My g/f killed herself last night.

[Lumberg]

NADIA GUILLEMETTE (JESSEE) Suddenly on Saturday, November 8, 2003, Nadia, aged 34 years, passed away. She leaves to mourn her spouse Michael, son Randy, mother Lise, brother Stephane and many friends and relatives. She was born in Quebec and lived there till her late teens when she came to reside in Winnipeg. Greatly involved in Spirituality she worked on helping others with spiritual guidance. Her wish was to be cremated and that no formal service be held. An informal service will be held next spring. Now you are free my honey.



Shit dude the tears are coming......

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Alright all I got to say is

GO SEE A THERAPIST. TALK TALK TALK TALK TALK ABOUT IT

Hit the weights if you feel like it. Keep up with your health at least to some degree. Don't lose yourself in self-destructive behavior. It will make it much harder to come back.

 

[c-sharp minor]

NADIA GUILLEMETTE (JESSEE) Suddenly on Saturday, November 8, 2003, Nadia, aged 34 years, passed away. She leaves to mourn her spouse Michael, son Randy, mother Lise, brother Stephane and many friends and relatives. She was born in Quebec and lived there till her late teens when she came to reside in Winnipeg. Greatly involved in Spirituality she worked on helping others with spiritual guidance. Her wish was to be cremated and that no formal service be held. An informal service will be held next spring. Now you are free my honey.



Shit dude the tears are coming......

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Alright all I got to say is

GO SEE A THERAPIST. TALK TALK TALK TALK TALK ABOUT IT

Hit the weights if you feel like it. Keep up with your health at least to some degree. Don't lose yourself in self-destructive behavior. It will make it much harder to come back.

Thank so much my friend.

I am starting therapy on Wednesday.

 

[Lumberg]

Thank so much my friend.

I am starting therapy on Wednesday.

Good for you brother.

 

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She hung herself from the chin-up bar on my power rack.

Her feet were touching the floor, which meant all she had to do was stand up to save her own life.

Dude, you have no idea how sorry I am for you.

If you are beating yourself up over the fact that she just could have stood up, don't. I will not get into it unless you want me to but I could almost say 100% that this was NOT the case although it looked like it.

I've seen far too many of these in my lifetime. No one should experience this.

 

[manny78]

We are common-law which gives me legal rights to many things, including her death benefits.

Well....her last wish was to be cremated and have her ashes scattered in an old forest.

The funeral parlor informs me that I don't have the legal right to sign the cremation certificate.

What a pile of bullshit!!!!

Her mom is in Quebec and a fucking transient alcoholic. Now I cannot make any funeral arrangements whatsoever until they finish checking every last contact in order to reach her mom, who she hated.

The people they want to reach know absolutely nothing about my g/f anymore, it's ridiculous.

Maybe I could find her on monday from my job. If she's alive, chances are I will know where she's. If it's not too late....

 

[The_Ghost]

Hope your doing alright bro, my prayers are with ya!

 

[nsashbl01]

I feel for ya bro. I lost my brother in March. Talk to a pro. It helps.....

 

[slobberknocker]

So sorry man.

 

[c-sharp minor]

Maybe I could find her on monday from my job. If she's alive, chances are I will know where she's. If it's not too late....

If you are really serious bro. I would be indebted to you.

I'll Pm you the little info I have.

 

[c-sharp minor]

Hope your doing alright bro, my prayers are with ya!

I seem to be coming out of shock a little.

I did a very small leg workout today and am managing to eat all my meals. (Hamburger Helper with veggies and xtra lean grnd beef). It's something I can stomach.

Did you see her in today's paper?

It was a pic of her just after she was released from the hospital after she hung herself the first time. She still looks slightly different than before the suicide attempt.

My parents are going to rescan the pics and put them in a different format.