My bf in Texas dumped me

[heatherrae]

so, wait a minute, you guys would sleep with a girl but not let her be alone in your house? I knew he dated other gals, so I wouldn't be looking to "catch" him doing anything. I had known him for a long time. It felt weird to me, as if he were afraid I would steal something...lol.

 

[txbondsman]

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

he sounds like my wife, I here that shit every day, day in day out, I could write a book on that shit....

just so you know, here was yesterday. We have puppy, he was in bed with our son. My son said that the puppy peed in the master bed. There's towels there for the puppy to lay on just for that. I looked, couldn't see any pee, asked him where, he showed me, I look again, nothing, no sign of pee, everythings completely dry.

So, I do my Sunday thing, wash all my sons clothes, 3 loads, dry and fold them, do a wash load of dishtowels, rugs, etc, and all my clothes, 5 loads of clothes wash and put away. I went fishing for 3 hours and came home and cooked a big dinner. In the middle of that I had to work myself at the jail and came back to finish the cooking and I swept the floor, our house is all tile except the 3 bedrooms. I helped my son with his homework as he has 3 tests today, it took an hour or so to get that done.

She comes home from work and our son mentions the puppy and the bed. She hits the cieling and just loses her shit, screaming, cussing that I didn't change the sheets, now she will have to do it herself! She was just balistic, screaming at my son, makes him upset, sends him outside at 10:30 at night to take the puppy out, now he's upset and still awake, that's late for a 10 year old. Bitches for another hour before she finally STFU.....

that aught to make you feel better, I'm married to mine...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Exactly. Especially laundry.

Ever notice that they start picking things up off the floor in the bedroom like, on the first date?

They're looking for evidence.

Not me.

I told my Old Grump during our first telephone conversation:

"I can cook but I refuse to, so don't ask, ever and I don't clean... ANYTHING.... you still wanna go out?"

If you think I am shitting, just ask him.

 

[all the whey]

LOL so I take it they just give you head in the parking lot then you push them out the door while the car is still moving?

Have we dated?

 

[Smurfy]

heather are you sloppy? i dont like sloppy.

 

[heatherrae]

i agree with red. Your a a cutie/gorgoeus/beautiful lady. he is fugly, makes a lil vomit come into the back of my throat, big ass head, and (something else real mean right here). I know this doesnt help but really you can do soooo much better. There are still guys like me around who will love you and treat you like a lady. Just go about your days, go out with friends and have fun. Enjoy Devin. But please dont take Devin to happy hour.

Thank you. =-)

 

[Bikini Mod]

Have we dated?

Touche... not hardly. Refer back to my post about the first telephone conversation I had with ALL the dudes I would subsequently go out on a date with.

 

[jack sparrow]

so, wait a minute, you guys would sleep with a girl but not let her be alone in your house? I knew he dated other gals, so I wouldn't be looking to "catch" him doing anything. I had known him for a long time. It felt weird to me, as if he were afraid I would steal something...lol.

Speaking of "catch"...have you ever thought about hooking up with Lestat?

 

[Razorguns]

he sounds like my wife, I here that shit every day, day in day out, I could write a book on that shit....

just so you know, here was yesterday. We have puppy, he was in bed with our son. My son said that the puppy peed in the master bed. There's towels there for the puppy to lay on just for that. I looked, couldn't see any pee, asked him where, he showed me, I look again, nothing, no sign of pee, everythings completely dry.

So, I do my Sunday thing, wash all my sons clothes, 3 loads, dry and fold them, do a wash load of dishtowels, rugs, etc, and all my clothes, 5 loads of clothes wash and put away. I went fishing for 3 hours and came home and cooked a big dinner. In the middle of that I had to work myself at the jail and came back to finish the cooking and I swept the floor, our house is all tile except the 3 bedrooms. I helped my son with his homework as he has 3 tests today, it took an hour or so to get that done.

She comes home from work and our son mentions the puppy and the bed. She hits the cieling and just loses her shit, screaming, cussing that I didn't change the sheets, now she will have to do it herself! She was just balistic, screaming at my son, makes him upset, sends him outside at 10:30 at night to take the puppy out, now he's upset and still awake, that's late for a 10 year old. Bitches for another hour before she finally STFU.....

that aught to make you feel better, I'm married to mine...

and she wasn't like that, when she was a hot 25 y/o? or she just "changed" after marriage (everyone uses that excuse).

r

 

[heatherrae]

heather are you sloppy? i dont like sloppy.

Yeah, I am. Thing is, before he came over to my house, I would make sure everything was clean. I put fresh sheets on, fresh towells out, cleaned my car, etc. When I was at his house, I made sure not to have stuff lying everywhere because he is super neat and tidy. With the baby, my messiness has gotten worse because dev cries if I leave the room. It is frustrating.