Ladies - A Good First Date - How Far Do You Go?

[yonkers weights]

Sounds like you are but your not, right???

after reading this thread I am sure I'm a Prude now

 

[covergrl80]

Sounds like you are but your not, right???

No I am

 

[Bikini Mod]

How Does A Good Frist Date For You End...

VERBAL GOOD BYE
HUG
KISS ON THE CHEEK
KISS ON THE LIPS
MAKEOUT
DRY HUMP
HE PLAYS WITH YOUR TWINS
FINGERS FOR YOU / HANDJOB FOR HIM
ORAL SEX
FUCK HIS BRAINS OUT

GUYS
*What do you HOPE for?
*What do you get?

See it was different every time as I dated near exclusively online. If there was A LOT of personal contact before we met in the flesh and if that carried over into the date and I was feelin' him anything could happen. It all depended on a few factors.

However, if there was little contact before the physical date then the more I liked the guy, the less I would do in the way of kissing/sex. I know it sounds wierd but if I really REALLY REALLY liked the guy and didn't want to screw things up and wanted to take my time to truly get to know him and he me/not even a kiss was exchanged. A warm full-on body hug above the waist - absolutely, but that is it. If I didn't really like him and he didn't get on my nerves too much and I was there (meaning too far to come back home that night) I might or might not have doinked him just to get my itch scratched. But, that was a NIGHTMARE for the mst part. You only have to do that a coupla few times to realize that no matter how horny you are, the trouble you have to go through to get your clothing off just aint worth the ordeal of having to get them back on again in a hurry so you can bolt as quickly as humanly possible before he even realized you were gone - the sex was usually THAT BAD.

As for my husband - I don't think we made it past 5 hours and I was rocking his world. We had daily contact for about a month - hours and hours and hours on the phone/chatting/emailing. Our first date lasted 2 weeks. Our second date also lasted 2 weeks and we were married on our 3rd date. Since that time I think we have been separated for maybe 2 weeks. Will be married one year on Halloween.

There are always exceptions to every rule.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

A Thank you, then a hug and a kiss on the cheek good night.
If it's bad your not getting a hug or a kiss. However I will still give you a Thank you

What if the guy goes in to kiss you....do you give him the cheek? He will be thinking ah she didn't like me, and will probably move on, unless you clarify.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

How Does A Good Frist Date For You End...

VERBAL GOOD BYE
HUG
KISS ON THE CHEEK
KISS ON THE LIPS
MAKEOUT
DRY HUMP
HE PLAYS WITH YOUR TWINS
FINGERS FOR YOU / HANDJOB FOR HIM
ORAL SEX
FUCK HIS BRAINS OUT

GUYS
*What do you HOPE for?
*What do you get?

Or how bout this one: date goes well, you ladies like the guy....but he doesn't try to kiss you goodnight.

How does that leave you feeling?

 

[Arabian]

Damn, why cant I ever meet woman like the ones on this board.. Dry hump, kiss, play with the fun bags,.... Hell Ive been financing the Queen Mary to get laid.. loolololo

 

[nab12]

One nighters and fucking on the first date are different things - to me at any rate. Picking up someone for the sole idea of sex is not the same thing as taking someone out trying to make them believe that you want to "get to know them" and hope you get some.

I think that might be a problem some people have - is separating those two ways of thinking.

I went out with a girl this weekend, and we talked about this. She said she had had a 1 nighter before, but never had sex on the first date. So I figured out quickly I wasnt getting laid. However, I really am not interested in her, as far as dating her again. I'd love to fuck her though. So the question is, if she would have had sex with me should I have done it? She would have been wanting a relationship and I would have just wanted sex. Should I make myself miserable by not getting off and going home horny as hell or should I have pleased myself and let her worry about me not calling her back again? Why is it my responsiblity to not hurt her feelings?

 

[heatherrae]

I went out with a girl this weekend, and we talked about this. She said she had had a 1 nighter before, but never had sex on the first date. So I figured out quickly I wasnt getting laid. However, I really am not interested in her, as far as dating her again. I'd love to fuck her though. So the question is, if she would have had sex with me should I have done it? She would have been wanting a relationship and I would have just wanted sex. Should I make myself miserable by not getting off and going home horny as hell or should I have pleased myself and let her worry about me not calling her back again? Why is it my responsiblity to not hurt her feelings?

There are plenty of gals who will sleep with you just for the heck of it. There is no need to hurt someone who is sincerely looking for a relationship.

 

[javaguru]

There are plenty of gals who will sleep with you just for the heck of it. There is no need to hurt someone who is sincerely looking for a relationship.

Women go on dates with men knowing they don't want to date him, for the free dinner and a movie. People suck....

 

[heatherrae]

Women go on dates with men knowing they don't want to date him, for the free dinner and a movie. People suck....

I'm mildly guilty of that.



PS -- I'm not saying that I've never slept with a guy on the first date. Sometimes, stuff just happens. I'm just saying that NORMALLY I just make out a bit with the ones who turn me on and others just get a hug and a thank you.