Men are pigs...

[Gambino]

That kind of abuse CAN be more damaging mentally than physical abuse.

maybe it's harsh, but sometimes a fatty needs to be told they are fat.
maybe it's not PC to tell someone the truth, but every so often the truth is what they should hear

 

[Bikini Mod]

maybe it's harsh, but sometimes a fatty needs to be told they are fat.
maybe it's not PC to tell someone the truth, but every so often the truth is what they should hear

Did your father ever tell you that sometimes you sound REALLY DUMB?

I know the truth might hurt, but hell, that is what people who love you are for..... right?

Don't get pissed at me, as my comment was NOT a personal attack. I was merely trying to point out the silliness of your statement.

There is a difference between calling your daughter FAT (and other such derrogatory comments) in front of other peeps (wonder what he calls her in private) and saying to your daughter, "Hey baby, listen I want to be around for you and someday my grandchildren so I joined a local gym. What say you be my workout partner to keep me motivated?" ..... or some such.

And Blue - yea, amongst other things he says shit like that ALL the time to all of my girls. Makes you wonder why the guy has been fighting me so hard to try and get them away from me all of these years.

It's all good. His time is coming and very soon.

 

[jnevin]

BM, I spoke to her after her ahole father left my office. I told her "never let anyone, including your Dad talk to you like that"
She said "My dad always calls me a fat pig" (she's overweight)

Nice huh!

Jesus, that's horrible.

 

[Sub-Zero]

i honestly wish my parents told me i was fat when i was younger.

i wish they knew about nutrition, and could call me out on being fat, but instead they gave me cakes and shit.

IMO if someone is fat they are doing something WRONG and should be called out on it and helped to correct their fattyness.

i wish i got into sports hard at a younger age and ate good foods. its not too late for me, yet, but i was fucked over for beginning of highschool, and self esteem issues etc....and it was because my parents never called me fat when they should have.


...thjey call me fat now though, which is sort o fweird since the only thing they know about nutrition is what they hear from me (everything else they say is super wrong and retarded)...and they are both way fatter than me

 

[jd_uk]

I can see how you get pissed with the original harassment in your old job but what that guy said to you doesn't seem too bad to me. It's just one comment. Not like it's persistent.

 

[blueta2]

i honestly wish my parents told me i was fat when i was younger.

i wish they knew about nutrition, and could call me out on being fat, but instead they gave me cakes and shit.

IMO if someone is fat they are doing something WRONG and should be called out on it and helped to correct their fattyness.

i wish i got into sports hard at a younger age and ate good foods. its not too late for me, yet, but i was fucked over for beginning of highschool, and self esteem issues etc....and it was because my parents never called me fat when they should have.


...thjey call me fat now though, which is sort o fweird since the only thing they know about nutrition is what they hear from me (everything else they say is super wrong and retarded)...and they are both way fatter than me

My sister was obese by the time she was 13. My Dad thought he was doing good by always bringing up her weight. She hid in her room until she was in her 20's. Ashamed of herself. She lost all the weight but still has the scars of being called names

 

[Smurfy]

i honestly wish my parents told me i was fat when i was younger.

i wish they knew about nutrition, and could call me out on being fat, but instead they gave me cakes and shit.

IMO if someone is fat they are doing something WRONG and should be called out on it and helped to correct their fattyness.

i wish i got into sports hard at a younger age and ate good foods. its not too late for me, yet, but i was fucked over for beginning of highschool, and self esteem issues etc....and it was because my parents never called me fat when they should have.


...thjey call me fat now though, which is sort o fweird since the only thing they know about nutrition is what they hear from me (everything else they say is super wrong and retarded)...and they are both way fatter than me

weird. i was fat from 8th grade all the way until i was 30 then I was skinny for like one day and then it seems over the past 5 yrs Ive gotten fat again. but i dont blame my parents at all. in fact i dont think i place blame about it anywhere. why do that? why create bad feelings between you and your parents or between you and yourself. you're older now and you're in control of yourself so you are making positive changes and you should feel fucking excellent about that..dont spend mental energy thinking about how your parents made you fat. it's pointless and unproductive IMO.

 

[javaguru]

i honestly wish my parents told me i was fat when i was younger.

i wish they knew about nutrition, and could call me out on being fat, but instead they gave me cakes and shit.

IMO if someone is fat they are doing something WRONG and should be called out on it and helped to correct their fattyness.

i wish i got into sports hard at a younger age and ate good foods. its not too late for me, yet, but i was fucked over for beginning of highschool, and self esteem issues etc....and it was because my parents never called me fat when they should have.


...thjey call me fat now though, which is sort o fweird since the only thing they know about nutrition is what they hear from me (everything else they say is super wrong and retarded)...and they are both way fatter than me

Did you have a mirror? Did you notice you were "bigger" than the other kids? I was a chubby(fat) kid when I was younger, until I hit Jr. High. I had unlimited access to junk food and no reasonable limitations were placed on me when it came to food, both my parents grew up during the Great Depression. Anywho, I knew I was fat. I placed reasonable limitations on my junk food consumption and I started with sports, football and wrestling, the weight just melted off. This isn't a flame directed at you sublimezm but people need to accept their own accountability, I figured it out at twelve so it can't be rocket science. If you don't like something about yourself then take steps to change it.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

ok so which is it, the avi or the profile pic?
And it's not nice to make fun or overweight peeps...

All the pics in his gallery are him in bodybuilding there is a cut and bulk. He ain't fat well maybe his head is not so much fat as very large. LOL He is also the bestest training partner in the world and needs to move back to Toronto to scare people away from my weights when I am training. Also he is British seems his humour is missed by most.

 

[jh1]

i honestly wish my parents told me i was fat when i was younger.

i wish they knew about nutrition, and could call me out on being fat, but instead they gave me cakes and shit.

IMO if someone is fat they are doing something WRONG and should be called out on it and helped to correct their fattyness.

i wish i got into sports hard at a younger age and ate good foods. its not too late for me, yet, but i was fucked over for beginning of highschool, and self esteem issues etc....and it was because my parents never called me fat when they should have.


...thjey call me fat now though, which is sort o fweird since the only thing they know about nutrition is what they hear from me (everything else they say is super wrong and retarded)...and they are both way fatter than me

And you bitch about them calling you fat now, in fact you cry.

Make up your mind.

 

[jackangel]

tweakle is a fucking beast.

 

[Gambino]

Did your father ever tell you that sometimes you sound REALLY DUMB?

I know the truth might hurt, but hell, that is what people who love you are for..... right?

Don't get pissed at me, as my comment was NOT a personal attack. I was merely trying to point out the silliness of your statement.

There is a difference between calling your daughter FAT (and other such derrogatory comments) in front of other peeps (wonder what he calls her in private) and saying to your daughter, "Hey baby, listen I want to be around for you and someday my grandchildren so I joined a local gym. What say you be my workout partner to keep me motivated?" ..... or some such.

And Blue - yea, amongst other things he says shit like that ALL the time to all of my girls. Makes you wonder why the guy has been fighting me so hard to try and get them away from me all of these years.

It's all good. His time is coming and very soon.

i didn't really mean it like in a demeaning way
making fun of somebody, not what i meant
the raw truth...you're a little bit overweight, you could lose some weight, etc.
and you've made many a comment regarding how americans are fat
so i don't see what the difference is, except i'm saying call them to their faces
(if warranted)

 

[javaguru]

tweakle is a fucking beast.

So you're saying you would hit it????

 

[Sub-Zero]

And you bitch about them calling you fat now, in fact you cry.

Make up your mind.

i already know i am/was fat, so them saying it after the fact doenst help

 

[biteme]

oink, oink

 

[Bikini Mod]

i didn't really mean it like in a demeaning way
making fun of somebody, not what i meant
the raw truth...you're a little bit overweight, you could lose some weight, etc.
and you've made many a comment regarding how americans are fat
so i don't see what the difference is, except i'm saying call them to their faces
(if warranted)

With all of the pressure for women to be thin (dont know if it is the same in Canada as it is in the US) do you honestly believe that a 17 year old girl
doesn't realize she is fat if she is?

But more importantly do you think that it is remotely helpfull for the father of that 17 year old girl to call her fat in front of someone else?

I was fat from the time I was a little kid and trust me when I tell you - I KNEW IT. I suffered for years with all sorts of eating disorders because I didnt WANT to be fat. I just didn't know how not to be. I didn't understand how different foods would be metabolized in my body, nor did I understand the importance of physical fitness. I know that sounds silly, but it is 100% true. So all I knew to do was to starve myself. Even when I did join a gym at 17 (I had a car and a job so I could pay for my gas/insurance/gym membership, etc) I STILL didn't understand how food was metabolized or how too much cardio and no weight resistance training would actually be counterproductive and make me skinny-fat. Thus began the vicious cycle of yo-yo weight fluctuations.

Believe it or not but it wasn't until I accidentally stumbled upon the women's training forum of elite (around the time I began competing and modeling) and got hooked up with an AWESOME trainer (helped me prepare for my first BBing comp) that I truly learned the basic principles necessary to attain and maintain fitness. The last 10 years of knowledge that I have gained through working w/clients as a personal trainer only added to that base.

Bottom line is there are A LOT of fatties out there who are just clueless and having family call them fat in front of total strangers doesnt help.

To talk to your own child that way is ABUSIVE. period. It doesn't motivate someone, it actually causes that person to hate themselves MORE.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

then go find some apron strings, pops....

Haven't gotten laid lately huh?

Sorry!