Love is tough when you care about somebody and go through this. Someone mentioned move on though it will hurt and she may reappear. When I was married (yea I was once straight) my girlfriend at the time (my wife) wanted space and broke my heart by moving on. Well I never had so much fucking fun and hooked up with another beauty (debbie) and dated her for about a month. Ignored my wife which showed her I had moved on even though i really did not. Well she came back to me and after that said she wanted to amrry. This is a chick thing so roll with it. (don't kill her) lol