just met this awesome girl, but need help

[the_only_sepe]

I am a bouncer at the local beach club by my house, just a seasonal job(summer). I just started working there again for the summer. I met this really cool waitress that is different than any girl ive ever met, great personality, looks,good attitude.We start talking and hanging out a bit, well come to find out we are a great match, except for the way she parties, (non stop everynight) I am an aspiring fitnes model, who has great self control, (no party drugs or drinking, because my fitness goals come first) Even though she is very pretty I see right past that, this has never happened b4, I actually like her for who she is and not mainly what she looks like. Well, the dillema is, she is 19, I am 22 she is a harcore partier, getting off work at 2:00 a.m. staying up till 6 and shit like that, I adhere to my bodybuilding lifestyle and go right to sleep when I get off at 2:00. we even talk about her getting her stuff together, she wants to but hopefully I can give her the extra help she needs, I love helping people, what do yall think, too much trouble or is it a mission to be accomplished,lol??she has even been to the doc to try and get something to calm her down, she goes non stop(hopefully in the bed too)lol.

thanks for taking the time to read this and for the input.

666 the mark of the woman!!

 

[WODIN]

Run like hell!

You can not change people only they can make any internal changes that lead to an external expression such as getting her shit together.

I repeat Run like hell.

 

[Peyote Killa]

You sound alot like one of my good friends, but he is not as governed as you are towards his goals. Anyways, if the two of you match up well, then go for it and if her life style starts to be a problem then let her know, and chunk dueces. Other than that you are only 22 so don't be in a hurry for anything.

 

[the_only_sepe]

ok, its weird, I havent ever met a girl like this b4, I know it is a stage she is going through and she is trying to get it out of her system,so she says. but she does hold down 3 jobs and pays her bills, and is smart also(book smart). the partying aspect is not so bad, its the dumbasses she parties with that I dont know, who drive around drunk doing 110mph. smokin pot that dont take responsibilitiy for others with them.(wrong group of friends) I almost just want to call her mom, (she's cool) and just say hey, you daughter is going to end up dead if you dont do something, just to help her out, whether it pisses her off or not.


oh and btw, I fall waaaaay to easy for girls, thats why I try to protect my self from getting hurt and have stayed single for a while

I guess I need to just slow my roll, if possible and just see how things go, is there any drugs out there that make you numb to emotions?? lol I could use em some time

 

[the nature boy]

dude I know you don't want to hear this but you're 22, you don't need to get involved seriously with one particular girl. Date around. Dating seriuosly with one person is what you're 30's are for.

Wodin is right though, you can't change this person. I've known many girls like this, and partied like that too. They have to change on their own, and it could take years for her to get it out of her system.

 

[the_only_sepe]

dude I know you don't want to hear this but you're 22, you don't need to get involved seriously with one particular girl. Date around. Dating seriuosly with one person is what you're 30's are for.

Wodin is right though, you can't change this person. I've known many girls like this, and partied like that too. They have to change on their own, and it could take years for her to get it out of her system.

true about wodins comment, man, I dont know what the f'in deal is , I either lovem or hatem from the start so theres not much dating for me,sux I guess thats why I stay single for so long, I know after 1 hour of talking to them or less, if I want to try and pursue a relationship

 

[Peyote Killa]

This might come off as really wierd, but do you work at The Seabrook Beach Club?

 

[the_only_sepe]

check your pm peyote