feisty11975 said:oh hell...they have and do all of the above. I really do have to either do something about it or just turn my head. Its hard, either way
weigh out the side effects...
1. You have a few kids and a sister that hates you because you stepped in to make their life better
2. You have a few kids and a sister that eventually end up dead due to drug abuse?
I myself prefer option #1