Also I have more control over my emotions/way I act with mj over alcy. I can't be so high I can't function or remember what I did the night before. I don't think grown ups or late teens piss themselves when they smoke too much weed either.
It most definitely does. But a lot of alcoholics (functional ones) sober-up overnight. While they may not be at their physical best, they can still show-up the next day and mentally perform at near 100%.
Daily stoners can't do that. I'm sure they think they are fine, but regular (i.e. almost daily or daily) pot use leaves you in a fog that can't be shaken with a single night's sleep.