Dom, especially since I always end up with sub women.
It's is sexy for the woman to take charge from time to time. Princessa, if you want to call me a slut and make me do dirty things for 90 minutes or so, I could be down for that.
lol indeed. People can desire things they don't actually want, but will compartmentalize things into places where it is safe and acceptable. If you get pleasure from pain, humiliation or domination what are you supposed to do until you've dealt with it? Lol. You invite the sadists in...that's exactly what happens.