my girlfriend has no sex drive

[eviction]

LOL!!! And women wonder why men cheat.

get this... so last weekend this girl hopped in the hot tub with me at a party, got bare ass naked... and wanted me to fuck her. I didn't even kiss her, told her i had a girlfriend and got up. She was as hot as the girl i'm with now. If the girl i'm with now only knew the will power it took not to cheat, she'd maybe do me again.. haha

 

[eviction]

thanks for all the info guys. I'm going to try some of the things posted.. probably start out with a talk and then try other things if that doesnt work. I feel she is worth the fight.

 

[cdownie927]

That is one hell of a will power Ill tell you what if i was on a cycle i dont think id be able to hold back good call if you love your girl-but then again should probably would of never known

 

[MR Pink]

eat her like your in the middle of an insulin shock!!!!

Hhahahahaha I'm gonna use that sentence from now on.....alot of people won't get it though

Mr Pink

 

[satchboogie]

send her my way bro..
i'll fix that right away.

j/k bro.

usually women lose their sex drive when they're not happy.

 

[mvmaxx]

get this... so last weekend this girl hopped in the hot tub with me at a party, got bare ass naked... and wanted me to fuck her. I didn't even kiss her, told her i had a girlfriend and got up. She was as hot as the girl i'm with now. If the girl i'm with now only knew the will power it took not to cheat, she'd maybe do me again.. haha

What is this "will power" you speak of??

 

[eviction]

That is one hell of a will power Ill tell you what if i was on a cycle i dont think id be able to hold back good call if you love your girl-but then again should probably would of never known

oh and get this... so this girl i met like a year a a half ago at a club, she was like my dream girl. She didnt give me her number because she was married, but we like hung out and talked all nite and I walked her back to her hotel. All i had was her first name and a picture of what she looked like in my head. SOOOOOOOOO last night guess who i see? The same girl... and she is single now, and fine as I remembered.... and she was allllll over me. I ended up kissing her, and I told her I was single. Now i feel guilty. Why does this shit have to happen to me when I have a woman, instead of when im single..... DAMN life is crazy

 

[cdownie927]

its always that way bro when you aint got nobody, nobody wants you but when you got a girl its different, my philosophy is dont kiss and tell, and the only time men get cought is when they get lazy, ha man youre not married enjoy yourself, I am, no ass for 3weeks you know what I did last night???? Went out??? O know wait I was in bed at 10:30 lol!

 

[dizzy di]

no sex drive

Is she open for discussion or does she avoid talking about it?
Does she want things to change or is she happy not 'doing the do' In other words is she ok as long as she's happy, does it bother her that you are not ?
As for all the "dump her" messages - helpfull ! (not)
I assume you have tried lots of TLC and 'everything except penetration... try that? If the pressure is off for the last but v.important bit she might relax a little. But DONT give in at the last minute and try to 'get in there'... or it won't work.
At the end of the day though this one is up to you , if you really do like her and want to help then do, but I imagine it to be a long struggle, worth it in the end (fingers x'ed)
Imagine though, go through all that only to find she's a crap lay !
good luck x

 

[SofaGeorge]

Bro, get out of this relationship.