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heatherrae said:lol...the best way to get over a man is to get under another one.
easy on that one. Sometimes it makes it worse. I say relax......concentrate on Devin AND your carreer. You don't have time for a man.
heatherrae said:lol...the best way to get over a man is to get under another one.
redsamurai said:easy on that one. Sometimes it makes it worse. I say relax......concentrate on Devin AND your carreer. You don't have time for a man.
I was only kidding. ;-) The guy in Texas was the only man I've been with since the break up with Dev's dad.redsamurai said:easy on that one. Sometimes it makes it worse. I say relax......concentrate on Devin AND your carreer. You don't have time for a man.
heatherrae said:Yep. I agree!
He lives in Frisco. He was always talking about things being "trendy" or not. LOL.BIKINIMOM said:We don't live in Dallas. We live in the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex in the suburbs. The people here are VERY NICE.
I do agree though that there is a pretentiousness in Dallas that is pretty much the worst I have seen. Though, admittedly I've not bee to L.A. So I could be wrong.
I completely get the gist of the long-distance/half-relationship thing. BELIEVE ME... but even with one of those if you use different criteria to choose who you will spend your free time with you will find that search to be much more pleasurable.
heatherrae said:He lives in Frisco. He was always talking about things being "trendy" or not. LOL.

That is what I gathered from the experience, as well....lol.BIKINIMOM said:Oh geeze... yup Frisco is all *that*.![]()
heatherrae said:He lives in Frisco. He was always talking about things being "trendy" or not. LOL.
No, he didn't take me out, AT ALL, which makes me think he was hiding me. We won't go there, though. He had to go to his daughter's b-day party one day and made me and devin go to the mall for HOURS. He evidently didn't want me in his house alone. ???Pat_McCrotch said:Did you he ever take you to the Down Under Pub?
heatherrae said:No, he didn't take me out, AT ALL, which makes me think he was hiding me. We won't go there, though. He had to go to his daughter's b-day party one day and made me and devin go to the mall for HOURS. He evidently didn't want me in his house alone. ???
Yeah, he said he had to go to his daughter's bday party and would be back in about 3 hours. I didn't push to meet his daughter because I figured we could do that if/when the time is right. I said, "I will just stay here because Dev will need a nap, etc before the end of the party. He really didn't want me to stay alone in his house. He insisted I drag Devin to the mall in his stroller. Then, he called like an hour LATE from the party. I could tell he was at a kids party because of all the kids in the background. He's just very odd.cindylou said:really? that was kinda rude if you ask me
You could be right. The asshole ex hasn't created any problems and I actually almost never spoke about that unless he asked a question about it. We had lots of fun together when he wasn't nagging me. I think having a baby around was tough (he couldn't get the sexy time whenever he wanted it). Having a 20 something is easier for him to deal with.jnevin said:Sounds like he's just really OCD and can't stand things to be any different when he's with someone than when he's by himself. I've noticed the older and set in their ways my single friends get, the more little things the women they date do drives them crazy.
Or maybe he was just over the whole thing and acted like a dick to push you away. You have a kid, a douchebag ex, and whatever other problems a typical 30-something has going on in her life. Might have thought if he was an ass it'd be an easier break.
heatherrae said:You could be right. The asshole ex hasn't created any problems and I actually almost never spoke about that unless he asked a question about it. We had lots of fun together when he wasn't nagging me. I think having a baby around was tough (he couldn't get the sexy time whenever he wanted it). Having a 20 something is easier for him to deal with.
these were when I was still prego. We actually started dating when I was prego. He hates when I post pictures of him on the internet...so here they are:Smurfy said:still waiting for pics of this dickhead
Smurfy said:still waiting for pics of this dickhead
20 somethings are easier but not better.heatherrae said:You could be right. The asshole ex hasn't created any problems and I actually almost never spoke about that unless he asked a question about it. We had lots of fun together when he wasn't nagging me. I think having a baby around was tough (he couldn't get the sexy time whenever he wanted it). Having a 20 something is easier for him to deal with.
Thanks. =-)CMarc said:20 somethings are easier but not better.
You're a mom, that's who you are. Some guys won't want to deal with it but hey, that's their loss. You'll find the right guy when you least expect it and stop looking for him. Good luck.
He's a bald, persian dude with a huge ego...lol.Smurfy said:damn i have to wait until i get home to see these pics
true true.jnevin said:Things just may have been getting too real for him in his mind, so he pulled back. I dunno. Sounds like it wouldn't have been anything great if it kept going, so better it ended now instead of if you got invested emotionally.
You're not missing much. Maybe he was rich.Smurfy said:damn i have to wait until i get home to see these pics
1. he sure THINKS he is.jnevin said:1) He's not a hansome man. Woah.
2) After reading more of this thread, you were the other woman. Or another woman. Dude was a pig.
lol...a little bit rich. he was fun. I'm not really hung up on looks, much.CMarc said:You're not missing much. Maybe he was rich.![]()
heatherrae said:He's a bald, persian dude with a huge ego...lol.
nope, frequent flyer miles...lol.BIKINIMOM said:Good God... I needa spank you.
WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU HAVE PUT UP WITH THAT SHIT?
Ummmm you were *trustworthy* enough to boink, but not trustworthy enough for him to *leave you alone in his home*?
ARE YOU SHITTING ME?
Please don't tell me that you paid for your travel to Texas...
heatherrae said:these were when I was still prego. We actually started dating when I was prego. He hates when I post pictures of him on the internet...so here they are:
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heatherrae said:
I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.
You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?
LOL...I suck at this love thing.
friscobiteme said:What part of Texas? Texas men suck... I'm one of the few cool ones. haha
heatherrae said:nope, frequent flyer miles...lol.
That was WEIRD to want me to leave the house. I got really ticked over that because it is hard to just walk around a mall with dev in a stroller for HOURS. I think it was so I wouldn't find things from other girls, I guess. Hell if I know!

lol...no spart is better looking than that.redsamurai said:spartacus?? You were dating sparts???
His miles.BIKINIMOM said:Your frequent flyer miles... or his?
The dude was a FREAKING CREEP....
You REALLY needa read my book.![]()
heatherrae said:lol...no spart is better looking than that.
heatherrae said:frisco
awwwwww...shucks. thanks. =-)redsamurai said:by the way heather, you are super cute......even prego, like wow.....![]()
Heather dated another creep and got dumped for suspicious reasons.jack sparrow said:Someone catch me up on this one.
No details please, just the facts.
spart looks a bit like Don Johnson.redsamurai said:maybe I need to see another pic of sparts.........but from what I remember that is exactly what he looks like. Sure it wasn't him and he was just foolin with ya??>...........lol
heatherrae said:Heather dated another creep and got dumped for suspicious reasons.
The End.
lol.
heatherrae said:His miles.
Thing is when I was prego, he treated me like a queen (when we first started dating). He was considerate, took me nice places, flew me to Orlando to get away. The only weirdness was he would obsess about the state of my fat pregnant form. I certainly didn't like that.
Ah, I think I was GRATEFUL that he did those things on the heels of the last guy being so terrible. Then, he turned into an ass.
So....hmmm...I don't know.
jack sparrow said:Someone catch me up on this one.
No details please, just the facts.
No, but he has 5 teeth now. =-)jack sparrow said:Sorry to hear that.
Is Dilbert walking yet?
jack sparrow said:Sorry to hear that.
Is Dilbert walking yet?
Jack Schitt is not terrible. HOw can you say such a thing???heatherrae said:His miles.
Thing is when I was prego, he treated me like a queen (when we first started dating). He was considerate, took me nice places, flew me to Orlando to get away. The only weirdness was he would obsess about the state of my fat pregnant form. I certainly didn't like that.
Ah, I think I was GRATEFUL that he did those things on the heels of the last guy being so terrible. Then, he turned into an ass.
So....hmmm...I don't know.
Yep. She's a non-bedmaker.all the whey said:Same thing you told me about her.
She never makes the bed.
heatherrae said:Heather dated another creep and got dumped for suspicious reasons.
The End.
lol.
heatherrae said:nope, frequent flyer miles...lol.
That was WEIRD to want me to leave the house. I got really ticked over that because it is hard to just walk around a mall with dev in a stroller for HOURS. I think it was so I wouldn't find things from other girls, I guess. Hell if I know!
all the whey said:Most guys I know don't want a girl staying alone in their house. (except n00bs)
Girls like to snoop.
I've dropped girls off at the mall before.lol And, not because I was worried about them finding stuff about other girls. I've just been burned a few times by it.
BIKINIMOM said:Wait... you mean that you would stick your dick into a girl that you wouldn't trust alone in your home?
Hell yeah.BIKINIMOM said:Wait... you mean that you would stick your dick into a girl that you wouldn't trust alone in your home?
Yeah, WTF Heather?Smurfy said:Jack Schitt is not terrible. HOw can you say such a thing???
jack sparrow said:Hell yeah.
This is the case with ALL wimmimz I date.
My rules:
1. Put out.
2. Keep your paws off my shit.
Why?BIKINIMOM said:Well, then maybe you oughtta change your criteria too?
... just sayin.
oh hell yeahBIKINIMOM said:Wait... you mean that you would stick your dick into a girl that you wouldn't trust alone in your home?
jack sparrow said:Hell yeah.
This is the case with ALL wimmimz I date.
My rules:
1. Put out.
2. Keep your paws off my shit.
heatherrae said:
I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.
You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?
LOL...I suck at this love thing.
all the whey said:

MichaelScott said:oh hell yeah
BIKINIMOM said:I hate to be captain obvious here, but you aren't really giving me much of a choice here.![]()
Exactly. Especially laundry.all the whey said:Women love going through your shit. That is why they offer to clean your house.
heatherrae said:No, he didn't take me out, AT ALL, which makes me think he was hiding me. We won't go there, though. He had to go to his daughter's b-day party one day and made me and devin go to the mall for HOURS. He evidently didn't want me in his house alone. ???
Thanks. =-) That is sweet.roadwarrior said:HR... while I don't know you IRL and I don't agree with you on everything, I have come to respect and like you even in an e-schmuck way. You're too good for some fool who would make a big deal over a quarter on the floor and an unmade bed. You have a baby - that's priority 1. You are better off without him and will find the right man for you someday. My wife and I married when I was 47 and she was 33. There is still plenty of time for a young catch like you. If you were up in MA, I'd be introducing you to my single freinds.
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jack sparrow said:Exactly. Especially laundry.
Ever notice that they start picking things up off the floor in the bedroom like, on the first date?
They're looking for evidence.
LOL...I think he was upset with me because I never pick things off the floor.jack sparrow said:Exactly. Especially laundry.
Ever notice that they start picking things up off the floor in the bedroom like, on the first date?
They're looking for evidence.
all the whey said:Honestly, that was when I was younger.
Now, I know better.
I don't let them even come in my house now.
heatherrae said:LOL...I think he was upset with me because I never pick things off the floor.
heatherrae said:
I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.
You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?
LOL...I suck at this love thing.
jack sparrow said:Exactly. Especially laundry.
Ever notice that they start picking things up off the floor in the bedroom like, on the first date?
They're looking for evidence.
If you think I am shitting, just ask him.BIKINIMOM said:LOL so I take it they just give you head in the parking lot then you push them out the door while the car is still moving?
Thank you. =-)Pat_McCrotch said:i agree with red. Your a a cutie/gorgoeus/beautiful lady. he is fugly, makes a lil vomit come into the back of my throat, big ass head, and (something else real mean right here). I know this doesnt help but really you can do soooo much better. There are still guys like me around who will love you and treat you like a lady. Just go about your days, go out with friends and have fun. Enjoy Devin. But please dont take Devin to happy hour.
all the whey said:Have we dated?
Speaking of "catch"...have you ever thought about hooking up with Lestat?heatherrae said:so, wait a minute, you guys would sleep with a girl but not let her be alone in your house? I knew he dated other gals, so I wouldn't be looking to "catch" him doing anything. I had known him for a long time. It felt weird to me, as if he were afraid I would steal something...lol.
txbondsman said:he sounds like my wife, I here that shit every day, day in day out, I could write a book on that shit....
just so you know, here was yesterday. We have puppy, he was in bed with our son. My son said that the puppy peed in the master bed. There's towels there for the puppy to lay on just for that. I looked, couldn't see any pee, asked him where, he showed me, I look again, nothing, no sign of pee, everythings completely dry.
So, I do my Sunday thing, wash all my sons clothes, 3 loads, dry and fold them, do a wash load of dishtowels, rugs, etc, and all my clothes, 5 loads of clothes wash and put away. I went fishing for 3 hours and came home and cooked a big dinner. In the middle of that I had to work myself at the jail and came back to finish the cooking and I swept the floor, our house is all tile except the 3 bedrooms. I helped my son with his homework as he has 3 tests today, it took an hour or so to get that done.
She comes home from work and our son mentions the puppy and the bed. She hits the cieling and just loses her shit, screaming, cussing that I didn't change the sheets, now she will have to do it herself! She was just balistic, screaming at my son, makes him upset, sends him outside at 10:30 at night to take the puppy out, now he's upset and still awake, that's late for a 10 year old. Bitches for another hour before she finally STFU.....
that aught to make you feel better, I'm married to mine...
Yeah, I am. Thing is, before he came over to my house, I would make sure everything was clean. I put fresh sheets on, fresh towells out, cleaned my car, etc. When I was at his house, I made sure not to have stuff lying everywhere because he is super neat and tidy. With the baby, my messiness has gotten worse because dev cries if I leave the room. It is frustrating.Smurfy said:heather are you sloppy? i dont like sloppy.
txbondsman said:he sounds like my wife, I here that shit every day, day in day out, I could write a book on that shit....
he isn't nearly abusive and mean enough to have me fall in love with him...LOL.jack sparrow said:Speaking of "catch"...have you ever thought about hooking up with Lestat?
where can we get a copy?BIKINIMOM said:I DID write a book on that..![]()
I fucked up MAJOR BIG the first time round, there is no denying that. But I do believe that the second time round I nailed it. Not saying that we don't work at our relationship daily, BECAUSE WE DO... but there is NO WAY that I would tolerate that kind of treatment from a spouse. That is straight up abusive... and I am TRULY SORRY to hear it.![]()
heatherrae said:he isn't nearly abusive and mean enough to have me fall in love with him...LOL.

LOL...that is funny.all the whey said:
BIKINIMOM said:Working a deal with elite as we speak.![]()
we are waiting.all the whey said:Then, I better get working on my "I am leaving Elite forever" thread.
all the whey said:Hell yeah. I remember when I was a n00b and thought they were just being sweet.
Now, I know to hide all my large red panties.
I like this version. ;-)BIKINIMOM said:I am thinking that the next story will go more like this:
HeatherRae had a great conversation and after she met him for a cup of coffee she recognized that he was a flaming asshole because of ONE RED FLAG that she chose not to ignore this time. Now she values herself and refuses to compromise her standards.
So, she hollered, "NEXT!!!"
.... till she and good guy who REALLY like and respect one another met. Then they figured out that they had common life goals, were great friends and wanted to share their lives.. and the sex was REALLY GREAT TOO.
The End
MightyMouse69 said:HamsterShaver, is that you!!!
all the whey said:Then, I better get working on my "I am leaving Elite forever" thread.

jack sparrow said:Speaking of "catch"...have you ever thought about hooking up with Lestat?
heatherrae said:LOL...that is funny.
I called the texan guy my "persian kitty," because he is persian.
LINK!all the whey said:Well, to be honest you are all I got left.
I haven't heard from any of my elite women since they saw layinbacks penis pic.![]()
heatherrae said:I like this version. ;-)
heatherrae said:LINK!
LOL.
all the whey said:Shit!
No!
I think it was taken down. Forget about it.
LOL..now I'm obsessed.all the whey said:Shit!
No!
I think it was taken down. Forget about it.
heatherrae said:LOL..now I'm obsessed.
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