made some major changes this weekend.

[NJjuice22]

deciding to stop drinking , partying, and all the other nasty irresponsilbe things I do. I changed my phone numbers, only family and a best friend or 2 can contact me now..i was getting out of control and for someone like me who has self-control issues, my only way to make a change is to completely cut off everything and everyone that is negative from my life...i gotta get back on track.

 

[Ish]

Good luck with that.

 

[KillahBee]

good luck with it bro. only time will tell - just take it one day at a time. it may suck at first, but after a while you will begin to see how much better life can be.

 

[JayC9]

cold turkey!

 

[Dunk]

deciding to stop drinking , partying, and all the other nasty irresponsilbe things I do. I changed my phone numbers, only family and a best friend or 2 can contact me now..i was getting out of control and for someone like me who has self-control issues, my only way to make a change is to completely cut off everything and everyone that is negative from my life...i gotta get back on track.

so i guess were not hittin up the city then

 

[bran987]

ever tried this before?

 

[NJjuice22]

ever tried this before?

well , i have only been like this for last year or 2..before that..I had control of things and rarely partied/drank to much/etc. I have said im going to "stop" before but it has never been under these circumstance ( i had a realllly bad weekend, I dont want to get into details, but to say it was a "wakeup call" is an understatement)

 

[slat1]

Best of luck! I pretty much did the same thing a little while back.

 

[bran987]

well , i have only been like this for last year or 2..before that..I had control of things and rarely partied/drank to much/etc. I have said im going to "stop" before but it has never been under these circumstance ( i had a realllly bad weekend, I dont want to get into details, but to say it was a "wakeup call" is an understatement)

do something really embarassing? make you feel sick at your stomach when you woke up the next day? same thing has happened to me...

 

[theoak01]

NJ had a karla incident

 

[PICK3]

I need to make some major changes too ... I'm fucking up pretty regularly right now.

Good luck!

 

[swole]

We're with ya bor, keep your head up!

 

[Dunk]

we should start a club.

after this weekend im feelin ya pain orb.

the type of shit when u wake up sunday mornign and say to yourself what the fuck am i doing with my life?

 

[PICK3]

we should start a club?

in

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Good job NJ I am sure you will be back on track in no time.

 

[bran987]

we should start a club.

EFAA? lmao

 

[PICK3]

EFAA? lmao

lol! I'll go first.

My name is PICK3 and I have a problem ...

 

[Cutiebaby]

good luck Nj just stay focused and you'll do fine

 

[Lestat]

sounds pretty extreme.. good luck

 

[pitbullstl]

deciding to stop drinking , partying, and all the other nasty irresponsilbe things I do. I changed my phone numbers, only family and a best friend or 2 can contact me now..i was getting out of control and for someone like me who has self-control issues, my only way to make a change is to completely cut off everything and everyone that is negative from my life...i gotta get back on track.

Move. It's the best answer, start over somewhere else..(I believe you metioned wanting to move anyway)

Best of luck bro, I went through the same thing in my early-mid twenties.

 

[NJjuice22]

thanks, i'll let you all know how it goes.

 

[PICK3]

thanks, i'll let you all know how it goes.

boredom is my greatest enemy ... that's when I fall off the wagon

 

[nycgirl]

Move. It's the best answer, start over somewhere else..(I believe you metioned wanting to move anyway)

Best of luck bro, I went through the same thing in my early-mid twenties.

I agree with pitbull. I moved almost 4 years ago from New York to get away from the negativity, drama, and this fucked up person I allowed into my life. Anyway, one of the top 5 greatest decisions I've made in my life so far.

Take it one day at a time. Good luck and best wishes with everything.

 

[NJjuice22]

boredom is my greatest enemy ... that's when I fall off the wagon

well im sure you know the saying "Idle hands are the devil's play thing"

 

[jaded]

Best of luck... As Killah said, take things one day at a time. Good luck!!

 

[NJjuice22]

I agree with pitbull. I moved almost 4 years ago from New York to get away from the negativity, drama, and this fucked up person I allowed into my life. Anyway, one of the top 5 greatest decisions I've made in my life so far.

Take it one day at a time. Good luck and best wishes with everything.

well im currently working on my resume and the only thing keeping me here is I have a pretty good job , if i can find something almost as good i would move tommorrow...my only pre-requisite , is its not in the middle of nowhere and its warm year around (im tired of these northeast winters)...thats it.

 

[nycgirl]

well im currently working on my resume and the only thing keeping me here is I have a pretty good job , if i can find something almost as good i would move tommorrow...my only pre-requisite , is its not in the middle of nowhere and its warm year around (im tired of these northeast winters)...thats it.

Check the D.C. area. Check monster.com and washingtonpost.com

With regard to salaries . . it's about the same as the NYC area. Rent is about the same, however, you get more for your money. After 4.5 years in Syracuse and living most of life in NYC, I wanted to go someplace milder too. But still had a decent nightlife. I live in Northern VA (15 min - outside of D.C.), it isn't the middle of nowhere and the winters are mild in comparison to the northeast.

 

[Raptorex]

deciding to stop drinking , partying, and all the other nasty irresponsilbe things I do. I changed my phone numbers, only family and a best friend or 2 can contact me now..i was getting out of control and for someone like me who has self-control issues, my only way to make a change is to completely cut off everything and everyone that is negative from my life...i gotta get back on track.

Awesome bud, it will all work out just fine...best of luck.

 

[PICK3]

well im sure you know the saying "Idle hands are the devil's play thing"

Yep, for sure!

 

[nutsnack]

Did you kill a hooker BEFORE having sex with her!?!

 

[Elite_Fry]

i gotta get my shit together one of these days also
but dont seem to be able to find the time

 

[DIVISION]

i gotta get my shit together one of these days also
but dont seem to be able to find the time

I thought you were going back in the Army?




DIV

 

[Elite_Fry]

I thought you were going back in the Army?




DIV

nah cant anymore. i done my back in and doc recons ill have pain for the next 20-30 years. regardless to say, there is a shit load of stuff i cant do nemore, and a lot of the army training i wouldnt be able to handle anymore.

 

[DIVISION]

nah cant anymore. i done my back in and doc recons ill have pain for the next 20-30 years. regardless to say, there is a shit load of stuff i cant do nemore, and a lot of the army training i wouldnt be able to handle anymore.

Bro, you're just a fuckin' kid, how did you manage to fuck up your back this early? I was in the Army six years and I never got any serious injuries....

What kind of things can you not do anymore that precludes you from being in the Army?



DIV

 

[Elite_Fry]

Bro, you're just a fuckin' kid, how did you manage to fuck up your back this early? I was in the Army six years and I never got any serious injuries....

What kind of things can you not do anymore that precludes you from being in the Army?



DIV

I injured my back while in the Army, and of course i didnt mention anything so it kept getting worse. Seen numerous specialists, had MRIS, XRays, Blood Tests etc. and nothing has come up. I've had pain for 2 years now and theres been no improvement.

Back marches were the killer. I passed out while doing a 10km because the pain became too unbearable, and thats when they found out i had a problem.

It will come and go, but anything can really bring it on. Sitting or standing for long periods of time etc. for example. And at the worst stages i can barely move and cant do anything but lay down.

I could just drug myself up with pain killers, but you gotta be fully focused in the Army, and wouldnt want to jeopardise anything important. This is why i had to get out.

 

[DIVISION]

I injured my back while in the Army, and of course i didnt mention anything so it kept getting worse. Seen numerous specialists, had MRIS, XRays, Blood Tests etc. and nothing has come up. I've had pain for 2 years now and theres been no improvement.

Back marches were the killer. I passed out while doing a 10km because the pain became too unbearable, and thats when they found out i had a problem.

It will come and go, but anything can really bring it on. Sitting or standing for long periods of time etc. for example. And at the worst stages i can barely move and cant do anything but lay down.

I could just drug myself up with pain killers, but you gotta be fully focused in the Army, and wouldnt want to jeopardise anything important. This is why i had to get out.

You should have gone to your medic as soon as you noticed the pain. If it's not showing in the X-rays or MRI's then it's probably a muscle spasm or tendonitis. They would give you muscle relaxants for that, and painkillers perhaps. I worked with alot of soldier who were taking Percocet for various ailments, it's really not a big deal in the Army.




DIV

 

[slack3r2]

i tried the same thing you are doing for awhile. once i got out of high school i started drinking alot more, everyday to be exact. then started doin sissy drugs more, then started doing coke. thats when it went pretty downhill. wasnt doing shit with my life except livin to get fucked up the next day. tried to quit..was still around the same people. got sick and tired of it one day so i said fuck this shit. i hate nothing to loose, so i packed my shit up with a friend and moved 900 miles away. best thing i have ever done and the rest is history.

You should have gone to your medic as soon as you noticed the pain. If it's not showing in the X-rays or MRI's then it's probably a muscle spasm or tendonitis. They would give you muscle relaxants for that, and painkillers perhaps. I worked with alot of soldier who were taking Percocet for various ailments, it's really not a big deal in the Army.




DIV