Men. any idea?

[mrplunkey]

Okay, here's the answer here, people:

If he didn't know where the panties came from, he'd be just as perplexed as Myway is about how strange underwear got in his laundry. He's a fucking cop, he'd want an answer to the mystery, it's in his nature.

He sure as shit wouldn't go, "Huh, well ain't that funny? You know I love you babe."

He'd go "Where the fuck did those things come from and how the fuck did they get in there?!" He'd be scratching his head, he'd be bouncing some ideas off his wife, he'd come home from work and tell her about how he asked a couple of buddies he'd pulled pranks on if they put them in his pocket to get him in trouble with his jealous wife.

The man is not wondering where the panties came from because he knows where they came from.

Good point -- wouldn't a cop's intellectual curiosity drive him toward wanting to know?

 

[EnderJE]

Good point -- wouldn't a cop's intellectual curiosity drive him toward wanting to know?

Maybe he's a shitty copy?

 

[binö]

Okay, here's the answer here, people:

If he didn't know where the panties came from, he'd be just as perplexed as Myway is about how strange underwear got in his laundry. He's a fucking cop, he'd want an answer to the mystery, it's in his nature.

He sure as shit wouldn't go, "Huh, well ain't that funny? You know I love you babe."

He'd go "Where the fuck did those things come from and how the fuck did they get in there?!" He'd be scratching his head, he'd be bouncing some ideas off his wife, he'd come home from work and tell her about how he asked a couple of buddies he'd pulled pranks on if they put them in his pocket to get him in trouble with his jealous wife.The man is not wondering where the panties came from because he knows where they came from.

actions of a guilty man trying to be elaborate with excuses and gestures
been there before for sure...if i was officernate and innocent, i would react the same way, like "wtf, it's not mine, i don't know, get over it"
esp after a long day of haggling with criminals...he's proly thinking it's not a big deal and reacted approriatley...i assume myway wasn't outright with her rage and suspicion.
this is of course speculation, but it's not as cut and dry as you make it seem...plus previous posts indicate their has been trust issues in the past...which can equal automatically assuming the worse in a relationship even if the worse has not really happened
the worse is what you project to have happen, and if this projection is negative, then the relationship is over

 

[binö]

Good point -- wouldn't a cop's intellectual curiosity drive him toward wanting to know?

you think he's gonna finger print the fuggin panties? send them away for forensic testing (dna in skid marks can reveal a lot)

 

[all the whey]

I know you don't like mentioning this, but what was the deal with the smashed laptop - does that tie in at all as far as trust issues on your part or reasons for the lack of trust etc?

Is there a pattern of behavior on his behalf that you haven't disclosed (not that you are obligated to tell us anything)? Have you ever had infidelity issues or questionable behavior be an issue BEFORE the panties incident?

I'm not sure what I'd do in your shoes...I probably would have kept quiet about it for a while till I decided whether or not to do a little digging and/or mental cataloging of behavior patterns.

Wow you nailed that!

Lying about cell calls and emails change everything.


I doubt any guy would ever get away with cheating on you!@ You run a tight ship!

 

[Bikini Mod]

There are alot of things where there is no reasonable explanation.

There's no reasonable explanation for religion, rampant consumer debt and morbidly obese fat people. If people are willing to believe in some holy ghost without any proof, getting ahead by bad debt, and eating to oblivion, then a wife could believe her husband.

However, I do understand your position. Given your all your stories, I'm not surprised about your position. I'm just saying to give him the benefit of the doubt given that none of us really know him.

There is a difference between having faith in a divine force and turning your head to an obvious indiscretion.

I am 40 years old and seen a bit of life (not hardly near as much as I would like to see though!). I am one of the greatest proponents of thinking outside the box and "why be normal" and don't let others decide your reality HOWEVER if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, quacks like a duck... it is most likely A DUCK.

Sucks for Myway, but c'est la vie. We all get knocked down, that's just life. That don't make us special. What DOES separate one from the herd is that they keep getting back up.

 

[Dial_tone]

From avi's it looks like the panties could belong to Bikinimom.

 

[Smurfy]

hire someone to find him out somehow.

exactly
i wouldnt hesitate to have him followed

 

[all the whey]

There is a difference between having faith in a divine force and turning your head to an obvious indiscretion.

I am 40 years old and seen a bit of life (not hardly near as much as I would like to see though!). I am one of the greatest proponents of thinking outside the box and "why be normal" and don't let others decide your reality HOWEVER if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, quacks like a duck... it is most likely A DUCK.

Sucks for Myway, but c'est la vie. We all get knocked down, that's just life. That don't make us special. What DOES separate one from the herd is that they keep getting back up.

 

[velvett]

My, my, he must be a real cocky fellow to just go to bed after his wife and mother of his newborn child just found another woman's panties in his laundry.

And when you say a "clean phone' do you mean the recent calls, missed calls or do you mean the actual phone bill?

If you mean the actual phone and that he clears all the incoming and outgoing messages - that is a bit odd (paranoid or devious). And since I'm rambling, what did he do in the past to make you feel that you have to check his phone?