My bf in Texas dumped me

[gotmilk]

he thought I was slamming the door because I was mad at him. He left my camera on the roof of the car when he was putting bags in the car and drove off. Ruined a camera that I had just bought a couple of months prior. Then, he said, "I can't believe a lawyer is upset over a $200 camera." He never admitted he broke it.

Be glad it was not little Damon.....Saturday I watched a couple at the beach put their baby carrier on the roof of their car, jump in the car, and start to drive off. Thankfully, the baby was in the car and not the carrier.

Little D would have been worth more than $200.....

 

[all the whey]

99 times out of 100 our relationship with our father dictates our relationships with men. Women often (unconsciously) try to work out unresolvable issues through boyfriends that were the most painful/recurrent problems they had with their fathers.

 

[Razorguns]

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

Those are just excuses. Don't dwell on those.

Translation: "You are not what I want in life".

No biggie. Better learn it now than 5 years later, when you're older.

Move on, and find someone more compatible. The worst you can do is what most do : Try to make an incompatible relationship "compatible". It's how you get single 40 year olds.

r

 

[redsamurai]

he thought I was slamming the door because I was mad at him. He left my camera on the roof of the car when he was putting bags in the car and drove off. Ruined a camera that I had just bought a couple of months prior. Then, he said, "I can't believe a lawyer is upset over a $200 camera." He never admitted he broke it.

omg this guy sounds like a major fucking trainwreck. Wtf heather? This guy might have some old gf's buried in his backyard........."I'm serious". What a piece of shit. Did he replace it at least?

 

[heatherrae]

omg this guy sounds like a major fucking trainwreck. Wtf heather? This guy might have some old gf's buried in his backyard........."I'm serious". What a piece of shit. Did he replace it at least?

He never ADMITTED that he was the one who did it. He was putting our gym bags in the back and must have set it on the roof of the Jeep. I was putting the baby's car seat in the back. Someone pulled us over and said "a camera flew off the roof." I checked my bag and it was gone. I said "I'm not tall enough and wouldn't put a camera up there where I can't see. I was putting Devin in the car." He didn't apologize he just said, "I can't believe a lawyer would be upset over a $200 camera." LOL. He's such a jerk.

 

[all the whey]

My father and mother were divorced and I had to jump like a doggy through hoops to get attention. "Look daddy, I got straight A's." You get the picture.

 

[heatherrae]

 

[heatherrae]

Holy cow, you are killing me.

 

[heatherrae]

Those are just excuses. Don't well on those.

Translation: "You are not what I want in life".

No biggie. Better learn it now than 5 years later, when you're older.

Move on, and find someone more compatible. The worst you can do is what most do : Try to make a incompatible relationship "compatible". It's how you get single 40 year olds.

r

i actually think the real reason is that I didn't lose the baby weight quickly enough for his taste and he would much rather be sleeping with 20 year olds...lol. Oh well, c'est la vie.

 

[needtogetarmy]

You are intelligent and good looking (a powerful combination) to hell with the TX guy - you can easily do better!