my girlfriend has no sex drive

[houseofpain]

Sounds like you've tried... You've been patient with her, you've asked her to see a doctor, and all your attempts are being shot down by her.

Time for an ultimatum...

If you really care about her, tell her that you love her but physical intimacy is an important part of a healthy relationship and it's not normal for men or women to have zero sex drive. Then drop the bomb and tell her that if she's not willing to go get help, then you're going to have to move on to a normal relationship with someone that's willing to fully participate.

If you don't care about her, just tell her to put out or get out...

 

[cdownie927]

Fill her up.....................













































AND SEND HER ON HER WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Toozee]

... If so have her see her Dr.....trust me they can help.....if she is just gorgeous but uptight, find another.

I agree. That's ONE of the many reasons me and my wife clicked so well in the beginning........we could keep up with each other.

 

[eviction]

Give her a cilias if that don't rev her motor nothing will!!!!


RADAR

cialis works on women??? holy shit

 

[eviction]

so get this.. she comes over last nite, about 10 minutes after i wrote this board message. She is all lovey dovey, and fucks me hardcore.... for the first time in like, a month.... and she was all into it and shit....... I have come to the conclusion that she must be a member on this board or somethin... haha

 

[cdownie927]

Nice....I love hardcore sex.........its like fucking for the first time.. hay

 

[Stillgoing]

Bro - hormones have a huge effect on sex drive in women just like men. Get bloodwork done. She may have low testosterone levels. If so, and she wants to try it, she can go on HRT with test cream. Trust me on this, if the problem is low test, you will see a night & day difference in sex drive. Its amazing. My wife & I have been married for 10yrs and it was always like 1x per week after we had kids. Then we found her test was low, got her on HRT and now its just about everyday, as much as I want.

Another issue: A high percent of women can't orgasm from intercourse alone. They need clitoral stimulation. So, if she is not orgasming, or, not having really powerful ones, try a vibrator or bullet during sex. Once she's firing off huge blasts, she'll want more of it for sure.


Good luck

 

[gab9681]

Yeah, don't feel bad man. I've been married for a little over a year now, but my wife and I have been together for five years. Before we were married we fucked like bunnies all the time. Shit, we would just pull over onto a back road, jump and hood of the car and go at it. But as soon as we got married, the sex slowed down to an almost screeching hault. Shit, I only got laid twice on our honeymoon. I was planning on never leaving the room, but she just wasn't in to it. We have had several fights about it, but she was raised in a strict mormon household, so I think that has something to do with it. She left the church before I even met her, but ever since she was born it was drilled into her head that sex is bad unless you are making babies. So it has taken a long time to get her to loosen up in the bedroom. But every other week or so, she will just attack me and leave me half dead. Which is freakin' awesome. So even though I don't get as much sex as I want, when I do get it, it is killer, so it keeps me happy. It just depends how much time you want to give her and how much you really care about her.

 

[Ashamed]

ha ha

my gf has higher sex drive than me - even on 500mg test

I make excuses half the time.... quality not quantity

 

[CLOBRO]

How old is she bro? Women can have low T levels too...particularily as they age.

Funny story, I took my dad to my HRT doc cuz he was on Andriol from his family doc and it wasn't doing anything. The HRT doc said the amount of Andriol he was on was the amount they give to women to boost sex drive, not nearly enough for men.