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My boyfriend is getting fat........
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HappyScrappy
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just keep punching him in the gut and then saying how soft he is. smack his ass and call him "lard ass".
when he is eating, press on the back of his head so that he is face into his pizza - tell him he needs a good assfucking.
in public, poke him in his belly and loudly ask why he isn't giggling, or that he in't very jolly for someone so fat.
all great motivational tools.
when he is eating, press on the back of his head so that he is face into his pizza - tell him he needs a good assfucking.
in public, poke him in his belly and loudly ask why he isn't giggling, or that he in't very jolly for someone so fat.
all great motivational tools.
HappyScrappy
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seriously though - I'd just bring it up. tell him the truth, it pains you that you are working so hard to be fit and healthy, and if you to are in it for the long haul, then it is an insult to you that he doesn't take his health as seriously, and worse yet, you don't find it attractive.
I still like my poking and punching suggestion better, but to each their own.
I still like my poking and punching suggestion better, but to each their own.
supersizeme
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lmao 
@ gilby and HS
can i just ask how a fat computer geek landed you? i read all the replies to this thread blah blah you should change him blah blah he should care about his health blah blah i could care less blah blah and all i can do is sit here and wonder, how is your corpulent 100wpm typing boyfriend not aware of the fact that he is about to lose his retarded fine girlfriend?? my butt would be in the gym like everyday for what i would refer to as "ass maintenance." this is like when you are dating a really fine chick who is out of your league, but you're still hitting it for some reason that you can't quite explain, and you know you can't let your body go because in your mind, that's one more thing she could bail on you for. it's like liquid motivation in a bottle. anyways it's amazing that it hasn't occurred to him that his girl is now getting even finer and is no doubt attracting attention of guys in better shape. guys that don't iron their pants on the driveway. has he ever bungee jumped? if he did, did he bring down the bridge too??
jen you'll probably end up leaving this guy. it's inevitable...unless homie has an epiphany and comes home one day with a tub of protein and some lifting straps.
@ gilby and HScan i just ask how a fat computer geek landed you? i read all the replies to this thread blah blah you should change him blah blah he should care about his health blah blah i could care less blah blah and all i can do is sit here and wonder, how is your corpulent 100wpm typing boyfriend not aware of the fact that he is about to lose his retarded fine girlfriend?? my butt would be in the gym like everyday for what i would refer to as "ass maintenance." this is like when you are dating a really fine chick who is out of your league, but you're still hitting it for some reason that you can't quite explain, and you know you can't let your body go because in your mind, that's one more thing she could bail on you for. it's like liquid motivation in a bottle. anyways it's amazing that it hasn't occurred to him that his girl is now getting even finer and is no doubt attracting attention of guys in better shape. guys that don't iron their pants on the driveway. has he ever bungee jumped? if he did, did he bring down the bridge too??
jen you'll probably end up leaving this guy. it's inevitable...unless homie has an epiphany and comes home one day with a tub of protein and some lifting straps.
the nature boy
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Here's a dumb question:
HAVE YOU TALKED TO HIM ABOUT THIS!?!?!!!??!!?!
That's pretty much all you can do right?
HAVE YOU TALKED TO HIM ABOUT THIS!?!?!!!??!!?!
That's pretty much all you can do right?
jennifer BFL chick
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When I met him, I was in decent shape, so he has been here through my weight gain and weight loss-----so I know he cares about me. I care about him, and I'm not going to "dump" him because he gained a little weight----he is not FAT. In fact, people still call him skinny. He's 6'5, 200. But he is VERY soft, and he really does have a big gut.
When I first met him, I wasn't attracted to him. IN fact I didn't think we would go out again----but we got along SO good, so I met him again.
I remember the first time he took off his shirt, he had no muscle definition at all. All the guys I had been with before him were in pretty good shape, so yes, it was a turn off-----but personality won me over big time, and maybe I just ignored the physical side a little too much.
Yes, I have talked about this with him in the past, and he seems to have no desire to change at all.
He is VERY sensitive too. He already thinks I'm "dominating", which if any of you guys met me, I highly doubt that's what you would think.
Thanks for the opinions on this thread! I'm going to bring it up this weekend and see what he says.
Honestly, if he dosn't give a rats ass about the way I feel, then thats gonig to turn me off even more. I'm not trying to "change him" completly, but I do want him to care about his body and health at least a little ya know?
When I first met him, I wasn't attracted to him. IN fact I didn't think we would go out again----but we got along SO good, so I met him again.
I remember the first time he took off his shirt, he had no muscle definition at all. All the guys I had been with before him were in pretty good shape, so yes, it was a turn off-----but personality won me over big time, and maybe I just ignored the physical side a little too much.
Yes, I have talked about this with him in the past, and he seems to have no desire to change at all.
He is VERY sensitive too. He already thinks I'm "dominating", which if any of you guys met me, I highly doubt that's what you would think.
Thanks for the opinions on this thread! I'm going to bring it up this weekend and see what he says.
Honestly, if he dosn't give a rats ass about the way I feel, then thats gonig to turn me off even more. I'm not trying to "change him" completly, but I do want him to care about his body and health at least a little ya know?
chrisoh
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same thing happened to me and my ex-girlfriend, i trained hard, she just sat at home and ate... it all comes down to her not respecting your lifestyle and not taking herself or her body seriously, eventually we came at a crossroads where for me it was a choice of either her or my lifestyle, I didn't have the time or the energy for both. I chose my lifestyle, she was dragging me down and I couldn't deal with that. I have no regrets.
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