My boyfriend is getting fat........

[PinK233]

You said it....he's comfortable in his skin....

I take that you are very comfortable in yours...how would you feel if your boyfriend was telling you to lose more weight? or even gain more? Sort of makes you feel inadequate...and I'm not trying to make you feel bad b/c it seems like you're approaching this with caution...

if you're not even attracted to him anymore but the love is still there it's still going to be hard to maintain a relationship...sex is a part of a relationship and if you don't desire your partner that pretty much kills the sex life...

 

[HamsterHider]

JUST MOVE TO VEGAS AND I WILL WORK OUT WITH YOU.

 

[Frackal]

Jen,

My bodyfat is at about 7.5 percent now.

Cheers,

Frackal

 

[Hannibal]

I almost feel sorry for the guy. Sounds like he's about to lose out

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

You said it....he's comfortable in his skin....

I take that you are very comfortable in yours...how would you feel if your boyfriend was telling you to lose more weight? or even gain more? Sort of makes you feel inadequate...and I'm not trying to make you feel bad b/c it seems like you're approaching this with caution...

if you're not even attracted to him anymore but the love is still there it's still going to be hard to maintain a relationship...sex is a part of a relationship and if you don't desire your partner that pretty much kills the sex life...

See, I would never tell him to loose weight, because its NOT that important in our relationship for him to be lean, obviously, because he never has been.

But how do you get someone to care about their health? I figured that I would just lead by example and he would want to do it. I don't want to end up marrying a guy, and have him die of a heart attack at 40, when it could have been prevented.

Oh, and sex is not a part of our relationship, lol. He wants to wait until he's married. But you still need to be sexually attracted to someone for it to work in the long run thats true, very true.

I'm still attracted to him, but once he takes off his shirt, I'm like WOW, lol. I can't help it, but I start grabbing his man tits, its pretty funny, but NOT sexy.

 

[Bigsatan13]

It's more common then you think, one partner trains and the other doesn't. I see some really attractive women with these disgusting fat-body guys and can't figure it out. I'll say this, since my wife started training with me two years ago our relationship has strengthened.

 

[Bigsatan13]

Oh, and sex is not a part of our relationship, lol. He wants to wait until he's married.

No Way! WTF, I've seen your pics! You are a sexual woman and if this guy wants to wait? You are only going to be let down! Run Away!

 

[Taps]

Thank God women arn't as superficial as men. I'd never get laid if they were.

Jen, just tell him he's getting fat. Make a joke out of it. Poke him in the belly and call him Porky or something. Unless he's really sensitive (doesn't sound like he is), he'll think it's funny but he'll also get your point.

And give him a blow job afterwards. That'll restore any of his lost self-esteem.

 

[Frackal]

Bullshit, tell this fat motherfucker to have some respect and get his bitch ass into shape or hit the door!

 

[PinK233]

Bullshit, tell this fat motherfucker to have some respect and get his bitch ass into shape or hit the door!

Real sensitive! lol

He'll jump off a building