I can tell you tren is a whole different animal. Many suffer moods. I an running halo which is stronger than tren but when I ran the tren i found myself way more irritable... Like no other compound. Even a low dose and I was raging while driving. I've ran a gram of test, high eq, deca, high var, high winstrol and now halo. Nothing gave me anythjng close to the aggression tren did, though deca made me depressed. Nandrolones can affect some of us.
The fact that you are here shows you love him. What I would do is plan a night to get away, go to a restaurant or go to a movie or a show and speak to him softly about it. I wouldn't be aggressive as you don't want the alpha to come out. If he doesn't oblige I wouldn't give an ultimatum, I'd suggest rolling.