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My gaydar malfunctioned

curvymommy

curvymommy

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There's this really nice guy at the gym who I've had a really great banter going on with over the past couple months.

We've talked about DH, his EX wife, kids, cooking, clothes, fitness, life, ect.

I coulda sworn he was :rainbow: and then today it became very obvious that he digs me.

I had already said "see you later" to him in the free weight area. Then I jumped on the stepmill. After that we ran into eachother on the way out of the gym.

I said, "Dude, we are on the same schedule!"

He replied, "I wish! I know a great thing when I see it."

Sigh...hello awkward gym time :worried:
 
curvymommy said:
There's this really nice guy at the gym who I've had a really great banter going on with over the past couple months.

We've talked about DH, his EX wife, kids, cooking, clothes, fitness, life, ect.

I coulda sworn he was :rainbow: and then today it became very obvious that he digs me.

I had already said "see you later" to him in the free weight area. Then I jumped on the stepmill. After that we ran into eachother on the way out of the gym.

I said, "Dude, we are on the same schedule!"

He replied, "I wish! I know a great thing when I see it."

Sigh...hello awkward gym time :worried:
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lol...what happened to being a meanie in training?
 
Did you do the butt cheek wink at him?
 
he had an ex wife and kids...that should have made you more inclined to be on the other side.
granted, gays get married and hide in the closet but not as often as straight guys get divorced lol
 
Dial_tone said:
Did you do the butt cheek wink at him?
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Worked on me.
 
calveless wonder said:
he had an ex wife and kids...that should have made you more inclined to be on the other side.
granted, gays get married and hide in the closet but not as often as straight guys get divorced lol
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only you would know :rolleyes:
 
calveless wonder said:
he had an ex wife and kids...that should have made you more inclined to be on the other side.
granted, gays get married and hide in the closet but not as often as straight guys get divorced lol
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No kids! He doesn't have kids. Just mine and they are always with me.

There has just been friendliness between us all this time. That's it.

I thought he divorced cause he was gay perhaps. But we hadn't "gone that deep"
 
curvymommy said:
No kids! He doesn't have kids. Just mine and they are always with me.

There has just been friendliness between us all this time. That's it.

I thought he divorced cause he was gay perhaps. But we hadn't "gone that deep"
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what are the chances that he divorced because he was gay? :rolleyes:

Are you sure you didnt talk to him because you secretly wanted to talk to him and you see an innocent attraction and some chemistry? :p
 
the_alcatraz said:
lol...what happened to being a meanie in training?
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I would never be mean IRL! I DO know how to not keep looking at peeps eyes to avoid conversation but rarely even do that.

We've totally been friends so far with zero sexual tension.
 
curvymommy said:
I would never be mean IRL! I DO know how to not keep looking at peeps eyes to avoid conversation but rarely even do that.

We've totally been friends so far with zero sexual tension.
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Rawr at sexual tension. You're naughty :qt:
 
take it as a compliment and don't worry about it. You know your boundaries. Just be cool about it, he's just another acquaintance that you have friendly banter with at the gym. No big deal. Won't ever go any further than that. If you don't flirt back, but just keep being friendly, he'll get the clue. If not, he's an idiot and you'll have to set him straight...when the time comes. Give him a little leeway to admire you and say a couple flirty things that you can laugh off.

I don't see an issue here.
 
ceo said:
take it as a compliment and don't worry about it. You know your boundaries. Just be cool about it, he's just another acquaintance that you have friendly banter with at the gym. No big deal. Won't ever go any further than that. If you don't flirt back, but just keep being friendly, he'll get the clue. If not, he's an idiot and you'll have to set him straight...when the time comes. Give him a little leeway to admire you and say a couple flirty things that you can laugh off.

I don't see an issue here.
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+1

Post up pictures when you slap him across the face :p
 
lol!

No problem at all curvy unless you send mixed signals and get flirty with him. It's like when you have guy friends you know they would hit it if you gave them the chance, but since they know there is no chance they don't try. Keep it cool unless he seems to push it and if so drop the nice talk with him and keep your Ipod on at all times :)
 
Just wait till you get that NPC figure body and some 1000cc bewbs! Bring a stick to the gym with you, you’re going to need it!
 
SaladFork said:
Just wait till you get that NPC figure body and some 1000cc bewbs! Bring a stick to the gym with you, you’re going to need it!
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lol...good bro material right there ^^
 
SaladFork said:
Just wait till you get that NPC figure body and some 1000cc bewbs! Bring a stick to the gym with you, you’re going to need it!
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It's not that hard to be avoided. Just don't go in tight sexy clothes. :)
 
Stefka said:
Other way around.
I thought he was a safe gay friend, then before I knew it I was sleeping with him. Strange times.
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Lmao!!!

My moms first marrige was to a gay guy. One month into the marrige he shouted a dudes name during sechs. She had no idea, obviously. Thank god he's not my daddy lol. Not that I have anything against gay peeps (jon I still :heart: u even if your gay).
 
so u were extra friendly 2 a dude bc u thought he was gay? that aint right. thats hetroism!

u hetrist!
 
My exbroinlaw was queerer than a 3 dollar bill. He still managed to marry and have a son. LOL And no, I don't mean queer as in odd. I mean queer as in he watched his partner die of aids before he succumbed to it himself several years later queer. Was really sad that because WE (meaning me and my exhusband... BECAUSE OF ME) were the only ones that recognized his sexual preference (despite the facade for all those years) when his partner died he had to mourn alone. His mother actually uttered the words, "Thank goodness that guy FINALLY DIED. He must have been SUCH a burden to you."

My exbitchstersinlaw actually told my exhusband that, "The gay thing was prolly just a phase."

Ummmmmmm I am thinkin that when a 40something year old man decides to come out of the closet to his INSANELY homophobic family that it is most likely a bit more than that!

Good God my ex-inlaws were fucking dumb....

Sadder still my SOOPER bitchster-in-law's youngest son is soooooooper gay. His father and older brother are BEYOND homophobic. Poor kid finally confessed to my girls that he IS gay... I just told my girls not to be mean to him because it is bad enough that his family will never accept him... regardless of how many hurtfull things that kid said to my kids about me, he is STILL just a child and a victim of his own family.
 
I thought this thread was going to say

"I saw both Lestat and Pic3 hanging out together, the gaydar could handle the readings".
 
curvymommy said:
There's this really nice guy at the gym who I've had a really great banter going on with over the past couple months.

We've talked about DH, his EX wife, kids, cooking, clothes, fitness, life, ect.

I coulda sworn he was :rainbow: and then today it became very obvious that he digs me.

I had already said "see you later" to him in the free weight area. Then I jumped on the stepmill. After that we ran into eachother on the way out of the gym.

I said, "Dude, we are on the same schedule!"

He replied, "I wish! I know a great thing when I see it."
Sigh...hello awkward gym time :worried:
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This sounds like something a gay guy would say. Seriously. (or a beta who always is a girls friend)

I would have told you to stop stalking me. (if you were a single girl)
 
Off topic, but if I go to a strip club with macaroni & cheese on my pants, will it look like jizz underneath the black lights?
 
jack sparrow said:
Off topic, but if I go to a strip club with macaroni & cheese on my pants, will it look like jizz underneath the black lights?
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If this is intentional, I think toothpaste would work better.
 
Stefka said:
If this is intentional, I think toothpaste would work better.
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Not intentional...I actually have some mac & cheese stuff on my pants, but I have a load of clothes in the dryer. Should I wait?

Are you saying that my chances of seeing some bliff would increase if I smeared toothpaste on myself?
 
jack sparrow said:
Off topic, but if I go to a strip club with macaroni & cheese on my pants, will it look like jizz underneath the black lights?
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lol girls will think you are easy.
 
jack sparrow said:
They work hard for their money so I'm gonna treat them right.

(yeah right).

Actually I think I'm going to bed.
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Good idea then they won't have to smell your cheesy crotch.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Good idea then they won't have to smell your cheesy crotch.
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and vice versa
 
all the whey said:
This sounds like something a gay guy would say. Seriously. (or a beta who always is a girls friend)

I would have told you to stop stalking me. (if you were a single girl)
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lol, yeah exactly ATW. The whole day I was thinking about it and I bet he really IS gay.

Just a couple days ago he was telling me about his "quarter life crisis" and how he's had lots of time to "think" since his divorce. I bet I have him pegged right, or not! No big deal. I did like the idea of a "safe" gay friend though.

You guys all crack me up! I gotta go put my DK's to bed. :heart:
 
curvymommy said:
lol, yeah exactly ATW. The whole day I was thinking about it and I bet he really IS gay.

Just a couple days ago he was telling me about his "quarter life crisis" and how he's had lots of time to "think" since his divorce. I bet I have him pegged right, or not! No big deal. I did like the idea of a "safe" gay friend though.

You guys all crack me up! I gotta go put my DK's to bed. :heart:
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Don't worry curvymommy! I am sure he knows you are loyal to your DH either way.


It is not like you fell for the old "You have good form." line.
 
Then I jumped on the stepmill. After that we ran into eachother on the way out of the gym.
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that wasnt coincidence........he totally planed that. I also think you are attracted to him and have urges that you probably wont admit or go through with, but you like the attention.......who dosent
 
gotmilk said:
Do you workout with Sir-Mix-A-Lot? He's a Seattle area resident
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He also likes big butts. So thats one in her favor. But Seattle and Tacoma aren't the same thing.
 
jestro said:
He also likes big butts. So thats one in her favor. But Seattle and Tacoma aren't the same thing.
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lmao!!! True, true, true! I'm working on my ass everyday though to where it's more of a good big than a freakshow big :lmao:
 
curvymommy said:
There's this really nice guy at the gym who I've had a really great banter going on with over the past couple months.

:
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LOL @ the use, correct even, of the word "banter"....
 
all the whey said:
and vice versa
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OMgosh! LMAO!

seaking420 said:
that wasnt coincidence........he totally planed that. I also think you are attracted to him and have urges that you probably wont admit or go through with, but you like the attention.......who dosent
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Oh sure, I like attention as much as the next living, breathing human but not from this person! lol! He's great but I mean come on, he seems like a flamer.

Tytan said:
Is this a me thread? Bragging cause you got some sweaty gym sex offer.....
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uh, I can totally tell you don't know me :rolleyes:
 
curvymommy said:
There's this really nice guy at the gym who I've had a really great banter going on with over the past couple months.

We've talked about DH, his EX wife, kids, cooking, clothes, fitness, life, ect.

I coulda sworn he was :rainbow: and then today it became very obvious that he digs me.

I had already said "see you later" to him in the free weight area. Then I jumped on the stepmill. After that we ran into eachother on the way out of the gym.

I said, "Dude, we are on the same schedule!"

He replied, "I wish! I know a great thing when I see it."

Sigh...hello awkward gym time :worried:
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maybe he just wants to know where you buy your shoes. . .
 
curvymommy said:
OMgosh! LMAO!


Oh sure, I like attention as much as the next living, breathing human but not from this person! lol! He's great but I mean come on, he seems like a flamer.


uh, I can totally tell you don't know me :rolleyes:
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You get me all frisky inside when you say OMgosh...lol
 
the_alcatraz said:
You get me all frisky inside when you say OMgosh...lol
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I love to say Oh my gosh IRL, but never use the Lord's name in vain (IRL) so I hate to say OMG. :whatever:

KWIM? LOL!
 
Curvy let me know if you need some tips from me on how to be unapproachable at the gym. I am sure I am know as the gym snob. I never have people come on to me there.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Curvy let me know if you need some tips from me on how to be unapproachable at the gym. I am sure I am know as the gym snob. I never have people come on to me there.
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or is it more likely bc u never shower bc hot people never change in the gym, right?
 
GUARDIAN said:
or is it more likely bc u never shower bc hot people never change in the gym, right?
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LOL!!!!! I can tell you why other girls are approached and I am not. They were tight stuff and don't have headphones and walk around in makeup smiling. Me.. ipod on wearing tshirt and pants all the time. I am sure I could get people to talk to me if I wore tight shirts to show off the girls, but I am not at the gym to chit chat I am there to keep my focus workout hard and get the heck out of there. :) I see people standing there talking to someone for the entire 30 minutes of my cardio. They must spend like 2 hrs there. I have too much going on to spend 2 hrs at the gym.
 
silverstar1025 said:
LOL!!!!! I can tell you why other girls are approached and I am not. They were tight stuff and don't have headphones and walk around in makeup smiling. Me.. ipod on wearing tshirt and pants all the time. I am sure I could get people to talk to me if I wore tight shirts to show off the girls, but I am not at the gym to chit chat I am there to keep my focus workout hard and get the heck out of there. :) I see people standing there talking to someone for the entire 30 minutes of my cardio. They must spend like 2 hrs there. I have too much going on to spend 2 hrs at the gym.
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^^^^Good bro material, as they say, lol! Thanks Silverstar.
 
curvymommy said:
^^^^Good bro material, as they say, lol! Thanks Silverstar.
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lol trying to help my girl out. Remember baggy clothes and headphones on girl!
 
Thanks girl. I have the headphones down and well...my clothes are not baggy though. I hate feeling frumpy. I'll try it though and send you pics.
 
You broads crack me up wearing your headphones so you won't be bothered because all the guys want you.lol

I always wait until someone is on the other side of them. Then, say "Hey how are you doing". Or "Hey you look great today!".

Then, when they take of thier head phones to say hi or thanks I say "I wasn't talking to you".

lollloloopolo
 
all the whey said:
You broads crack me up wearing your headphones so you won't be bothered because all the guys want you.lol

I always wait until someone is on the other side of them. Then, say "Hey how are you doing". Or "Hey you look great today!".

Then, when they take of thier head phones to say hi or thanks I say "I wasn't talking to you".

lollloloopolo
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hey, dreamboat! not you, shipwreck. . .
 
all the whey said:
You broads crack me up wearing your headphones so you won't be bothered because all the guys want you.lol

I always wait until someone is on the other side of them. Then, say "Hey how are you doing". Or "Hey you look great today!".

Then, when they take of thier head phones to say hi or thanks I say "I wasn't talking to you".

lollloloopolo
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lol you are evil! LOL!!! I never said I was wanted by everyone I am just saying that I don't seem very friendly in the gym so I am left alone. Lots of people like to chit chat with each other fat, skinny, ugly, pretty, whatever.. I like to be left alone. My gym is cool. I have a crossdressser that dresses in more skimpy stuff than I do and when he is done working out comes out of the locker room in 5 inch platform clear stripper shoes. I have to put the towel over my face everytime he walks by so he can't see me laugh.
 
silverstar1025 said:
lol you are evil! LOL!!! I never said I was wanted by everyone I am just saying that I don't seem very friendly in the gym so I am left alone. Lots of people like to chit chat with each other fat, skinny, ugly, pretty, whatever.. I like to be left alone. My gym is cool. I have a crossdressser that dresses in more skimpy stuff than I do and when he is done working out comes out of the locker room in 5 inch platform clear stripper shoes. I have to put the towel over my face everytime he walks by so he can't see me laugh.
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I know.

I only do it to bitches that think they are too hot!
 
i think the gym is the one place where its acceptable to be antisocial

dont go there to fuckin chitchat.

plus its a place with random groups of people you dont really want to associate with most of them.
 
all the whey said:
I know.

I only do it to bitches that think they are too hot!
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Like giving hot chicks on hotornot 1's. I got ya homie! :)
 
calveless wonder said:
i think the gym is the one place where its acceptable to be antisocial

dont go there to fuckin chitchat.

plus its a place with random groups of people you dont really want to associate with most of them.
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Agreed bro.
 
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