i don't find it hard.. but i'm not a type of person that needs somebody.
this is also an ongoing type of deal where she lived in *** i lived in ***, then she moved out with me, then we moved to ***, then here, then she went back to ***, now i'm moving back out to ***.
but when we were "together" and not living together, we'd see each other at least every 4-5 weeks... which makes it easier.
how far apart are you guys?