bit I highlighted

and watch Bill and Ted for a proper adventure story

 

[Stefka]

So she called me up all balling and shit. I went over to her place and held her until she fell asleep. I did tell her that I couldn't have a relationship with her because of the state she's in and she needs to work on herself first. i told her we could remain friends and she was fine with that and understood. it actually went really well. She also told me a bunch of fucked up shit that happened to her when she was a kid. I'm amazed she's still alive to be honest. Tough little chick.

I had a boyfriend like that.
I thought he was fucked up and I wanted to just stay friends.
Next thing I knew he had moved in with me.
The following 2.5 years were a fucking mess.
I had to leave the state to get away from the guy.
Be careful with this.

 

[hardrock]

I had a boyfriend like that.
I thought he was fucked up and I wanted to just stay friends.
Next thing I knew he had moved in with me.
The following 2.5 years were a fucking mess.
I had to leave the state to get away from the guy.
Be careful with this.

Oh I will. She is a really sweet chick taht is having a rough time. As long as she can handle it, I will continue to be her friend. She really has no one.

 

[Stefka]

Oh I will. She is a really sweet chick taht is having a rough time. As long as she can handle it, I will continue to be her friend. She really has no one.

Addicts are manipulative. Just remember that.

 

[Oceano]

Addicts are manipulative. Just remember that.

Women too!

 

[chris302001]

Addicts are manipulative. Just remember that.

This is true....and it's sad because you'll think they're truely sincere, and you help them. Then they turn around and fuck you over...

 

[hardrock]

This is true....and it's sad because you'll think they're truely sincere, and you help them. Then they turn around and fuck you over...

I know this. One of my ex's turned into a meth head and tried pulling all kinds of shit w me. She I think I probably wrote some threads about it. She was Jade19 on here. Anyway, I have known many addicts and for now I believe this girl. if I see anything to make me think otherwise, i'm out.

 

[chris302001]

I know this. One of my ex's turned into a meth head and tried pulling all kinds of shit w me. She I think I probably wrote some threads about it. She was Jade19 on here. Anyway, I have known many addicts and for now I believe this girl. if I see anything to make me think otherwise, i'm out.

So is she like, for real diagnosed bipolar? Does she take any meds?

 

[Stefka]

So is she like, for real diagnosed bipolar? Does she take any meds?

Hey Dr...How would methadone interact with bipolar meds?
(and she totally should not be drinking - right?)

 

[chris302001]

Hey Dr...How would methadone interact with bipolar meds?
(and she totally should not be drinking - right?)

well it depends on the med....I personally wouldnt wanna see ANYONE on methadone unless they were a chronic pain patient who is documented to not respond to anything else.

But psychotropics interact with a lot of stuff, and its NEVER a good idea to use a substance that affects mood and personality (ie -- ETOH) when taking medication for Bipolar Disorder or any mood disorders. (Kinda defeats the purpose).

But really, only a trained psychiatrist should answer that question.