major problem, an adivice would be welcom

[justwannagetsum]

yestrda I was helping m friend make fina. m girlfirend came home an hour and a half earl and walked in while i was filtering the shit. she was shocked. She had no idea. M friend has hep c and is about to start chemo for it, so he wanted to bulk up before so he doesnt waste away. She asked me if I did any, I said no, was for my friend, blah blah. I dont think she bel;ieves me, maybe i should just admint I used to? I am off cycle now. I think its most ly the deception from me I am fraked, I would give m next cycle's gear away if she wants to try again. this woman is perfect for me, i am reall hurtin, an advice would be welcom. Do you guys(and gals) think I should tell her I was juicing, cause then she will know I lied to her 2x. but she suspects Im lying alread. Thanks all...
JWGS

 

[frorider6]

Kick her in the twat. She'll forget all about the Fina.

 

[justwannagetsum]

Kick her in the twat. She'll forget all about the Fina

very mature.

 

[georgie24]

either way good luck

 

[vinylgroover]

Guess it depends on what's more important to you. So far it sounds like the Fina. If the steroids are important enough for you to lie to her then tell her and live with the consequences. if the juice is that important to you, then you shouldn't feel ashamed if it does spell the end of the relationship. Just make sure you put your needs ahead of anyone else's, whatever they are.

 

[justwannagetsum]

'Guess it depends on what's more important to you. So far it sounds like the Fina. If the steroids are important enough for you to lie to her then tell her and live with the consequences. if the juice is that important to you, then you shouldn't feel ashamed if it does spell the end of the relationship. Just make sure you put your needs ahead of anyone else's, whatever they are."


I would gladly give away my stock that I have for my next ccle to get her back. I told her I did it for a short time and decided it wasnt for me. But I thought it was ok to help a friend make some fina. She wont take my calls at all. This blows

 

[Aileen]

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WOW, she's really upset about this, my best advise as a girl. is to be honest with her....If she's not taking your calls.......go to her then......face to face.....and be honest again and tell her the way you feel, and that you don't want to loose her over this... period......

 

[Genie]

'Guess it depends on what's more important to you. So far it sounds like the Fina. If the steroids are important enough for you to lie to her then tell her and live with the consequences. if the juice is that important to you, then you shouldn't feel ashamed if it does spell the end of the relationship. Just make sure you put your needs ahead of anyone else's, whatever they are."


I would gladly give away my stock that I have for my next ccle to get her back. I told her I did it for a short time and decided it wasnt for me. But I thought it was ok to help a friend make some fina. She wont take my calls at all. This blows

Keep trying to call her andmake her hear you out. No, if you truely love this woman, I am glad that you would give up teh juice for the relationship if that is what it takes to make her happy. More than likely, she is simply uneducated on this topic and you need to try to explain yoru reason for doing it. It is not the worse thing in teh world and she maay just be mor eupset that you lied or kept somethign from her ratyehr than the actual use itself. Find out if that is it - if so, what you have is a trust issue, not a drug issue.

When my fiance (boyfriend at the time) finalyy told me he did it, I chose not to get too upset because I didn't really know enough about the stuff to know how bad, if at all, it can be. I trust him and trust that he will be careful with his self and his body. But ultimately, it is his body. His choice. And I have educated myself on teh topic, so know we can discuss it openly, wihout secrets.

I would do everythign you can to make her understand taht you never menat to hurt her and that you are sorry for keeping this from her. Then explain to her yoru reasons for doing it. But I am sure, if she loves you, she will forgive you. She is just mad right now and taking a stand. Once she calms down, have a talk. And send flowers - always works.

 

[Aileen]

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WOW, she's really upset about this, my best advise as a girl. is to be honest with her....If she's not taking your calls.......go to her then......face to face.....and be honest again and tell her the way you feel, and that you don't want to loose her over this... period......

 

[justwannagetsum]

Thanks Aileen and genie. I sent her flowers yesterday actually. Then last night I drove by her house to give her some pizza(her fav) and she was pulling in in front of me, she saw me and just kept going. No word from her today at all. I think it is best not to contact her at all. mabe give her some space and not look so needy. i wish I never heard of juice. Wrking out right now is making me sick. I just want her back.......