Nathan
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You only don't give a hug if something really fucking weird went down. Never had that happen.
Depends on what I'm looking for - if I like her, I hope she just kisses me with a slight bit of making out. If I'm attracted to her but don't really like her, I usually hope she'll sleep with me. I don't ask out girls I'm not attracted to so I'm not really sure about the other options.
When I was younger, I handled it like the above though I'm much less likely to waste my time nowadays. In my defense, I always told 'em what was up but I've been powerfully stupid and rude. I believe I once said "I think you should shut up and we should have sex." She must have thought I was joking or something even though I totally wasn't. I actually ran into that girl two days ago - still into the fitness thing and looking good. Class act for sure.
You can also say "I really don't see this turning into a relationship" BEFORE sex and girls will still sleep with you. Like, wtf I don't know but I can get a pretty good inkling if we're clicking so if I've got such a feeling, I'll blurt it the fuck out before sleeping with a girl - I ain't doing that dirtbag bullshit where I know I'm starting to not feel it and don't say anything (assuming the aforementioned course of action doesn't fall into the dirtbag category). Honesty is gold.
Depends on what I'm looking for - if I like her, I hope she just kisses me with a slight bit of making out. If I'm attracted to her but don't really like her, I usually hope she'll sleep with me. I don't ask out girls I'm not attracted to so I'm not really sure about the other options.
When I was younger, I handled it like the above though I'm much less likely to waste my time nowadays. In my defense, I always told 'em what was up but I've been powerfully stupid and rude. I believe I once said "I think you should shut up and we should have sex." She must have thought I was joking or something even though I totally wasn't. I actually ran into that girl two days ago - still into the fitness thing and looking good. Class act for sure.
You can also say "I really don't see this turning into a relationship" BEFORE sex and girls will still sleep with you. Like, wtf I don't know but I can get a pretty good inkling if we're clicking so if I've got such a feeling, I'll blurt it the fuck out before sleeping with a girl - I ain't doing that dirtbag bullshit where I know I'm starting to not feel it and don't say anything (assuming the aforementioned course of action doesn't fall into the dirtbag category). Honesty is gold.